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[tuba]

i ve bf but da problem is here it goes....

he is actually a teenis player he is into all this touranment thing.. he is really busy.. but da problem is tht he called me very often .. like we had this thing tht u will daily talk at nite after 12 noon.. but he was not calling me cuz he get tired i said ok donot call he said he can call me in after noon something i said ok...he actually short temper person nd egoistic person.. alos he has alot of attitude... since he was not calling me so i just brust out at him.. cuz when ever i need him to talk he was not there.. but he wants me to be there when he needs me!!!!.i was having really tough days i need him but he was not.. so i said him tht everything u said its a lie!! he said we cannot go along cuz i m lier... i asked u really donot want to get along answer me yes or no... nd i said i m sorry i told u i m having tough days i thought u will understand.. he said tht ya ur rite i donot understand.. i also got togh schedule i alos get tired.. we cannot carry on like this.. i said what u really want me to do??? he didinot reply(mind this this conversation was on sms.. cuz when he mad at me he didinot pick my phone)next morning a solution came to my mind i sms to him tht we can talk on saturdays or sundays rest of days we will not talk cuz ur busy.. he didnot reply nd i again sms him tht listen we should talk to sole da matter.. but he didnot reply..

my frdz says i should ignore him if he is showing me attitude... i should show him my attitude.. but i cannot show it.. i m really trying to show nd i think i should ignore him.. when he wana talk to me i wil nd clear everything....i always said him sorry first.. he donot he says sorry when i reallly brust at him..

telll me what to do

 

[Jeezy]

Seems like a problem...maybe you should just leave him alone for a while...if he really likes you he'll come back to you on his own...

 

[stupidsoul1]

Leave him,you can always find someone with less attitude.

 

[tuba]

last nite i had talk wid one of our common frd he called me he told me tht my bf said to him abt me tht now he dosenot like to talk to me.....now i think tht i should leave him alone if he talks to me i will pretend tht nohting happened nd i will not trust him nd wil not ve any expections...... cuz he is an *******

tell me me rite???

 

[Clogz]

Look, you need to calm down...both of you need to calm down. You are both aggravating the situation. It seems like you two have been under alot of pressure and stress from your lives lately, and now you are using your relationship simply as a vent for all that frustration and anger. You are getting ****** at each other...and its tearing you apart.

The best thing you can do is call him, and tell him that you want to calmy talk about this, no fights. Figure out what will work out best for both of you. If he is a busy guy, then there is a good chance you won't be able to talk to him some days when you need him - thats what your friends are for.

Don't act like it didn't happen though, because then it will come back in the end and bite you. And if he is not interested in fixing the problem, then dump him and move on. If he wants to keep fighting he isn't worth your time.

 

[damned666]

Look, you need to calm down...both of you need to calm down. You are both aggravating the situation. It seems like you two have been under alot of pressure and stress from your lives lately, and now you are using your relationship simply as a vent for all that frustration and anger. You are getting ****** at each other...and its tearing you apart.The best thing you can do is call him, and tell him that you want to calmy talk about this, no fights. Figure out what will work out best for both of you. If he is a busy guy, then there is a good chance you won't be able to talk to him some days when you need him - thats what your friends are for.

Don't act like it didn't happen though, because then it will come back in the end and bite you. And if he is not interested in fixing the problem, then dump him and move on. If he wants to keep fighting he isn't worth your time.

i totaly agree don't be dumb just calm down and think whether you still love him and them talk to him about your feelings

 

[LPHybridSnax]

confront him, tell him that he is hurting you and this stuff isnt going to work if he is going to be acting like this

 

[tuba]

we both break up

but my sis seening condition talk to him.... he said i love her sooooooo much but she cannot get changed nd i need time to think.. so yesterday my sis asked him what it si decision... he said tht i cannt live without her nd love her sooooo much bla bla.. but i cannot decide cuz she cannnot change ..

da fact is thati donot know what change he want me???

so my frd told me to clearly ask him what change he want nd tel him i will change but clearly tel me

pray for me thta things work out.... cuz i reallly love him

 

[stupidsoul1]

I think if this is the case, you both need to talk about it.

 

[tuba]

my sis talk to him but he said ok.. but after few days he stop giving answers of my messages nd when ever i call him he cuts it or didnot pick i waited for him four days then i message him to tell me why he is doing this??? but he didnot reply so now after that i dinot talk to him nd its now two weeks actually je cheated me cuz he tols my sis that there is a girl in his university he is also interersted in her nd he thinks that if he propse her she will say yes but he when i asked hm about her he says that she is jsut my frd nd he is interested in her like" FRIEND INSERESTED" i donot get his so called frd interested i know he ledt me because of her. its ok.......... i m happy but i just want to know why he did this to me?????

what was my fault???

 

[J-Sun]

Well, I believe the fault was when you Burst out at him when he didn't call you for a time, you also say that he was very egotistical and has an attitude, he's interested in another girl and he lies to you. Wow, way to go. Well, if things work out, there'd be no reason o pursue it any longer, drop it. Listen to Emo/ Linkin Park Music, Chill out, get some friends together and go bowling or whatever. Afterwards you'll feel much better.

 

[Acezorz]

Listen to Emo/ Linkin Park Music' date=' Chill out, get some friends together and go bowling or whatever. Afterwards you'll feel much better.[/quote']
Agreed. Thats definatley the thing to do

 

[Xero_]

are you a 5 year old kid that doesn't know what the **** to do? what are you gonna do when you're alone? die?

****,try to do the right thing on your ****** own **** it

 

[Acezorz]

Ok thats just out of order, Xero....he posted here for freindly help and advice, show some respect damnit.

 

[tuba]

now the situation is after ignorimg me for one month he just came back to me!

now he is saying tht i had a solid reason for ignoring u so u ve to meet me!!!

but da problem is tht in pakistan if girl meet a guy its risky cuz he can force u ve *** wid him or rape u!! nd in my country if u once loose ur virgnity if u get married wid some other guy tht he give divorce to u for already being used!!

so me is afraid cuz if i met him this wil be ur first date!! cuz now i cannot trust him!! but my mom give me permisson to meet him

when i calle dhim he said i will tell u da day nd place but i said him u tel da day nd i will u da place.. i wnat to meet him in hotel near my home cuz if meet him far way so i ve sit wid him in this car nd i donot want this!!!he said i m busy week so we will meet in next week.. now i will see what now he is up to??? but i tjink i shud do this tht first tel me ur so called solid reason then i will meet u...i wil say to him if u really love me then tel me cuz i know he stil love me cuz i said to him tht i m getting enagged nd he become very possesive nd saying i waited for u nd love u nd bla bla nd when i yold him tht iw a sjoking he became angry on it.. nd he aso become angry on it when i asked on hi wht from what relationship i shud meet him???

so........ he confused niw cuz i stil love him but still angry at him cuz every time when we figths he ignored me... but this time we donot ve fight but why he ignored me????

nd wil he aslo ignored me after our marriage??? i m confused

 

[Breakingthehabit_197]

Seems like a problem...maybe you should just leave him alone for a while...if he really likes you he'll come back to you on his own...

I agree

 

[tuba]

I agree

may be u ppl r rite

nd by way i ve dumped him i think i did rite coz he was coming nd going.... nd im not a a toy i think if he really loves me he will straight come to me nd say sorry nd straight tell what it is in his mind.. i mean no more games...