I feel like I'm gonna die before I get a chance...

[LÎnkinPärkExtreme]

Your all probably wondering wtf are I'm on about

Well.. Lets just say I'm ready for *** but the 1 thing that is stuck in my head is if I don't have my first time soon I'm gonna die.... which I know you guys might think that's kinda stupid but I think It's because the girls in this town aren't really interested in guys like me with a bad reputation and ****. meh I dunno what to do... But I cant get it off my mind til I do it type thing and It's really annoying me. But what do you guys think about 1 night stands etc... Is it really worth it? any advice even if it's advice saying im stupid is fine

 

[Victim]

Your only 14, you shouldn't even be thinking about *** yet..

 

[Stenners]

Ur 14, get over it =)

most people dont loose their virginity till 17,18 or 19 and people before it are the typical guys who cant commit (usualy anyways). Also it becomes alot easier once ur out of school as reputation doesn't really exist when u start meeting people going out rather then in school.

 

[LÎnkinPärkExtreme]

Your only 14, you shouldn't even be thinking about *** yet..

I thought somebody would say that Well you know.. I believe if your ready and your responsible . mature enough etc... then it really shouldn't matter what age you are.

Ur 14, get over it =)most people dont loose their virginity till 17,18 or 19 and people before it are the typical guys who cant commit (usualy anyways). Also it becomes alot easier once ur out of school as reputation doesn't really exist when u start meeting people going out rather then in school.

I'm nearly 15 tho :lol: and yeah that's a point a very good point actually. :thumbsup: It's just you know... I can't get it off my mind and its giving me the *****... Part of growing up I guess.

 

[Victim]

My little sister is 10, and she things she is mature.. Just because you think you are doesn't mean you actaully are.. Are you ready to have a child? Are you ready to get and STD? I don't mean to sound parent/authority like.. But its true.. and even if you are almost 15, is that really any better then 14? And I don't mean to put you down, sure maybe you are old enought to handle this responsiblilty, but why risk it so young, when you have so much life left ahead of you..Just think about all the consquenses that you would have to deal with. Is it really worth it?

 

[LÎnkinPärkExtreme]

My little sister is 10, and she things she is mature.. Just because you think you are doesn't mean you actaully are.. Are you ready to have a child? Are you ready to get and STD? I don't mean to sound parent/authority like.. But its true.. and even if you are almost 15, is that really any better then 14? And I don't mean to put you down, sure maybe you are old enought to handle this responsiblilty, but why risk it so young, when you have so much life left ahead of you..Just think about all the consquenses that you would have to deal with. Is it really worth it?

Well you only live once.. and If things happen they happen I guess... And I know what your saying etc... But It's not like I'm gonna have unprotected ***... I'm not that stupid and even if protection fails which it does I know it happens and if it happens I guess I would just cross the roads if I ever came to them. But everyone says Im quite mature for my "age" so meh That's just how I see things

 

[Alicena]

In my country, have *** with 14 years is too young. 18 or 20 is ok

but i`m different LOL

I think the first time comes when there`s a opportunity. but you don`t have to be crazy about it... it just comes.

ok, it happened to me ;B

 

[LÎnkinPärkExtreme]

In my country, have *** with 14 years is too young. 18 or 20 is ok
but i`m different LOL

I think the first time comes when there`s a opportunity. but you don`t have to be crazy about it... it just comes.

ok, it happened to me ;B

Yeah I see why the law puts in these ages etc... but if you understand the consequences of something happening etc and your mature enough to make a decision I think the law should just allow the teen to have *** (Meh kids don't give a stuff about the age of consent haha) ... It's not the end of the world if something happens. It's just 1 of those lifes challenges. :thumbsup:

 

[Alicena]

there are no laws about ***, is something about culture.

i agree with you, if you feel mature enough to have ***, do it when the opportunity comes.

fin

 

[Friðbjörn]

ehhh you're 14?

go enjoy being a kid...

what's the deal anyway. kids doing things they should save until their adult years...***, drugs, etc

 

[Alicena]

drugs? xD

drugs are bad in any person and age

 

[Friðbjörn]

yeah poorly worded on my behalf.

but the thing is though, the earlier you start drugs, the worse. of course it's best never to do them =)

 

[Breakdown Conspiracy]

Your all probably wondering wtf are I'm on about
Well.. Lets just say I'm ready for *** but the 1 thing that is stuck in my head is if I don't have my first time soon I'm gonna die.... which I know you guys might think that's kinda stupid but I think It's because the girls in this town aren't really interested in guys like me with a bad reputation and ****. meh I dunno what to do... But I cant get it off my mind til I do it type thing and It's really annoying me. But what do you guys think about 1 night stands etc... Is it really worth it? any advice even if it's advice saying im stupid is fine

Just enjoy life without all the mature worries while you can.

Your only 14, you shouldn't even be thinking about *** yet..

LOL you'd be surprised

But yea, just slow down till the time comes. I mean, I'm almost 18, never had a GF, which dosent mean I dont have female friends, and never had ***, but I dont care. I'd sooner get a good car, and education first before things like that cloud my mind. Some people may wana **** as soon as their legal (which is 16 in NZ) or way before, which is the usual case, but thats their choice.

 

[LPShinodaFM]

*** complicates life.

*** makes life (which you may not want).

*** can ruin your life.

*** is not that's all in life.

P.S. You probably wouldnt' die before you have ***... You're going to live for awhile, so there's plenty of time later.

 

[Stenners]

drugs? xDdrugs are bad in any person and age

Stop drinking coca cola thats got drugs in it n stop medicine whilst ur at it. Naivety is awesome! =D

Where was i

O yar! In this country its 16years old when ur legally aloud to *** it up

 

[DarknessLover]

Cola doesn't have drugs in it anymore. Also...

Dude, I think no matter HOW mature you are, it's just you haven't grown yet, to fully understand the consequences and possibilities. You haven't lived life long enough to have seen others have these problems. I think you should just wait it out, sure you can think about ***, nothing wrong with wondering! Plus, girls are all in all usually pretty prude...so if the girls lets you go that far, and she becomes pregnant, then she was stupid enough to let you. If the girl lets you, and makes sure you don't "slip up" and she doesn't get the problems, she was a smart girl that actually cares for you...

Just my opinion

 

[Alicena]

*** complicates life.
*** makes life (which you may not want).

*** can ruin your life.

*** is not that's all in life.

P.S. You probably wouldnt' die before you have ***... You're going to live for awhile, so there's plenty of time later.

but if you don`t take care, you would die. having *** without protection is dangerous.

before having ***, go to a drugstore and buy a condom

 

[twilightcrimson7]

****, you're fifteen! Enjoy it, I frikin' wish I was that young. I'm almost eighteen and I wish I was a kid. I don't really want to grow up.

Wanting to splurge in one area means you have to commit to other things. Like Victim said. Take the good WITH the bad. If you think you're an adult enough to get it on, then you must be adult enough to pay child support. I'm not saying you're goin' ta have a kid, but you have to be ready if you're willing to jump into it like that.

Maturity =/= ***

There are much more important rites of passage that you will encounter along the way.

Take it easy and enjoy the simple things before they get complicated.

 

[Sygy]

*** isnt really as good as the media all hype it up to be, trust me. Speaking from personal expericance its muc better to do it with some-one you really have a connection with also i did it at a rather young age and to be frank i regret it some times. so my advice basically echos what everyone else has said, wait maybe youll actually meet some one when you move out of your town and away from those who stigmatize you!