friend said she loved me...drunk..

[LPHybridSnax]

alright i have a friend that called me up drunk the other day, and my sister said that everybody loves everybody when they're dunk, I don't know about it becuase I don't drink just doesn't taste good to me. She said she loved me a few times just in normal conversation then at the end right before she hung up. I asked her the next day if she remembered calling me last night and she said no and I didn't bring anything up. I actually recorded it cuz I thought it'd be funny if she said somthing really retarded, but I'll spare you guys that lol.

 

[LPpinkfreak821]

not everyone loves each other drunk. Some people get REALLY effing mean when their drunk. so you sister can shove it [no offense or anything]

See the thing is. . . when you are drunk. . . you DO usually remember things. Unless your so drunk that you cant even stand up. then you might black out.

Ask Stenners about that though. He's more of an expert on drinking then I am.

Honestly though, sometimes true feelings come out when someone is drunk. So she might actually like you. I dont know about LOVE you as she said, but she might like you.

I had a similar problem like this a few months back. My friend, Jake, left me a message expressing his undying love for me & I asked him about it the next day. He denied it at first then like 5 days later he admitted to it. So. . . Its hard to tell, but just wait. She may just like you.

 

[LPHybridSnax]

I've been told she likes me, I didn't really think about it though becuase I had gone with one of her good friends for about 5 months so I figured that just automatically she wouldn't be with me for that reason. Once I broke up with her friend she started to hang around me more.

and yeah I don't think she loves me, maybe likes, but yeah we don't know. It sucks I don't know anything about drinking... seeing as my dad's an alcoholic you'd think I'd know a lot. Oh yeah, that thing about my sister made me laugh lol, she's not the nicest person in the world.

 

[stupidsoul1]

She may like you alot,i know most of my friends tell heaps of lies or the straight out truth when they are drunk.

 

[LPHybridSnax]

Well, here's a little more information, we talk, on average, 6 days a week on the phone and if we can't talk we usually text eachother. She always talks to me about relationship advice like if she likes two different guys which one do I think she should be with, how to fix a relationship, etc. and she always tells me personal stuff that nobody else knows, not even her best friend or family.

Then like she is really protective of me for example I had to walk with leg braces until 6th grade, then I had knee braces for a year, so my walk is a little off (people don't normally notice it, I've gotten a lot better) and a while back this guy said that he can point us out cuz my 'gay *** walk' and she FREAKED out on him, it was kinda funny actually.

One more thing, we were texting and I was messing around and I said 'hey sexy' she asked why I called her that followed by =) then I said cuz I you're she's sexy, she didn't reply for about 15 minutes so I sent her another saying 'don't worry I'm not ganna go all Dillin on you' (Dillin being a guy that started as her best friends boyfriend, then her friend, then asked her out, when she refused he acted like they dated and basically stalked her until she told him to '**** off and get the **** out of her life' and the same guy that said I had a gay *** walk) she replied 'lol good'

Sorry, lot of reading...

 

[Clogz]

Well, she was drunk...don't forget that fact. With this in mind, getting hammared can make you say and do alot of things you don't mean, and won't be proud of. You really should not take anything a drunk person says seriously.

 

[FireHawk]

Well' date=' she was drunk...don't forget that fact. With this in mind, getting hammared can make you say and do alot of things you don't mean, and won't be proud of. You really should not take anything a drunk person says seriously.[/quote']
Yeah that is good adivce.

Drunks do a lot of stupid things and say stuff the don't mean.

 

[LPHybridSnax]

yeah i know, its kinda fun to watch my dad when he's wasted.

 

[LPpinkfreak821]

well it happens, but life goes on.

so you guys basically . . .well SHE basically lives off you. In the way that she would have to talk to you. It seems like she likes you. Since you guys like always talk just dont do anything about it. If she likes you, eventually she will come to you. mk!? so just chill for now.

 

[LPHybridSnax]

okay, a few of my friends, and her best friend (my exgirlfriend), say that she likes me, she's about to call me, she said its important, but her little sister might've said that (it was in a text) because likes me... its really creepy she's wierd as **** she's never even met me.. anyway, like you said whatever happens, happens.

 

[Breakingthehabit_197]

People say all kinds of things when they are drunk lol, alcohol is truth serum and it can make you tell every secret you've got hidden lol. I've never been drunk but my mom has and she says some **** that is off the wall lol. I've never been drunk but I've come close to it! I only get buzzed lol.

 

[Lyson]

yes...most people tell the truth when their drunk...so you never know!

 

[LPHybridSnax]

see now I'm getting people saying drunk people tell the truth and they say whatever and it doesn't mean anything. It's been awhile now, she doesn't remember the conversation or even the fact she called, we talked on the phone for about an hour the other day (catching up, we don't see eachother much anymore) and she hugs me every time she sees me, so I don't know. She did at one time I know and she always asks me relationship advice so I think I've become "that" friend, she asked me if she made the right decision about her new boyfriend and I said "yeah he's a pretty good guy, better than your last one at least" (I know her last one since 7th grade, not a bad person, but not her type) and she quickly changed the subject.

 

[Lyson]

being "that" friend, we refer to it as being stuck in the friend zone.

This usually happens when the guy likes the girl but settles as being her friend so he always knows whats going on in her life. If she hasn't brought it up then theres a chance she doesn't remember or that she doesn't want to bring it up.

Guys stuck in the friend zone usually dont say anything to the girl, if you like her then be honest with her, you guys are good friends and theres not much that could go wrong.

If you dont like her then dont stress and dont let it give you grays...i can tell you that i think no girl is worth a guy stressing and vice versa.

But thats my opinion.