Lethalfind
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I have not spoken to enough women to know the answer here.
Do you think all woman have a maternal instinct and the ones who don't want children have something wrong with them?
When a woman gets pregnant does she eventually get her alotment of maternal instinct?
This question of course excludes people who are mentally ill, we have seen Mothers who can kill their own children enough.
I myself have spoken to women who don't want children and the few that have said this too me seemed to be operating under a fear that they would not be able to handle it because of something that was not right in their own lives, like a bad Mother or fear that the relationship with their spouse was not stable enough.
Are women who decide to NOT have children because of a job selfish or are they using this to cover up their fear of Motherhood?
Are some woman simply born without this instinct, all else being equal meaning they have had a happy upbringing, good relationship with their own parents, currently secure in their marriage etc.
Do you think all woman have a maternal instinct and the ones who don't want children have something wrong with them?
When a woman gets pregnant does she eventually get her alotment of maternal instinct?
This question of course excludes people who are mentally ill, we have seen Mothers who can kill their own children enough.
I myself have spoken to women who don't want children and the few that have said this too me seemed to be operating under a fear that they would not be able to handle it because of something that was not right in their own lives, like a bad Mother or fear that the relationship with their spouse was not stable enough.
Are women who decide to NOT have children because of a job selfish or are they using this to cover up their fear of Motherhood?
Are some woman simply born without this instinct, all else being equal meaning they have had a happy upbringing, good relationship with their own parents, currently secure in their marriage etc.