Ex's...How Much They Piss You Off...

It is a long night and I would share with y'all my little encounter about ex girlfriends I have had but I am more interested in hearing from you people. Not to mentionally I am mentally worn out and quite stressed at the moment. Some of y'all already know my story but I'll post later. But tell me (and everyone else of course) what ex's have literally driven you over the edge. I'd like to hear it. This post was inspired by the dating post and when I was in the chat room last night talking about this.

 

So GF...have at it!!!

In Sales, they call these war stories. Meaning something did'nt go right and you should'nt dwell on it. Be positive and focus on the future! I don't mind hashing about my Ex's. My last had mental problems. She was Bi-polar ,and a control freak. I had to get a restraining order to keep her away from me and my new woman. Fun Fun.

Well I'll keep this simple. I was cray in love with this girl, like madly. Things were going great and then one day BAM!... She leaves me for her best 'friend' whos name is Katie...

Theres quite a bit more but I think you know enough.

My first wife was a junkie and a twat with legs. While I was overseas, she'd spread her legs for any piece of man-meat she felt like sticking in her. While I was in Iraq, she got mixed up in the world of narcotics... cocaine to be specific.

 

Then I came home, I found out what she had been up to from a friend, a friend who quite obviously poked her. I confronted her, but being the sorry homesick dog I was, I tried to make a go of the relationship. As it turned out I hated her and she hated me. The drugs loved me, though.

 

My second wife was Puerto-Rican American and she tried to kill me with a carving knife because she found out I had been secretly socking money away in a savings account and an IRA. Of course, I had my reasons for withholding that information from her.

 

Number One: She was the crowned Spending Queen of Marietta, Ga.

 

Number Two: She didn't want to remain with me because of MY ethnicity... a honky-lipped cracker.

 

Number Three: Her father loathed me and I knew if he came between she and I that I'd be out on my ass. The man actually said to me, verbatim, "you are not good enough for my daughter.".

 

One thing I can say, she was beautiful. Had huge tits, too.

My ex was not evil or mean. He was just stupid and immature. He wanted a mommy rather than I wife and I'm just not that patient.

After I was already dating my current Husband, he showed up at the door telling me he would not go back to Atlanta without me. I told him he needed to leave and he begged me to let him stay the night and he would leave in the morning. I didn't buy it. Told him he drove down he could drive right back up.(two hours at 10 at night)

Why? Because about two weeks before, after he knew it was definitely over, he asked if he could come down for one last weekend of fun. What a joke.

I only had 2 relationships in my life (my wife and my EX), the rest were just some bitches that I would fuck off and on. The reason my ex and I broke up, is she heard I was cheating on her, which wasn't at all true. Kinda pissed me off because she didn't even ask me or try to find out the truth, she just assumed her stupid friends were telling her the truth. They also had told her they only reason I hooked up with her was to get laid, which wasn't even close to the truth.. I had known her for a couple years before that, and I figured she'd know me better then that, but evidently not.

 

At least one good thing, is time heals all wounds and we are still the best of friends. But I think if I were single once again, I would NOT hook back up with her, there was a bit of a trust loss between us because of the break-up, and I'm not one to lose trust in someone then gain it back again so easy. But it doesn't matter to me because I am happy with who I am with now.

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I just remembered this...It's kinda funny. My ex called me up after I had been dating my Hubby a while and had the nerve to ask if Hubby was better in bed than him. I told him to grow up, and he then said "Oh, come on. I need an ego boost." I started laughing and told him if he needed an ego boost then he probably shouldn't be asking that question. I really did try to be nice, but he was just so annoying.

I just remembered this...It's kinda funny. My ex called me up after I had been dating my Hubby a while and had the nerve to ask if Hubby was better in bed than him. I told him to grow up, and he then said "Oh, come on. I need an ego boost." I started laughing and told him if he needed an ego boost then he probably shouldn't be asking that question. I really did try to be nice, but he was just so annoying.

Damn Tori, What in the hell did you see in this guy in the first place? 12 inches? Body of Atlas? It couldn't have been his winning personality (unless he changed a whole helluvlot).

I have never had a hubby, bt I am still friends with most of my x's. My daughter's father on the other hand is inhuman scum, which is why I am not at all bothered by the fact that he has no interest in us (when he did it was only to verbally physically emotional and sexually abuse me (and never cared at all for the kid) ) He is the ONLY ex I ever had a problem with (and one big problem was that I did not dispise hate ans write off every other ex I had) ARG I will NEVER date someone younfer than me again as long as I live!

I fuking hate my x ...if I could kill him slowly or just simply see him dead I would finally be at peace from the prick.

Ya your ex takes the cake. I hope that is going better for you Blyss!!!!! I am still keeping you in my thoughts over all that.

 

Blyss wins this one LOL

Blyss

Since the rest of us are unaware of your ex problems would you care to elaborate?

sure

hes an x pro boxer with a police record longer than the bible , he broke my cheekbone and my ribs ,, and took my 4 year old son and my 19 month old daughter out of my house and held me at knifepoint.

Thennnnnnnnn ....he came and removed all the furnisher from the home as well.

then he called threatening me and my other 2 kids that he was gona kill us ecct ect.

Oh and this is the best one ....he had a wee fall out with his nerotic girlfriend and he decided to hang himself . He did this ..the fuking rope broke .

And while he was {hanging } himself he locked my 2 kids outside the house.

 

 

thats just a wee bit of how lovely the fuking wank is .

Today ..I was at court with him and I firmly wiped the smirk of his face.

felt good .

Oh blyss it finally sounds like you had a good moment with the court system YAY it's about bloody time

Well, I am recently divorced. This past May 25th to be exact on the final judgment but, it began well before then as all divorces do.

It began a few weeks before Christmas when my wife casually walked past me and announced that she no longer wished to live with me and wanted a divorce.

I guess I should give a bit of history, prior to this I have been permanently disabled for 10 years and unable to work. My condition continued getting worse rather than better and my wife stated that she saw no end in sight so she wanted out. Anyways, she left the house, leaving me alone throughout the holiday season without any family, my nerves and emotions were on the brink of collapse, I had just learned that my Dr. as well as my wife knew I had a heart condition for two years called a dilated aorta and neither felt the need to tell me this or treat me for this condition along with all my other symptoms. I had begun losing feeling in my arms and hands, which has finally been diagnosed as the central nerve core coming from my brain was being crushed by two vertebrae and almost severing completely the nerves to my arms and hands. I recently underwent a spinal fusion which seems to have had about a 50% reduction in symptoms to date.

 

So, she left me sitting alone, afraid for my future, unsure what would happen to me, how I would take care of myself and as you might imagine, all this took a toll on my brain.

 

She took everything including the house that I bought and then had the judge kick me out after 90 days so she could resume living in the house because she worked and paid the bills while I only receive $1,000 SS Disability. She also removed me from the medical insurance which meant I could no longer afford to take my meds. or see a Dr.

 

Then I met my Lawyer

I'm recovering physically, emotionally and due to my Lawyer, I will soon be recovering financially.

My Lawyer was able to obtain 18 months of Alimony @ $1,100 a month plus half of her 401K.

At least that will keep me in a double-wide cardboard box for awhile

When I left, everything I needed was tied into a towel on the end of a fishing rod.

 

Best move I ever made.

 

Free again.

sure

hes an x pro boxer with a police record longer than the bible , he broke my cheekbone and my ribs ,, and took my 4 year old son and my 19 month old daughter out of my house and held me at knifepoint.

Thennnnnnnnn ....he came and removed all the furnisher from the home as well.

then he called threatening me and my other 2 kids that he was gona kill us ecct ect.

Oh and this is the best one ....he had a wee fall out with his nerotic girlfriend and he decided to hang himself . He did this ..the fuking rope broke .

And while he was {hanging } himself he locked my 2 kids outside the house.

thats just a wee bit of how lovely the fuking wank is .

Today ..I was at court with him and I firmly wiped the smirk of his face.

felt good .

Okay. You win, or not. Definitely the worst ex, but that is awful for you and your kids.

 

 

It began a few weeks before Christmas when my wife casually walked past me and announced that she no longer wished to live with me and wanted a divorce.

I guess I should give a bit of history, prior to this I have been permanently disabled for 10 years and unable to work. My condition continued getting worse rather than better and my wife stated that she saw no end in sight so she wanted out. Anyways, she left the house, leaving me alone throughout the holiday season without any family, my nerves and emotions were on the brink of collapse, I had just learned that my Dr. as well as my wife knew I had a heart condition for two years called a dilated aorta and neither felt the need to tell me this or treat me for this condition along with all my other symptoms. I had begun losing feeling in my arms and hands, which has finally been diagnosed as the central nerve core coming from my brain was being crushed by two vertebrae and almost severing completely the nerves to my arms and hands. I recently underwent a spinal fusion which seems to have had about a 50% reduction in symptoms to date.

 

Then I met my Lawyer

I'm recovering physically, emotionally and due to my Lawyer, I will soon be recovering financially.

My Lawyer was able to obtain 18 months of Alimony @ $1,100 a month plus half of her 401K.

At least that will keep me in a double-wide cardboard box for awhile

She should not have left you right before Christmas. That just adds to the pain. Is there legal action you can take against the doctor for not treating your heart condition? I

I have to say I was bitter for awhile, he had an affair..you know how that goes. Now I am thrilled to be on my own with my daughter. Its all about what the girls want to do now. We don't have to give a second thought to anyone else. My daughter and I can paint our nails and play with our hair and makeup when we want. We can play video games and loud dance music. The freedom is a wonderful thing. He was such a downer and always wanting something from me I couldn't give EXCEPT sex of course, I never felt like I got enough of that, I was lucky to get it 2-3 times a month. He had no money, I didn't get laid enough, I own the house, what the fuck do I need him for???

Now all I can put my daughters need first, he made that difficult because he was also a child and needed a mother. Lets discuss his whoring, lying, disgustingly fat, bitching, sick all the time, mother, thank fuck she is gone, she was as bad as he was.

I know when I get so sick of someone that I want to slap them so hard they can't speak, its time for that person to no longer be in my life.

When the reports of the dead from Iraq started rolling in and the loving families they left behind, it gave me an idea. Why not take my ex...I'll put a bullseye on his back and you can set him loose in the desert !!!

I would have loved to hear about his demise on the news.

Okay I'm not feeling too well but I'll try to post this the best I can like I promised you people at the beginning of this thread. Keep in mind I was young and dumb...bear with my blantant stupidity here.

 

 

Met this girl (for the sake of whatever the fuck let's call this girl Amy) in a chat room. Yes a chat room...stfu. We talked in normal fashion until we clicked somewhere by having quite a few things in common. Including going to Penn State. This was about 2-2 1/2 years ago I think. Anyways, we talked for a while online. Then on the phone. For about 9 months. She wants to see me. I agree to it. I went on leave (not just for her but that's another story, oh and I was stationed in Korea) and arrived in Philly. She is at Mt. Alto (the south central area of Pennsylvania). I call her when I get home. RED FLAG ALERT!!! She has problems choosing who she wants to be with between me (who she known online and on the phone for 9 months) and an AUSTRALIAN guy (typical pretty boy, a lil older than me, and known him for only one month). She mentioned him on the phone before I got home but he wasn't such a big deal. Then I start seeing this guy plastered all over her little website with no mention of me. Not in love but that still kills morale ya know? Anyways, I question her lil' "confusion" she calls it. She tells me not to worry about it and all that jazz. I ignore the red flag (LIKE AN IDIOT!!!) and say "Okay, I'll be over there soon." So I start my long trek across Pennsylvania. Greyhound bus and a taxi ride got me there to the college of Penn State Mt. Alto.

 

 

We meet...beautiful girl. Sweet as pie. But we play it like friends for a good while. Got to know her friends and best friend (who isn't exactly right in the head as far as demeanor, a direct influence on Amy somewhat). My intentions were to stay over there for only like 4 days. I wound up staying for TWO WEEKS. In her dorm room, she had no roommate, two beds (one of them full of stuffed animals). Even as friends she wanted me to share a bed with her strangely enough. RED FLAG? Possibly. She occassionally went to class while I stay in the room on her computer or listening to music. She got on AIM on one of her class computers while I was on hers and she IMed me telling me to look in her dresser. What do I find? The biggest pile of thongs, g-strings, and every kind of Trojan you can think of! I'm like "daymn". I say around the 7th day I was there, I finally confessed my love for this girl during a lil party we had in a friend's room. It was outside on the roof of the college. I never felt like this with my other gfs...I could have sworn it was some sort of weird ass dream. But before that I was going through the harsh stress of telling her how I felt, because I knew how she felt too, I just wasn't used to asking girls out (I am so used to my last exs who came after me instead.). But I did but her friend tells me she wanted me to OFFICIALLY "ask her out" even though I told her I loved her. So the next day, I did. Even though Aussie boy was calling, he started getting impatient by her not being around so he left messages. As a result of the "I love you."...well, I lost my virginity. Quite the experience I tell ya. Never experienced that before I mean it was just great! But I won't futher elaborate.

 

 

As I said I stayed quite a while. Most thought it was cute. Others thought it was weird to see a black guy and a white girl together. Hell black girls hated it. They gave her shit for it when I left. I even had THE college slut eyeing me, trying to get with me until Amy interfered. Anyways, a day before I left, she was crying as I lay there, she didn't want me to go. This girl actually gave a damn about my existance. I was quite flustered. But I calmed her to sleep and told her I shall return, just gimmie time. I WILL come home. After my tour in Korea. So a day or so later, I got in the cab I called. Ready for my trek back home to celebrate my b-day (cuz then after that I had to go back to Korea). She waved goodbye, with tears pouring down her face. It was a sad but wonderful sight seeing that. (soon after, that's when the racist black girls tried to get on her case but she shut them up) A taxi and Greyhound bus ride later I was home. Happy and sad at the same time. Called her to tell her I was fine. She sounded so delighted to hear from me. Celebrated my b-day and then left for Korea the next day (well there was a two day period between me coming home and my b-day but eh...oh well). Little did I know what I just got myself into and what horros awaited me a month later...

 

 

The point of this thread right here. If you read this far, eh I commend you. Anyways, I am at work in the Deputy Installation Command (I was a garrison soldier for a bit even though I am a tanker.). Work was nearly done so I went on the MSN Messenger and wanted to exchange a few words with Amy. So we talked a lil bit. We had lil debates and arguments about a few things. (we did have different ideologies about life...I believe this might have played a part in our breakup but she denies that) Nothing serious but still. In any case, I honestly don't remember what we last talked about but for some damn reason she went quiet for a few minutes. RED FLAG ALERT! Then the most heartbreaking, deathblo popped on on my screen. SOmething around the likes of..."You and me are not ready for a relationship!!! And a bunch of other stuff she said, but it had nothing to do with the little disagreements we had she says. She just tells me "I been thinking..." and all this other stuff. I lost it...I was like NOT AGAIN! What happened this time??? Then she started getting hostile...I'm like fuck this. And I just left the computer, pissed and confised. My NCO was wondering what was up but I didn't tell him until alot later. The fact that she breaks up with me over a damn computer pissed me off enough. Then it was a different excuse when she tells me why she breaks up with me. One was "I didn't know if I could handle a LDR then i found out I couldn't." Another was "I just fell out of love." Another was "I was scared I might lose you." "You kinda rushed me into this by saying you knew I loved you." And so on... Yea, it got stupid real fast. At that moment, I resented this girl. She couldn't think of this BEFORE we got together?

 

 

You are probably sick of reading this...but oh well. After a long ass time I finally decide to forgive her. Even after being so hostile and all (never calling her a name or anything like that but just being generally cold with her and a few suspicions) we became uneasy friends. She even gave hope of us getting back together. But I still took pride in my virginity I have kept for so long, and how much of a gentleman I was towards her. I felt betrayed and used. And most likely I was. Anyways, she starts talking about the Aussie guy again, about him coming to the states and shit. "Great, now she trying to make me jealous." They never did. Then she strated dating some truck driver she barely knew that was almost twice her age. Her mom and brother were wondering if I knew what happened to her cuz she disappears in the middle of the night 3 nights in the row. Yep, you guessed it. Sleeping and fucking. I didn't care anymore really about her other relationships. I was just trying to be her friend like she wanted me too after the truce. I told her the guy was bad news. She immediately told me to FUCK OFF and the whole "You're jealous just like everyone else thing." Come to find out she breaks up with the truck driver later on because he sexually and emotionally abused her and whatnot. She apologized... But she did not learn. Now she starts fucking with her best friend's man, her first ex, and two new guys. Just going on a SLUT SPREE. Hell she even talks about having sex with me again! Oh and there's alot more about her I haven't told you but I won't go further into her business. You gotta ask me personally. But yes, it was so sad to see the quality of her persona just go to shit. And how she treated me in the past, even as a friend is just disgusting.

 

Hope you found this story interesting, feel free to bash me or whatever the fuck but that is how I felt back then and to this day. Luckily I moved on and currently staying single to get my life set up. And because of that experience, I am just a lil bit smarter and stronger. Thank you for listening. Any questions, let me know here or in PM.

sure

hes an x pro boxer with a police record longer than the bible , he broke my cheekbone and my ribs ,, and took my 4 year old son and my 19 month old daughter out of my house and held me at knifepoint.

Thennnnnnnnn ....he came and removed all the furnisher from the home as well.

then he called threatening me and my other 2 kids that he was gona kill us ecct ect.

Oh and this is the best one ....he had a wee fall out with his nerotic girlfriend and he decided to hang himself . He did this ..the fuking rope broke .

And while he was {hanging } himself he locked my 2 kids outside the house.

 

 

thats just a wee bit of how lovely the fuking wank is .

Today ..I was at court with him and I firmly wiped the smirk of his face.

felt good .

 

Goddamn. It must suck to be you.

He was such a downer and always wanting something from me I couldn't give EXCEPT sex of course, I never felt like I got enough of that, I was lucky to get it 2-3 times a month.

 

Sounds like the male version of my first wife.

Outlaw, women can be bitches and unfortunately you met one of the toxic ones.

You need to stay away from her, she sounds like nothing but pain and bullshit.

You need a woman who has respect for herself and her body, someone who does'nt use her body like a trash can.

Don't be too hard on yourself, the red flags don't show up very well until your using your hindsight. My story with my ex husband has alot of red flags now that I look back that I either completely missed or swept aside.

Just try and learn from this sad experience. Thats what I tell myself about my ex, I did learn alot so it was not a total waste of time. I'm more savy now and I can spot a bullshit artist, control freak a mile away.

Okay I'm not feeling too well but I'll try to post this the best I can like I promised you people at the beginning of this thread. Keep in mind I was young and dumb...bear with my blantant stupidity here.

I'll discuss the breaking up part first. The truth is break-ups are never fun or easy. Many times there is more than one reason for them. The truth is incompatibility is a good enough reason. If you don't feel comfortable in the relationship then staying in it to avoid hurting the other person's feelings will just delay the inevitable and make it harder on them.

That being said, she sounds like a freak. Yes, sleeping in her bed as a friend when there is another bed available is a Red Flag. Talking about other guys while with you, Red Flag. Do I think you are stupid or na

You know whats funny, I no longer hate my ex. I have a good laugh at what he has given up and how he must be living now. Talk about shooting himself in the foot !!!

Some people are very self destructive and that sums him up very well. They sabotage their own happiness. Meanwhile...I'm doing very well.

Every minute I spent worrying about something I couldn't change was time permanently lost to someone who was not worthy.