Does it Happen to you??

[tuba]

i really donot now what u people think... but i was wandering from many days....the things i think to happen in my way or i strike hard to get them!! eventually i donot get them what i got its totally opposite and i was not thinking that will happen!!for example i really study hard for my test to get good marks in it and i also pray for it.. but i donot get good marks.. and when i donot pray or give any attention to my test or donot take tension of it just stay cool i got good marks....or when i like some guy and i was hoping that he will talk to me but what happened.. he doesnot talk to him.. i mean to say that in my whole life since my childhood(as far as i rememebr) the things i want most or persons with me i just donot get them .. the things i was expecting to come or persons they donot come to me.... the fact is that now i donot care for anything!!what i get im happy and what i donot get i remain happy..

all i want to ask from you people is that do this happen to you people what u want to get u donot nd what u were not expecting or donot want u get it???

and why this happen?? please answer me buc i m searching for it for years!!! people do tell me many things but doesnot satify me!!

 

[Sygy]

yes its called 'sod's law' and it affects us all.

 

[Friðbjörn]

there's no correct answer. you just have to wait and see. maybe it'll all come to you along the way, in life.

 

[tuba]

yes its called 'sod's law' and it affects us all.

can u explain me this sod's law.. i never heard of it

 

[Jeezy]

It depends...of course you can not get everything you wish to get...

but sometimes if you really believe in something and you set your mind to it you'll get it....

and of course it always needs a good portion of luck.

 

[Sygy]

when you try really hard to get something one way but it ends up the complete opposite, Like when ou said that when you revise for maths you do badly!

 

[geeko]

heeey maybe yerr becoming oc like me......!!!!!!!

hehe

seriously......yeah it also happens to me......

before i used to want many things......not a single thing was given to me......then ill have tantrums......

nuw i dunt give a **** about everything......welll......come to think uf it......the thinggs i wanted before are still there......but i dunt care about them anymore so i dunt come after them......though i see them soo near to me......

eheh got it......? sorry im not clear in explaining......

 

[diana]

Well, it's the expectation...sometimes for the not really realistic stuff...so we all know what the result will be...

In general...I don't really support expectation cuz it's **** (even though I don't really follow it) and I learned it not too long ago...it's better to live your live just as it flows...give your best from you and the results should be fine...

Oh, and if it happens what you described...that you worked hard and got bad grade and when you didn't give a ****, got good grade...don't think that's always the case...that's just a coincidence...remember that!

 

[GraDoN]

nope, this exam i studied my *** off for science and i did good, didnt work that hard on accounting and didnt do that well...

its mind games

 

[tuba]

heeey maybe yerr becoming oc like me......!!!!!!!
hehe

seriously......yeah it also happens to me......

before i used to want many things......not a single thing was given to me......then ill have tantrums......

nuw i dunt give a **** about everything......welll......come to think uf it......the thinggs i wanted before are still there......but i dunt care about them anymore so i dunt come after them......though i see them soo near to me......

eheh got it......? sorry im not clear in explaining......

ya i got u geeko.. now me to donot care for any thing.. and for all the people who said that they really work hard in their studies and they got good marks(it good for them)... i mean to say that i do work hard for my tests but i rember the tets in which i remain calm i easily go through with it but in tests in which i was tense then i got normal or bad marks.. may be luck also matter but the things i want for years and i was really striking hard to get it but it slips now i just leave them and i aslo see in case of persons and somehow in things also... the persons who i forget about them eventually come to me and persons who i want and they just donot come!!!

now i just have this non-caring attitute... i just donot care i just strike for everything or may be i donot strike hard now for everything buc i donot believe in hopes buc i believe hopes are nothing just a waste i beileve in reality no matter how bitter it

 

[Black_Angel]

nope, this exam i studied my *** off for science and i did good, didnt work that hard on accounting and didnt do that well...its mind games

lol yeah i agree.

if you work really hard for something then you'll get it, usually.

 

[allieking]

i'm a huge beliver of fate hun, you can concentrate on things that you want and they never happen, then again you can take no notice and great things happen.

take me for example. when i was looking for mr right he never came along, then one day i decided that i would stop and let fate take over and hey presto andy came along!!!!

 

[tuba]

i'm a huge beliver of fate hun, you can concentrate on things that you want and they never happen, then again you can take no notice and great things happen.

take me for example. when i was looking for mr right he never came along, then one day i decided that i would stop and let fate take over and hey presto andy came along!!!!

exactly i do this .. i want to say this but i guess i m not good in words... i do believe in fate.. buc there is always a bright side....and what happens a good thing is hidden in it.. may be we shud find it and it all good ends!!