could I do better?...

[LPHybridSnax]

Alright, this isn't so much a personal thing than a blank question. I broke up with my girlfriend a few months ago (we're on good terms by the way, we talk most days) because... well, lets just say she did something stupid. Anyway, like I said this isn't so much a personal thing, but a few of my friends were saying I could do better than her... in looks, see I don't really judge people by their looks so much, but I'm not saying I'd date a girl that's 500 lbs either, I have my limits too. Now, this is probably the biggest *******-ish thing I've ever done (please don't hate me for it), but I just wanted to see what you guys thought.

http://i132.photobucket.com/albums/q12/danhauer2/dt.jpg

thats me in the middle btw ^^ ... I was like dead, baby sitting my nefiews all day

lol... asking a bunch of people I don't know... but at least I can get an honest answer this way.

 

[jackie]

u can do better

 

[LPShinodaFM]

can't really properly see your ex-gf in the other pic, but i mean she doesn't look too bad, i'd say mainly it'd be personality and suitability with you

But i'm sure that better girls would come along judging by your looks

 

[LPHybridSnax]

Yeah, sorry about the picture quality. I had to take a picture of a picture... yes... I would scan it, but I took it about 4 months ago and don't have the original anymore. Thanks peoples, always a nice thing to hear when you first wake up.

 

[crazy robster]

Hmmm yeah her picture is a bit blurry... well, I'm not saying she looks bad she's rather ok but you are pretty good looking so I guess you could easily be with someone really pretty...Though if you want my opinion, in this day and age good people are a rarity and first of all you should focus on the girl's character.

 

[Peterdea]

Hmmm yeah her picture is a bit blurry... well' date=' I'm not saying she looks bad she's rather ok but you are pretty good looking so I guess you could easily be with someone really pretty...Though if you want my opinion, in this day and age good people are a rarity and first of all you should focus on the girl's character. [/quote']well said Jojo :thumbsup:

you always say the points im going to say. saves me a lot of time!

so my advice is to pay good attention to what Jojo said.

good people are a rarity. finding them is hard. very hard. i've been lucky enough to meet a few good people and mate, when you meet them, your life is a joy. So definantly make sure she's a good person, don't just say "she's not the best looker i can have, so ****** that!"

it shouldnt matter based on her looks. It never should. Just on whether or not you love her.

hope i helped.

 

[mundo119]

dude...this is coming from a guy.

u could do better man. looks-wise...yes.

personality-wise...idk

chicks that are awesome in both ways are hard to find. i'd say find out what the next chick acts like personality-wise and if she's a *****, screw her and move on to the next. i screwed up my chance for a chick that had both =( if u ever find a chick like that, dont let her go! hehehe

 

[LPpinkfreak821]

Well, she doesn't look too bad. I mean she's okay. She does have a pretty smile! But she isn't exactly someone I'd date.

You could have done a little better, but don't try to over do it.

It's hard to find someone who has a great personality and looks AMAZING.

She's pretty, but you could have maybe gotten a girl whose a little prettier.

[[[[[[btw, just to add in, you would look A LOT better if you cut your hair to about two inches & spiked it. & maybe colored it black or something darker.]]]]]]

No matter the girl's looks though, you shoud always go for personality first.

 

[LPHybridSnax]

Personality is number 1 hands down, people can't always help the way they look nessisarily, but they can how they act and that's the way I've always looked at it. I've never (hope I never will) dated a complete ***** or a girl for her looks alone becauase I know that relationship won't go anywhere.

Yeah... the thing with my hair.. I used to want to spike it, but it's too thick and kinda curly. It's also about three or four inches longer now (I'm getting it cut next week! lol) and if I dyed it black a bunch of people would think I was going emo, which isn't a bad thing, but I personally don't want to give off that impression (people have known me all my life for having blonde hair.... then one winter it magically turned to this somewhat brown color)

 

[Shadowed Heart]

You can deffo do better, ****, I'd take you if I wasn't already taken.

 

[Black_Angel]

She's not that bad haha, though her clothes could be nicer :/

But yeah I guess you could do a little better, and you should keep your hair like it is now it looks cool and indieish^^

 

[Jeezy]

She looks alright to me...

but yeah...

like people said before

you could do better

 

[LPHybridSnax]

She's not that bad haha' date=' though her clothes could be nicer :/[/quote']
she's wearing my hoodie lol. She kind of stole it from me, I haven't seen it in almost a year.

You can deffo do better' date=' ****, I'd take you if I wasn't already taken. [/quote']
lol

 

[Sygy]

question.

why are you putting pictures of your ex on the internet and asking a bunch of strangers to basically judge her?

thats not too nice

 

[LPHybridSnax]

Yes, i already stated that.

this is probably the biggest *******-ish thing I've ever done

lol... asking a bunch of people I don't know... but at least I can get an honest answer this way.

There you go.

If your best friend (of the opposite ***) asks you if they are ugly you aren't going to say "yes" even if they are hideous. Thats the world we live in today, anybody could've said "No, she's the best you can do, you're not good looking" and I wounldn't be offended, I'd be happy I could get an honest answer. So they weren't just judging her. Anyway, yeah it's not nice (at all) so I removed the image