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Ok so that is like a sample of the insane facts of internet dating. Acording to that site anyway. People put way to much faith in text.I could go on one hell of a rant about that. I won't .

-How did you find your partner?

-Did you find him/her on the net?

-Was is the thrill ride the site above spams everyone with?

 

I can only speak for myself here. All of this seems over rated! If you are going to hook up with someone. You are going to do it, right? Who the hell let people get influenced otherwise? Anyway ,are you people buying this" internet dating is better. ",shit?????

I met my bitch actually through my little sister, she was the older sister of one of my sisters friends. At the time, I was planning to get back with my ex, we were gonna go on a weekend outing to Kansas City and rekindle shit, but I had to work, so I canceled, well anyways, I still wasn't sure that I even wanted to get back with her, we were always the best of friends (still are to this day), but we kind of made a shitty couple. So anyways my sisters friend asked me if I would be interested in dating her sister, I guess she had just broken up with her boyfriend and was single and all, and I wasn't really looking for a relationship, but I did like to go out and have fun doing the casual dating. So anyway, after she met me, I guess I was a little more outgoing then she expected. She was always the shy type and I'm .. well, for no better words, a "life of the party" type guy. All the girls I dated were the party girl bitch types.. I love the aggressive type, and my wife was very opposite. But we did end up falling in love and getting married. It's been almost 10 years now, I still hang out with the EX, I still love my wife just as much as ever, and I really don't think a personality profile would have EVER matched me up with her. Concidering she is probably the opposite of all the types I like.

 

I don't believe in online dating services, sometimes a perfect match is actually your perfect opposite. You can never click well with anybody, you will always disagree with a partner, but if you both know each others boundrys and mindset, the relationship will last... even crappy ones where the husband abuses his spouse, or lives a very lower income level of lifestyle.

 

I do believe that there is someone for everybody.... even maybe tizz.. but, its a silly notion to think the perfect match for you, can be found in a personality profile. It simply takes working together as a common unit, not as a couple in love. Love comes after you realize without that other person in your life, yours is less meaningful.

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I would do what phreak did, and create a bullshit profile to go fishing.

 

I think the phreakster was an elderly woman. He couldn't believe how many old geezers tried to crack onto him/her.

 

I've not been to any of those sites. Must check it out.

 

might be good for a giggle or two.

I would do what phreak did, and create a bullshit profile to go fishing.

 

I think the phreakster was an elderly woman. He couldn't believe how many old geezers tried to crack onto him/her.

 

I've not been to any of those sites. Must check it out.

 

might be good for a giggle or two.

 

I really did meet my current woman on the web. HotorNot was the site. I sign up on like one or two real dating sites like Eharm. I got burned for like 20 bucks to talk to 3 really bitchy chicks. So I stayed on a meeting site ,like any chat room really. Made a blacklist for the dumbass women on my messenger. I kept the ones that were cool.

The concept of any "dating" type service is rather foreign to me - internet or otherwise. Hell, I've been known to find my next husband in the grocery store. Usually next to the chips.

 

I know someone who met and got a gal twice online, but not through a service. Chat rooms heated up I guess. The last one was successful, the relationship "took".. (imagine finding a rich gal online and ending up living together...amazing story)...

 

I imagine there are people out there who don't know how easy it is to just walk up to someone and say, "you look nice, let's get married". So perhaps the internet dating services are useful. But they seem a poor substitute for conversational skills and balls.

I was on match.com. I did not meat anyone special but I did talk to some nice people. At least it allowe me to filter out people I KNOW I would never go far with no matter what I may have thought in person. I know what things I CANNOT get over (IE religion and wanting kids and certail lifestyles) I have t admit speed dating apeas to me. I get to meet the people, have a few laughs, and cut through the crap without having to get stuck with an idiot for a night.

 

I don't believe in online dating services, sometimes a perfect match is actually your perfect opposite. You can never click well with anybody, you will always disagree with a partner, but if you both know each others boundrys and mindset, the relationship will last... even crappy ones where the husband abuses his spouse, or lives a very lower income level of lifestyle.

 

I do believe that there is someone for everybody.... even maybe tizz.. but, its a silly notion to think the perfect match for you, can be found in a personality profile. It simply takes working together as a common unit, not as a couple in love. Love comes after you realize without that other person in your life, yours is less meaningful.

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Thats awesome you met your woman that way PH. Every time I meet a local here .It would seem that she is insane or something. Maybe its just me?..Anyways.....

Your second statement above, seems dead on the money as far as I know. Do you think dating sites use that cold hard fact to sucker people??? They did with me once.

I tried to meet my sisters friends but they scare me. They all play bag pipes and drink WAY too much ( though the whole manskirt thing is at least practicle ) Oh and they are all WAY too much like my sister EWE!

The concept of any "dating" type service is rather foreign to me - internet or otherwise. Hell, I've been known to find my next husband in the grocery store. Usually next to the chips.

 

I know someone who met and got a gal twice online, but not through a service. Chat rooms heated up I guess. The last one was successful, the relationship "took".. (imagine finding a rich gal online and ending up living together...amazing story)...

 

I imagine there are people out there who don't know how easy it is to just walk up to someone and say, "you look nice, let's get married". So perhaps the internet dating services are useful. But they seem a poor substitute for conversational skills and balls.

 

Good Lord!?? Next to the chips??, Your joking right??

I tried to meet my sisters friends but they scare me. They all play bag pipes and drink WAY too much ( though the whole manskirt thing is at least practicle ) Oh and they are all WAY too much like my sister EWE!

 

You dont understand the Scottish, tizz? Have you not seen BraveHeart?

That's just it, they are an IRISH pipe band. LOL I figure they were given to the scotts as punishment and should have been left there LOL

Thats awesome you met your woman that way PH. Every time I meet a local here .It would seem that she is insane or something. Maybe its just me?..Anyways.....

Maybe you should get a haircut Axl, get out of the jungle and quit trying to find paradise city... maybe get a nose job...

 

Your second statement above, seems dead on the money as far as I know.

I just say it as I see it.

 

Do you think dating sites use that cold hard fact to sucker people??? They did with me once.

No, I think these services rely on statistics and just plain desperation to unite people.. Statistically, the easiest place to find someone else who is single and also looking, is the internet. But I think you are making a mistake that many people do, your trying to pick someone who looks interesting so you can basically say to this person... HEY.. ARE YOU THE ONE FOR ME ?? And it doesn't work that way. So the MATCHES they get are usually couples who are basically just having fun with someone new... getting laid...etc, and maybe at the spur, decide to get married. It's always a risk, could turn out good, bad or eh.. it was ok, but I find the best way to find "THAT PERSON" is to let fate decide it, not a CPU.

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Maybe you should get a haircut Axl, get out of the jungle and quit trying to find paradise city... maybe get a nose job...

 

I just say it as I see it.

 

No, I think these services rely on statistics and just plain desperation to unite people.. Statistically, the easiest place to find someone else who is single and also looking, is the internet. But I think you are making a mistake that many people do, your trying to pick someone who looks interesting so you can basically say to this person... HEY.. ARE YOU THE ONE FOR ME ?? And it doesn't work that way. So the MATCHES they get are usually couples who are basically just having fun with someone new... getting laid...etc, and maybe at the spur, decide to get married. It's always a risk, could turn out good, bad or eh.. it was ok, but I find the best way to find "THAT PERSON" is to let fate decide it, not a CPU.

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Yeah thats funny as hell. Your talking about "Swinger Dating" sites eh? Those crack me up. I read those when I'm in a bad mood. They cheer me up. There is nothing like a (70 yr. old man seeking a 19 yr. old couple. ) Go TEAM! haha . Anyway..

I know that the people are always going to decide who they date. I got suckered by the facts. The facts as I thought they were. I was wrong. Never the less ,I did. You know anyone else who has done the same?

That's just it, they are an IRISH pipe band. LOL I figure they were given to the scotts as punishment and should have been left there LOL

 

Be careful tizz. The sucksbbs team may log in under the name SCOTTHATER!!! Would'nt surprise me. lol

Good Lord!?? Next to the chips??, Your joking right??

 

 

The chip aisle is rife with fellas. Gotta stay away from the beer & wine area, unless you're looking for a boozer. The Home Fixing aisle is good, (you know, the area you can get WD40 and clothespins and little screwdriver sets?) ...that's good for one that's kinda handy around the house.

 

If you're lookin for a gal, check out the baking aisle - you know you'll at least get cakes, and stay away from the ones near the Midol & headache remedy stuff.

I think online dating is damn dumb, but some do get dumb luck. This was proven to me in May or so, when my cousin Eisha came over to my house. I showed her some random video clips from school, and I said, "there's Rob and Mac, with their guitars..." And she told me to rewind, and show her again. Turns out, she and Mac had been talking online on MySpace for months, and had talked about dating. I confirmed that he is a great guy, they met in person, and have gone out since then, and are totally in love. They met through the internet, so it can't all be bad; I just wouldn't live on the computer to try gettting a date.

See, but that is FATE, not a generated by CPU mate.

 

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The chip aisle is rife with fellas. Gotta stay away from the beer & wine area, unless you're looking for a boozer. The Home Fixing aisle is good, (you know, the area you can get WD40 and clothespins and little screwdriver sets?) ...that's good for one that's kinda handy around the house.

 

If you're lookin for a gal, check out the baking aisle - you know you'll at least get cakes, and stay away from the ones near the Midol & headache remedy stuff.

 

How about, The BirthControl aisle S.G.? Or soon to come. The at home abortion aisle. Are you prolife? or prochoice? hmmm.

I think online dating is damn dumb, but some do get dumb luck. This was proven to me in May or so, when my cousin Eisha came over to my house. I showed her some random video clips from school, and I said, "there's Rob and Mac, with their guitars..." And she told me to rewind, and show her again. Turns out, she and Mac had been talking online on MySpace for months, and had talked about dating. I confirmed that he is a great guy, they met in person, and have gone out since then, and are totally in love. They met through the internet, so it can't all be bad; I just wouldn't live on the computer to try gettting a date.

 

How did you meet your partner Ruse?

See, but that is FATE, not a generated by CPU mate.

 

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Phreak do you really feel that these sites advocate a generated CPU mate?

I mean ,no one is dumb enough to think a mate can be pulled from a hat, right?

I had to really search for my woman. I did find that alot of dating sites only offered 4 other people like myself,that were dumb enough to pay the 10 bucks. Just say it Phreak! lol

I do think internet dating works. Have you ever noticed a lot of people tell strangers the truth more then someone they know. I believe in this though because yes...i met my husband on yahoo personals even though we lived in the same town we had way two different lives but when we met we meshed great and ever since then....WOOHO!

WE are inseperatable...well besides deployments...lol

PH seems to think the net dating is not for him. Maybe not for alot. He could be very well right. I know he does not need to look , but still. Dating sites suck,yes. But I have not seen them all, so I can not judge them all. I hear more stories of happy couples finding eachother all the time on the net. How about you?

Believe it or not, I met my last girlfriend IN A CHAT ROOM. Sounds stupid but we talked online for 9 months before meeting. Hel, even got laid by this girl too. First and only girl I ever had sex with. We clicked because we are both going to Penn State and we both like dragons and a few other things. At that, we were from the same state so why the hell not?

 

But in a sad twist of fate, I was just a guinea pig. She never had a LDR before and I was her first experiment so to speak. She finally realized how she could not handle it and she broke up with me through MSN Messenger. ONLINE MIND YOU!!! I'd have more respect for her if she had told me from the get go that she never did this kind of thing before. (I was over in Korea by the way and saw her on leave.) She also came up with a whole bunch of other stupid ass excuses I mean geez. She had alot of faults but I didn't let them get to me when I was with her. And now, ever since breaking up with me, she has disintergrated in quality as a person. Horribly. Even after I forgave her and tried to be friends, her brain is as simple as a single celled organism. I mean I could go on and on and on about how bad this girl is but I do not want to bore you people seriously. Maybe I'll save that for a thread or something I dunno...

 

All in all, it is possible to meet someone online. Sounds dumb but it can happen. I just so happened to meet a really bad egg.

Believe it or not, I met my last girlfriend IN A CHAT ROOM. Sounds stupid but we talked online for 9 months before meeting. Hel, even got laid by this girl too. First and only girl I ever had sex with. We clicked because we are both going to Penn State and we both like dragons and a few other things. At that, we were from the same state so why the hell not?

 

But in a sad twist of fate, I was just a guinea pig. She never had a LDR before and I was her first experiment so to speak. She finally realized how she could not handle it and she broke up with me through MSN Messenger. ONLINE MIND YOU!!! I'd have more respect for her if she had told me from the get go that she never did this kind of thing before. (I was over in Korea by the way and saw her on leave.) She also came up with a whole bunch of other stupid ass excuses I mean geez. She had alot of faults but I didn't let them get to me when I was with her. And now, ever since breaking up with me, she has disintergrated in quality as a person. Horribly. Even after I forgave her and tried to be friends, her brain is as simple as a single celled organism. I mean I could go on and on and on about how bad this girl is but I do not want to bore you people seriously. Maybe I'll save that for a thread or something I dunno...

 

All in all, it is possible to meet someone online. Sounds dumb but it can happen. I just so happened to meet a really bad egg.

 

Is this where we are at today? Getting dumped on a messenger? Outlaw I'm with ya. Only I've been dumped more times than angie has had abortions! <-- joke/ not that many. Anyway thats real sad when that happens. I know how it feels. It does sound like it may of been a booty call Outlaw??

Is this where we are at today? Getting dumped on a messenger? Outlaw I'm with ya. Only I've been dumped more times than angie has had abortions! <-- joke/ not that many. Anyway thats real sad when that happens. I know how it feels. It does sound like it may of been a booty call Outlaw??

 

It could have been but I doubt it. I could tell she had feelings for me, whether miniscule or not she did. I could tell. I am not an expert on love but I sensed it. But to be honest with you, the girl is not stable. I am exaggerating nothing I tell people about her. Everyone that I told my story to thought this girl needs to seek some serious help. Even her family gets fed up with this girl I mean wow. And to be honest with ya, I know communicating via a messenger is easier than writing a letter but it would have been alot more respectful if she did it on paper. She could have explained EVERYTHING she was feeling and more thought can be put into it when you write than if you are directly talking to someone. Hell she probably wouldn't have broken up with me if she sat around and took time to think. But that was OVER as year ago man...I still talk to the girl, just as a friend, but she is still the type of person you should not get together with. She would not ever have a chance with me again if she wanted to.

 

It kinda pains me to write bad things about a supposed friend but that is kind of hard when the individual is so fucked up and stubborn. In fact when I get a chance, this has inspired me to make a thread...