well 1st off....to even try to define love you had to think you experenced it. personally with love you get heart ache no matter what. either it dont work out, they lie or cheat on you, or they die. there is never a happy ending. yeah when your in love with someone its great, an awsome feeling and all.
sex has become a big part os todays society. what people forget is that there are std's and pregnecy. i love all these 16 year old grls getting pregnant. thats the basis of sex is to reproduce. we have just taken as making us feel good.
i am not a virgin. i lost it when i was 20 years old. to a man i DID love. we were going to get married. well he was a lier. him and I were together for 3 or 4 years when i finally slept with him. so it wasent somthing i steped into lightly. my newer bf i have known for 5 years b4 we started dateing. i have slept with him. i am goign to be 23 years old next month and i have only slept with to guys. both which i loved. so i still have my respect. and when you love someone it is somthing special to share with that person. so i say if your still a virgin. stay that way until you are ready. people said things about me beign a virgin. i ddint care at least i know i respected myself. and most people make fun of people who are cuz they are jelious and wish they would have saved theres for someone special.
Heart ache.... now this subject can go either way. its horrible. its amazing how one person can make you feel so good with love or so horrible with heart ache. but i also think heart ache is a consequence of love. nothing good comes from it. to many people lust now a days and they think its love. there are no happy endings. i have learned this. people are liers and cheaters. not me. but alot of people i know. and society thinks this is ok.
so at last good luck with love and heart ache and of course sex. none of them will bring you true happiness. theres always doubt. always worry.