lords.
by home cooked i meant home cooked, not frozen foods. hey, how about this: when i get back to NOLA i'll cook you something from scratch. and you'll see how inexpensive and delicious it is, and how much of an accomplishment it is to have something delicious come from your own hands.
i'm not a MEAN person just because i hate a certain place. i hate kenner. i hate all the restaurants there, too. i ate at mama rosa's on williams and it was terrible. i ate at brick oven cafe at the intersection of veterans and williams and that was even worse. so, maybe me joking that i wish it were washed away is supposed to be taken with some tongue in cheek attitude? or are you capable of that?
me saying i'll spit in your ranch was half true, half not true. i'm professional. as much as people piss me off i would never do anything to someone's food. i averaged $150+ a night at the place i worked at before the hurricane (and this was a CHEAP place, family style at that). that was because of the service i bestowed upon customers, customers who weren't as nitpicky as you (seriously, i have NEVER heard of someone getting pissed off about the intricate semantics of refills), and just providing a good dining experience. if you hate these restaurants, why go back? especially when in new orleans, there are so many other choices. maybe you just have a lot of free time.
i don't see how working at a donut shop makes you the god of service. did you work at tastee donuts? trust me, i've been there, and it isn't exactly table service, or counter service even, at that. come work where i work, or any restaurant at that, and i will show you come hard work, busting your ass. and then see how you feel about how serving should be.
all your complaints about servers are null and void until you actually do it for yourself.