Dating younger people

I have a 19 year old friend who has a 14, almost 15 year old girlfriend, he has just turned 19, now her parents found out his real age after 2 mos of the lieing to them unbeknownst to my friend, well after finding this out the parents went to their school and upon talking to the priciple, obtained a security footage tape with them kissing, nothing more on it, they went to the poilce and had him arrested for sexual misconduct of a minor....now this pisses me off for many reasons, number 1 i dont think it is wrong for him to be dating her, number 2 the school did not feel this is wrong, but as soon as the parents had a fit, the school made a big thing about it, and any student 18 or older seen kissing or holding hands with a student under 18 would be suspended. number 3 it is fucked up that he can be arrested for merely kissing her, even though she was totally against them arresting him...am i just biased or is this really fucked up?

No dude, that is not fucked up. I am so sick of fucking pedaphile losers robbing the cradle because they still live in their Mom's basement and can't get a girl in their generation. It's called STATUTORY RAPE. It's wrong, and I don't think it is right for some dumbass that is 19 to date a 14-year-old. That's underdeveloped, naive pussy that the guy is taking advantage of. I think he should be shot just for being such a catholic (for the slow, catholic is synonymous with pervert).

If it were my daughter I would be in the klink for kicking the little fuckers ass.

19 is over the adult age in this country...period. No exceptions.

What is the difference if she is being fucked by a 14 year old guy? Isnt it still the "underdeveloped naive pussy"? Does that make it more right? Also she was no virgin when he met her. She was no virgin long before he met her.

Now i am not really saying that if it were my sister or daughter, i would react differently than her parents did, the point im making(and i forgot this originally) is that as long as she was fucking 14 15 16 17 year old guys it was fine....as soon as it passed 18 they had a huge coronary, i mean if my daughter was fucking anybody at 14 she would get her ass beat, and the guy would be dead.

HE IS STILL 19. I never said I condoned teenage sex, I just pointed out that a fully developed adult is fucking a 14-year-old kid. If you don't see the wrong in that, you are a moron.

She can fuck whomever she wishes. When she starts fellating adult tools is when the trouble starts...for the adult. And it is the parents' fault she is a trollup at such an early age. Her folks are the ones that need to be cornholed by a silverback gorilla.

I see wrong in it in certain situations, this is not one because of many facts including the fact that she was having sex long before she met him, and in fact they never had sex untill almost 3 mos into their relationship. At the point that he got arrested they had only had sex once. I mean there are certain exceptions to everything right?

...Her folks are the ones that need to be cornholed by a silverback gorilla.

 

Yes, twice...and then the 19 year old fucktard as well...thrice.

The parents are definatley to blame, and they deserve the most sever punishment for having such a slut for a daughter, and allowing it, that i dont deny...i was merely protesting the inconsistency in their punishments, or lack thereof. And the schools for that matter.

She can fuck whomever she wishes. When she starts fellating adult tools is when the trouble starts...for the adult. And it is the parents' fault she is a trollup at such an early age. Her folks are the ones that need to be cornholed by a silverback gorilla.

 

AMEN!!! DAYMN!

You can bet your ass if that was my daughter I would be doing the same thing. But obviously the parent's haven't done much until now if she's been sexually active for a while. 14 year olds have no business getting laid. I don't care how old the boyfriend is. They need to lock her ass in her bedroom til she turns 18.

All joking aside, here is the RAW TRUTH.

 

Young people, you complain to us all the time that you can't wait to be 18 and be considered an ADULT. We know, we did the exact same thing with our parents. It's expected.

 

But...

 

When you DO turn 18, along with the respect, comes RESPONSIBILITIES.

 

Number One of those responsibilities is your sexual conduct. The TOP rule of this sexual conduct list is YOU MAY NOT ENGAGE IN ANY SEXUAL CONDUCT WITH SOMEBODY UNDER THE AGE OF 18. PERIOD.

 

No excuses. No rationalizations. No justifications. Nothing. Nada. Zip.

 

Otherwise, you should expect to be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law including PRISON and LIFETIME labeling as a CHILD MOLESTER.

 

Yes, that's right. MOLESTER! DON'T DO IT!

 

You want to be viewed as an adult, start acting like one!

All joking aside, here is the RAW TRUTH.

 

Young people, you complain to us all the time that you can't wait to be 18 and be considered an ADULT. We know, we did the exact same thing with our parents. It's expected.

 

But...

 

When you DO turn 18, along with the respect, comes RESPONSIBILITIES.

 

Number One of those responsibilities is your sexual conduct. The TOP rule of this sexual conduct list is YOU MAY NOT ENGAGE IN ANY SEXUAL CONDUCT WITH SOMEBODY UNDER THE AGE OF 18. PERIOD.

 

No excuses. No rationalizations. No justifications. Nothing. Nada. Zip.

 

Otherwise, you should expect to be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law including PRISON and LIFETIME labeling as a CHILD MOLESTER.

 

Yes, that's right. MOLESTER! DON'T DO IT!

 

You want to be viewed as an adult, start acting like one!

 

If the truth hurts, wear a damn band-aid next time.

I have a 19 year old friend who has a 14, almost 15 year old girlfriend

 

Me, too. Well, they just broke up about 2 months ago. He was 20, she was 14. It's not right, and it should be illegal. Dating someone this much older than you is unhealthy. Not only is it WRONG, but it won't work. I don't care how immature the 19/20 year old is, or how mature the 14/15 year old is, they can't have many things that they both enjoy. So, you know what they're doing in their spare time. Parents..yet again, another issue that could be solved if some people would assume their responibilities as a parent.

That is just plain sick! 14 years old is too young. She's still a little girl who plays with dolls!

It's all extremely fucked up.

just a fucked up situation all around i guess, everybody is wrong here, parents, boyfried, girlfriend, all of them are fucked up in some way. I guess that is the way i see it.

just a fucked up situation all around i guess, everybody is wrong here, parents, boyfried, girlfriend, all of them are fucked up in some way. I guess that is the way i see it.

Yeah it is... Maybe Jerry Springer can invite the whole clan to his show!

Being on the Jerry Springer show is just just national recognition that you're an idiot.

 

It's degrading and fucked up.

 

It's exactly what they need.

If it were an older teen, fine. They're not exactly babies in diapers, and know what it sex is, and can probably handle it and know when to say NO. But 14...SHE'S A FUCKING BABY!

Its against the law, you will get in trouble and it will follow you for the rest of your life. Why would anyone who is sane do something like that?? Conviction of this will put this person in the sex offender category, meaning he will be watched for the rest of his life.

Common sense would tell you that if this child, 14 years old is the love of your life (yea, right) then wait for her to grow up before you become physically involved.

I for one have plans to watch my daughter carefully. A child of 14 is not equipped to make such decisions and can easily be taken advantage of. God help the person who thinks their going to get by with something like that. I might just loose my mind and start hearing voices and have to shot the mother fucker !!!

This bullshit of starting a thread based on whining that I can't do what I want even though its against the law and widely known, is ignorant and says alot about the shit head who started it.

It would be interesting to peg just exactly when the social mores took this turn.

 

From the various postings it's evident that most are fully outraged at the idea of an 18 or 19 year old having sex with a 14 or 15 year old, and it sounds like we'd all run out and personally clamp on the handcuffs, if given the opportunity.

 

Raise your hands if your over 40. Ok...so you guys probably remember when it wasn't that way! (oh, I see only one person raised their hand, and oops, it's my hand, oh well, I'll just talk to myself)

 

(quavery Grandma Voice) waaay back in the 1970s...it wasn't that way...at least in small towns.

 

We all knew the empty headed "little chicks" who would sleep with the seniors in a feeble attempt to be "grown up". Remember Theresa? She was banging the guy with the Trans Am on a regular basis when she was 13. And that other chick - that short one with the 40 pound breasts - (Jesus, what the Hell happened there? She was like some fuckin mutant or something)...I still remember her hanging at the Keggers long past her bedtime... then there was Karen...looking for love way too early. sigh.

 

We viewed these girls with pity. They were sad cases looking for recognition. If the parents "found out" or knew about it, they'd beat the gal or ground her or.... ignore it. They guys were looked on...as "GUYS" ... "Jesus Christ, can't you get it from something half grown, you pathetic excuse ...." The guy was looked on by some with disgust, but somehow it was a notch above the pity meted out to the girl.

 

These days, if you're a public school teacher, you can't hug your students. Hell, you can't ruffle their hair unless you want to be branded a pedophile. An 18 year old doing jail bait get's just that - jail.

 

So when did that change? How gradual was this?

If we jump back earlier...in Granny's day..hell, they just got pregnant and married, more often than not.

 

It still went on...

 

As much as I can jump on the band wagon of "jail the prick", - having a daughter of my own, I can see how pissed off I would have been - as much as all that...I can still muse...the trend of society's mores on this ... where will it end? and...is it truly valid?

 

Oh, and one other thing ... check your viewpoint..do a flip here - do you feel the same way about an 18 year old gal doing a 14 year old boy?

well said skategreen....well said......

It would be interesting to peg just exactly when the social mores took this turn.

 

From the various postings it's evident that most are fully outraged at the idea of an 18 or 19 year old having sex with a 14 or 15 year old, and it sounds like we'd all run out and personally clamp on the handcuffs, if given the opportunity.

 

Raise your hands if your over 40. Ok...so you guys probably remember when it wasn't that way! (oh, I see only one person raised their hand, and oops, it's my hand, oh well, I'll just talk to myself)

 

(quavery Grandma Voice) waaay back in the 1970s...it wasn't that way...at least in small towns.

 

We all knew the empty headed "little chicks" who would sleep with the seniors in a feeble attempt to be "grown up". Remember Theresa? She was banging the guy with the Trans Am on a regular basis when she was 13. And that other chick - that short one with the 40 pound breasts - (Jesus, what the Hell happened there? She was like some fuckin mutant or something)...I still remember her hanging at the Keggers long past her bedtime... then there was Karen...looking for love way too early. sigh.

 

We viewed these girls with pity. They were sad cases looking for recognition. If the parents "found out" or knew about it, they'd beat the gal or ground her or.... ignore it. They guys were looked on...as "GUYS" ... "Jesus Christ, can't you get it from something half grown, you pathetic excuse ...." The guy was looked on by some with disgust, but somehow it was a notch above the pity meted out to the girl.

 

These days, if you're a public school teacher, you can't hug your students. Hell, you can't ruffle their hair unless you want to be branded a pedophile. An 18 year old doing jail bait get's just that - jail.

 

So when did that change? How gradual was this?

If we jump back earlier...in Granny's day..hell, they just got pregnant and married, more often than not.

 

It still went on...

 

As much as I can jump on the band wagon of "jail the prick", - having a daughter of my own, I can see how pissed off I would have been - as much as all that...I can still muse...the trend of society's mores on this ... where will it end? and...is it truly valid?

 

Oh, and one other thing ... check your viewpoint..do a flip here - do you feel the same way about an 18 year old gal doing a 14 year old boy?

 

 

Nice, (with hand waving in the air still for the over 40 question!) but missing my point all together.

 

When you DO turn 18, along with the respect, comes RESPONSIBILITIES.

 

Number One of those responsibilities is your sexual conduct. The TOP rule of this sexual conduct list is YOU MAY NOT ENGAGE IN ANY SEXUAL CONDUCT WITH SOMEBODY UNDER THE AGE OF 18. PERIOD.

 

No excuses. No rationalizations. No justifications. Nothing. Nada. Zip.

 

Male or female makes no difference.