yeah thanks man, but ive tried the wont break your heart thing, ill tell you a bit about her, she isint one of the really preety popular girls in the grade, i made a few paragraph e-mail to her and she replied back like 1 sentence, and i sent to one of those preety popular girls(cause she wanted to read it) and i made the preety popular girl cry. but my ex wouldent even think about it, i donno waht to do, anyway im gonna keep trying. thanks for all of your help guys.