*** = Friendship?

[MrsBennington-Delson]

Title says it pretty much but for those who don't get it here a lil help

A: You have a good friend or maybe even best and you both are single. Would you or do you think it's ok to have *** with him/her although you don't love each other?

or for example

 


B: You had a bf/gf broke up and now you are good friends. You used to save *** with him/her and you still feel attracted to him/her. Would you or do you think it's ok to have *** with him/her after all?

Discuss ^^

 

[GraDoN]

hmm *** can do more harm than good in many ways IMO

its for you to decide at the end of the day, its called casual *** right? :>

but i dont think that *** = friendship

 

[Linkin_lp_park]

Some people have what it called ´ A *** partner ´

They aren´t in love but only have ***

Imo it´s ok to do that

Although myself I wouldn´t have *** with someone i´m not in love with

But for example when a hot girl comes to me at a party i wouldn´t say no

 

[GraDoN]

Some people have what it called ´ A *** partner ´They aren´t in love but only have ***

Imo it´s ok to do that

Although myself I wouldn´t have *** with someone i´m not in love with

But for example when a hot girl comes to me at a party i wouldn´t say no

no its called 'friends with benefits' xD

and yeah thats quite a bummer even if you have a gf :>

 

[Stenners]

We call em **** buddies, they are common around here.... as long as you both understand that the is no commitment then its just another activity... though its crusual the feeling is mutrual

 

[Sygy]

Those type of arrangements very rarely work therefore i think theyre a very bad idea. Im all for casual *** however, to continously engage in it with the same person over a substaintial period of time whether you like it or not or try hard not to, a sort of bond is formed. Which can be harmful for both parties especially when they see the other starting a serious relanshonship, the other gets angry and jealous. Apart from that it can tarnish a perfectly friendship!



i think this a rare time when i try to be mature.

 

[Jeezy]

I think it's ok in both cases

as long as you have fun...why not?

 

[Breakdown Conspiracy]

hmm *** can do more harm than good in many ways IMOits for you to decide at the end of the day, its called casual *** right? :>

but i dont think that *** = friendship

I reckon the same. Tons of my friends have "**** buddies", yet I think its a kinda silly and wasteful idea.

 

[allieking]

its all about personal preferance. if your ok with "casual ***" then its ok aslong as no one gets hurt and your carefull. myself don't agree with it as i think you should be in a commited relationship, i have never had a one night stand or casual *** because it would make me feel used and dirty.

on the subject of *** with friends, i think this is a huge mistake. once you have crossed that line there is no going back and it changes things forever. friendship is more important than *** as you need true friends in life.

 

[Black_Angel]

Having *** with a friend would just seem totally weird to me.

And you wouldn't be able to go back to how you were before.

 

[HaziLPTonz]

it would depend though...some it would ruin the friendship completely, some it wont matter at all

though generally it tends to **** up friendships

 

[untitled]

Title says it pretty much but for those who don't get it here a lil help
A: You have a good friend or maybe even best and you both are single. Would you or do you think it's ok to have *** with him/her although you don't love each other?

or for example

 


B: You had a bf/gf broke up and now you are good friends. You used to save *** with him/her and you still feel attracted to him/her. Would you or do you think it's ok to have *** with him/her after all?

Discuss ^^

i actually had B with my ex in the time we were on a break, didnt feel weird at all..

A i'm not sure if i would do it, my best friend and i almost had *** at one time but i stopped it cause it didnt feel right and i thought it would maybe ruin the friendship..

but if both want it..why not

 

[Peterdea]

Depends on who it is.

If Ash throws a party, heaps of people show up, I'm friends with all of them (all the girls at least), things happen (with the girls of course for those who decide to take things the wrong way -_-), fun is had, thats all that matters.

 

[GraDoN]

well *** aint just some **** to play around with, can do some ugly things to any relationship if abused

 

[LPShinodaFM]

Friends with Benefits isn't a very sensible thing, imo. *** often lead to problems. I don't think it should be something taken casually. I mean, what IF the condom broke or something and you or your partner got pregnant? You should only have *** when you feel you are responsible enough to have a child with the other person, because there's always a chance that the girl will get pregnant.

 

[Tomer]

Friends with Benefits isn't a very sensible thing, imo. *** often lead to problems. I don't think it should be something taken casually. I mean, what IF the condom broke or something and you or your partner got pregnant? <b>You should only have *** when you feel you are responsible

 

[Jeezy]

If you really protect yourself there's no big risk..at least if both sides care about that....

and if something would happen i would definitely be there and do the best i could for a child.

 

[_deemy_]

I've had few **** buddies, and they were all friends to start off with. And contrary to most people's beliefs in here, we are still friends even after we've finished having our fun.

People take *** way to seriously these days, and it's starting to get to the point where it's just stupid. Everyone needs to lighten up a bit. It's just ***.

 

[Peterdea]

People take *** way to seriously these days, and it's starting to get to the point where it's just stupid. Everyone needs to lighten up a bit. It's just ***.

Agreed....