Drinking? is it fair to hold it against people?

[Xblackwidow20X]

ok im asking for advice here.

 


Heres the story. my bf now has known me for about 6 years b4 we started dating, and he is not a drinker. i am. and he knew this when we started going out. and he hates people who drink cuz his dad is an alcoholic. so is mine. but he said he dont know if he can handle me drinking. he gets in werid moods. i woudl never drink around him. and he said he enever even thought about being in a reltionship with someone who drank but with me he liked me too much.

 


Now we have been going out for almost 2 months and im really falling for him. but i was thinking of breakign up with him so i dont fall hard ( love or what not) just to have him deside that he cant handle the drinking. and him and talked about this and all he says is i know its not fair to you, and i want to be with you. i will just have to see.

 


so what is everyones opnion?

 

[lpp]

ok im asking for advice here. 


Heres the story. my bf now has known me for about 6 years b4 we started dating, and he is not a drinker. i am. and he knew this when we started going out. and he hates people who drink cuz his dad is an alcoholic. so is mine. but he said he dont know if he can handle me drinking. he gets in werid moods. i woudl never drink around him. and he said he enever even thought about being in a reltionship with someone who drank but with me he liked me too much.

 


Now we have been going out for almost 2 months and im really falling for him. but i was thinking of breakign up with him so i dont fall hard ( love or what not) just to have him deside that he cant handle the drinking. and him and talked about this and all he says is i know its not fair to you, and i want to be with you. i will just have to see.

 


so what is everyones opnion?

i think that is really stupid to hate someone who drinks but can fall in love i think you stay with him

 

[LPGotLinkinPark]

It's not really fair for him to dislike anything about you just because you drink. But if you had been drunk and done something so that things became a problem, that would be different.

 

[MrRandomGuy]

stay with him.

 

[KillMeImIrish]

well, if he doesnt like the fact that you drink, but accepts you for who you are, not what you do and loves you for that, then i think you should stay with him.

but if he DOESN'T accept you for who you are because you drink... then i think you shouldn't be with him anymore.

 

[mike rocks]

its not fair but sometimes people get addicted n one time i heard this guy got so addicted when he ran out he just started drinking alchohol!!!u know the one u use when u like get hurt!!ewwwwwwwwwww grosss

 

[Xblackwidow20X]

thank you for everyone opnions. i think i will stay with him. i talked to him about it and he said sothing to the fact of " that he wont let the drinking get in the way. and im to important to him" so i guess that good.

 


thanks again

 

[stupidsoul1]

but that doesnt make sense....the drinking shouldnt bother him unless you seem alcoholic or something then its understandable why he is weird about it

he should really let you and ur drinking be

 

[NVme4ever]

u should stay wid him..........dat is if e kan take u for wat u r.......i think he really really liks u........saw....suit yourself....dis is wat i have 2 say

 

[Minzara]

I can relate to him... i despise drinking alot... and smoking and all that stuff.... but then again all my friends were pot heads and drunks...... but i wouldn't let it bother you. If he is a caring and smart man.... you both will get though that minor problem :thumbsup:

 

[misery]

Everybody drinks. Or at least everybody that I know. It's nothing to hold against someone.