I need advice please!!!!

[Xblackwidow20X]

well my ex and i had broken up a year ago. and today his brother left an IM asking me back for somthing that my ex had left at my old house. they are night vision goggles. to tell you the truth i dont know where they are. but my ex is an *** and he didnt want to stay friends. now after a year his fam wants to talk to me because they want somthing.

 


what should i do? give them back if i find them? or ignore what they want like he ignores me now?

 


oh my ex and i went out for 4 years and since we broke up he didnt want anything to do with me. i wanted to stay friends. so in the end im deeply hurt. thanks for your opnion.

 

[o0SugaxNxSpice0o]

Whoa o_0 By the way, this thread is probably more appropriate in the "Dark Room" section. That's the place for asking advice with personal problems and such =)

Personally, I would just ignore that IM and block / ignore him. If your ex wanted them back badly, he would've gone up to your face and asked you for them himself, instead of being a bish and getting his brother to IM you, so he must've need them desperatly Why should you even waste time looking for his goggles when he's been ignoring you for that long? You're sooo over him. I know this is kinda like holding a grudge, but he hurt you lol (Girl instincts lol). You might as well make him suffer over his poor lickle night vision goggles =)

Wait to see if he'll ask for them back from you himself... Then tell him that your hamster chewed them up real good with his sharp white teeth, put a sprinkling of raisins on them, before running them over with a tricycle growling and spitting. OR you can pretend you have them but you refuse to give them him back. He can buy a new pair. Cheapo

 

[By_My-elf]

Whoa o_0 By the way, this thread is probably more appropriate in the "Dark Room" section. That's the place for asking advice with personal problems and such =)
Personally, I would just ignore that IM and block / ignore him. If your ex wanted them back badly, he would've gone up to your face and asked you for them himself, instead of being a bish and getting his brother to IM you, so he must've need them desperatly Why should you even waste time looking for his goggles when he's been ignoring you for that long? You're sooo over him. I know this is kinda like holding a grudge, but he hurt you lol (Girl instincts lol). You might as well make him suffer over his poor lickle night vision goggles =)

Wait to see if he'll ask for them back from you himself... Then tell him that your hamster chewed them up real good with his sharp white teeth, put a sprinkling of raisins on them, before running them over with a tricycle growling and spitting. OR you can pretend you have them but you refuse to give them him back. He can buy a new pair. Cheapo

If i were you I'd go with this it sound's reasonable

 

[shingo]

if he's being a **** about being freinds ... then don't give them back ! i think it's only fare game ...

 

[Heart_LP]

Ignore him!

 

[Black_Angel]

Yah, he doesn't deserve your time if he can't be civil about it.

 

[GhostX]

I'm a guy, I wouldn't give them back if I was in your position. He sounds like a total ***.

 

[allieking]

ignore him

 

[LPGotLinkinPark]

Ignore him like you never got the message. If he actually calls you or comes to you to ask for them, tell him you don't know where they are. If you find them, burn them....or ya give them back. :] heheh.

 

[stupidsoul1]

Ignore him, if you happen to find it then do what you want to do with them maybe take out the lenses or something?

I don't know i don't think you should go out of your way to give him something that he took so long to ask for.