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i am depressd nd in tensions.. my exmas are near and i cannot study.. donot why??? i spent the whole day in sleeping or watching tv and listening radio....

my usually days went depressing because of one in the world really cares about me (mean my parents, sisters) they keeping hurting me.... second one is my bf( hope u people remember my past pots and what i said about my bf).. he lied to me.... that he is also having another woman in his life.. actually he didnot told at first palce because when he made me his gf that woman left him.. and when i left him.. that woman came back to him... i also came back to him.. i told him that he still can keep that woman in his life.. ( she was mother of his illegal child) he said ok then he start ignoring me i asked him.. he told me that he is confused wether he should take me seriously or not( Hello! i would be one who should be confused) he said he need time to think.. i said ok.. but my best frd asked me to leave him.. because he lied me!!! he should told me at first palce!!(the reason was that after involving someone then you are telling him/her that u also got someone else in his life nd that person is shared) so i ditch him...

but now i still miss him.. i really love him.. i know he is not honest man.. nd not good for me.. but still cannot forget him!!

sorry for long post but i badly need help.. all i want is that he come back to me.. because i cannot go back to him.. because everytime i go back to him.. and this time i ditch him.. my frds says to forget him.. tell me what to do??

hope u people understand me

 
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i am depressd nd in tensions.. my exmas are near and i cannot study.. donot why??? i spent the whole day in sleeping or watching tv and listening radio....my usually days went depressing because of one in the world really cares about me (mean my parents, sisters) they keeping hurting me.... second one is my bf( hope u people remember my past pots and what i said about my bf).. he lied to me.... that he is also having another woman in his life.. actually he didnot told at first palce because when he made me his gf that woman left him.. and when i left him.. that woman came back to him... i also came back to him.. i told him that he still can keep that woman in his life.. ( she was mother of his illegal child) he said ok then he start ignoring me i asked him.. he told me that he is confused wether he should take me seriously or not( Hello! i would be one who should be confused) he said he need time to think.. i said ok.. but my best frd asked me to leave him.. because he lied me!!! he should told me at first palce!!(the reason was that after involving someone then you are telling him/her that u also got someone else in his life nd that person is shared) so i ditch him...

but now i still miss him.. i really love him.. i know he is not honest man.. nd not good for me.. but still cannot forget him!!

sorry for long post but i badly need help.. all i want is that he come back to me.. because i cannot go back to him.. because everytime i go back to him.. and this time i ditch him.. my frds says to forget him.. tell me what to do??

hope u people understand me
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My advice may not be the best at times so please forgive me If I give some bad advice... but I will try.
You mention in your post that your exams are near, and I'm guessing these are the ones that will give you a future job. My best advice is to "try" and focus on them as much as you can!, and I know that's hard because of everything that has happened to you, but exams are very important for your future, you shouldn't let your depression take over, but then again you could always hold off the exams until your ready if they allow you to do so. But I know it's hard when you love somebody and things just don't always go the way we hope for, but then again It's life. :)

You don't have to forget him just because your not with him, If he still means anything to you that's ok... But remember "he" did the wrong and not you. So don't blame yourself because of his mistake. And don't make your future studies get in between all this, that's the worse that could happen to you!

Consider yourself lucky :) I was forced to drop out of school because of things that have happened to me, and now It's going to be really hard for me to find a good employment for my future needs. But I'm not giving up, like I said.. we can't always have things the way we want them 2 be. So I hope I have helped you, I'm sorry If I haven't, But I do wish you the best of luck with your exams. :thumbsup:

 
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My advice may not be the best at times so please forgive me If I give some bad advice... but I will try.
You mention in your post that your exams are near, and I'm guessing these are the ones that will give you a future job. My best advice is to "try" and focus on them as much as you can!, and I know that's hard because of everything that has happened to you, but exams are very important for your future, you shouldn't let your depression take over, but then again you could always hold off the exams until your ready if they allow you to do so. But I know it's hard when you love somebody and things just don't always go the way we hope for, but then again It's life. :)

You don't have to forget him just because your not with him, If he still means anything to you that's ok... But remember "he" did the wrong and not you. So don't blame yourself because of his mistake. And don't make your future studies get in between all this, that's the worse that could happen to you!

Consider yourself lucky :) I was forced to drop out of school because of things that have happened to me, and now It's going to be really hard for me to find a good employment for my future needs. But I'm not giving up, like I said.. we can't always have things the way we want them 2 be. So I hope I have helped you, I'm sorry If I haven't, But I do wish you the best of luck with your exams. :thumbsup:
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no u really help me.. ur rite i should focus on my studies!! thnaks dude

 
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