brother problems

[Pheonix791989]

has any one ever had to deal with the death of both your mom and your oldest brother? what should I do. I dont know what to think any more now that hes gone. He left me to take care of his little 4 yr old kid if anything had happened to him when he was fighting in iraq. can any one give me some advice?

 

[uwantme2b]

I'm so sorry you have had to go through this. I can't say I've ever experienced any such thing, but the only thing I can think of to help is to find someone to talk it through with. Either another family member who may be suffering the way you are, or some kind of therapy. It is a good idea to make some connections to people who will be able to support you through this.

 

[Blaze]

I am so sorry to hear about this. I have experianced death in the family once (one of my close cousins, shot himself to death this may) but not as severe as this, not mother or brother. I am so sad. This is too sad to avoid trying to help you. if you ever neeed help, ask me....

 

[keza]

thats so hard, i know tlots of people doing the army thing too but nothing as close as my brother!

but theyre both gone??? *hugs u* thats so horrible all you can do sweetie is talk it out with someone or multiple people and cry it out your system, sounds gay but crying is supposed to be the best therapy for a broken heart..

if u ever need anyone those loads here willing to help you out, including me, say if you need anything...im so sorry

 

[Pheonix791989]

thank you guys for your advice but now I have to deal with another thorn in my side at the moment.

 

[majinkamahl]

The passing of a fellow soldier?

*salutes*

You have my sympathies. Losing a troop is never easy.

 

[azemkamikaze03]

Yeah my dad is taking clases for poisins...hes taking TDY

Hes probabaly going to Iraq soon...im sorry for ur loss

 

[stupidsoul1]

*gives you a big hug*

why do you have to take care of his child? where is the mother??

im sorry to hear about your losses, but i know you will do the best you can to take care of the child.

 

[acdcrules04]

*hugs* i lost my big sister last may. umm... You never really get over it (you probably already know that) but you know, there are times in your life that will be better, i'm sorry, i really don't know what to say, reading your post brought back memories, and i can't really think right now, sorry

 

[Pheonix791989]

well the main reason y I have to look after his boy is because the mom walked out on my brother when the kid was 2. Its been really hard trying to explain to a 4 yr old that his dad isnt comming back.