Insulting peoples children

Ok, first of all, I know that I am new here, and I am still getting to know the place. I also realize that people are going to say whatever they are going to say....

But here is my gripe....

Those of us that are members here, are members knowing that there is going to be mud slung in our general direction on occasion. That's all well and good...But what the hell kind of person brings KIDS into the mud slinging?

It's completely uncouth, and in my opinion, anyone that would insult a child as a way to try to upset the parent, is pretty much a scumbag.

So you don't like the parent. So freaking what. Don't bring an innocent child into it.

Just my 2 cents. Take it or leave it, I don't really care...but I had to say something. All that shit being thrown around about somebody's daughter has been pissing me off.

I know that it is schoolyard tactics....but it is one thing that gets to me.

I do view kids as innocents...even if they have shithead parents. My kid has a shithead dad, and I am here to tell you that he is a GREAT kid, despite that.

Other than that, people can spew anything they want and it will just roll off my back. LOL

You know, I did spend a short period of time thinking that exact thing, but then I realized that my SINGLE lapse in judgement resulted in a child that has proven to be the best part of my life.

He, on the other hand, made multiple lapses of judgement that caused him to be tossed out on his ass.

No comparison.

You know, I did spend a short period of time thinking that exact thing, but then I realized that my SINGLE lapse in judgement resulted in a child that has proven to be the best part of my life.

He, on the other hand, made multiple lapses of judgement that caused him to be tossed out on his ass.

No comparison.

Eh, prove it that you are wonderful. So far, you mean nothing to any us here. What have you done that has made you so much better?

No proof necessary. The only person whose opinion I care about is my child's. It doesn't matter to me one way or the other what people here think of me personally.

I didn't start this thread to debate about myself anyway. Original intention was simply to state that it isn't right to bring people's kids into an insult war.

Every single EX says the other one is a screaming asshole.... Just remember you married the guy, sucked his cock, let him slide his cock into you and leave a hot steaming pile of jizz that resulted in the now present child of yours. So every time you speak of how fucked up he is; your just making a statement about how MORE fucked up you are, because you married they guy, sucked his cock and let him leave squid juice all up in you....

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I would like to give Nazz double rep for this!!!

Shouldn't be a big deal what part of the family you fuck with. It shouldn't hit a nerve UNLESS IT"S TRUE?? Where i work we fuck with everybody them, kids, sister and damn sure there mom. The catholic priests think it's ok to fuck with children, who the hell are you to say we can't. And i do have two girls and take a lot of shit. So toughen up and quit being so emotional, or maybe myspace would be softer.

Insulting someone's children isn't right plan and simple.

I was at a playground once where some girls wouldn't let my son and his friend go down the slide, so after the kids asked them about 4 times to move politely, and one father also asking the girls nicely and getting a rude response I told my son to just come down we'd go to another slide. My son called one of the girls mean as he was leaving. So the girl runs to her mommy (who is not paying attention because she's busying chatting with the other fat stepford moms). I had already spoken to my son about saying that to her when Captain Snacks as I nicknamed her comes over with a tude, and starts yelling your son called my daughter a name, he's bad. Well you can bet your ass she's lucky she was at a playground or I would've dropped her to the ground. I let her have it verbally though, but I made sure I was right in her face and the kids couldn't hear me. First off, kids are kids. Her kid was being a little brat, but I would never say that in front of the child.

The girls appeared to be about 8 at the time, my son and his buddy were 3. Huge difference.

Ok, first of all, I know that I am new here, and I am still getting to know the place. I also realize that people are going to say whatever they are going to say....

But here is my gripe....

Those of us that are members here, are members knowing that there is going to be mud slung in our general direction on occasion. That's all well and good...But what the hell kind of person brings KIDS into the mud slinging?

It's completely uncouth, and in my opinion, anyone that would insult a child as a way to try to upset the parent, is pretty much a scumbag.

So you don't like the parent. So freaking what. Don't bring an innocent child into it.

Just my 2 cents. Take it or leave it, I don't really care...but I had to say something. All that shit being thrown around about somebody's daughter has been pissing me off.

I completely agree. Some of the cheap tactics being used lately against one member in particular is pretty low, even for this place. and that is saying a lot.

My son called one of the girls mean as he was leaving....

I had already spoken to my son about saying that to her when Captain Snacks as I nicknamed her...

So you scold you son for calling someone mean, but you call someone "Captain Snacks"?

What in the hell does Captain Snacks mean? LMAO!

she eats alot or she's fat? that's my guess...

I completely agree. Some of the cheap tactics being used lately against one member in particular is pretty low, even for this place. and that is saying a lot.

 

 

 

 

So you scold you son for calling someone mean, but you call someone "Captain Snacks"?

she eats alot or she's fat? that's my guess...

Proof is ALWAYS necessary its what separates facts from fiction. And if your looking for approval from a child, especially your own child I think the fuzzy tuning on you is clearing up significantly in many areas of your parenting skills as well as what contributed to your divorce from ass-hole #1 is there and asshole #2 yet??

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Actually, I disagree. I have no need of providing proof to you regarding who I am, or why I am. I owe you nothing, as you are nothing more than words on a screen to me, at this point in my involvement in this forum. I barely know anyone here, therefore my life is not as yet an open book.

As to looking to my son for approval, that is not the case. His opinion matters to me, yes, but not because I need his approval. It matters to me because he is a human being, not a robot. I do not run a dictatorship in my house. We have some pretty strict rules, but I encourage him to be open with me. If my son feels unhappy, or displeased about something, I want him to be comfortable talking to me about it.

About the asshole #2, no, there isn't. I don't have the time to waste on a man right now, and I won't let just anybody into my life or my son's life. My ex and I separated 3 years ago. He moved on before he left. I haven't even gone out on a date since. My son comes first.

Think what you want to think. Doesn't matter one bit to me. I still stand behind my belief that it is inherently wrong to bring people's children into an argument, or fight.

I didn't scold him, I merely told him to not bother with them,

oh, like how you don't bother with them... </sarcasm>

Or would be creating multiple childish nicknames not be considered "bothering with them"?

Sometimes you really make me wonder...

oh, like how you don't bother with them... </sarcasm>

 

Or would be creating multiple childish nicknames not be considered "bothering with them"?

 

Sometimes you really make me wonder...

I didn't call the woman that to her face, just what I like to refer to her as with grown ups, now run along little Eddie and go play with your tonka trucks.

so the "grown ups" that you hang out with enjoy childish nicknames like "Captain Snacks" or "buffarillo" ???

You either got some immature friends, or they are mighty stupid to find either of those in any way humorous.

True, children should not be visiting this forum, but that is neither here nor there. What does it say about a person, when the insulting resorts to being nasty about someones' kids? If someone has a problem with me, I expect them to be mature enough to take it up with ME, and not bring my children into it.

Anything else is cowardly, as I see it. When someone resorts to that, it tells me that the reason behind the insulting in the first place is based on little more than hormonal, pissy behavior with no grounds in reality.

so the "grown ups" that you hang out with enjoy childish nicknames like "Captain Snacks" or "buffarillo" ???

 

You either got some immature friends, or they are mighty stupid to find either of those in any way humorous.

His opinion on what? the type of sugary goodness he will be eating in the form of his breakfast cereal? or maybe his opinion on when its time to go to bed perhaps. Or what TV show he will be watching etc... Unless your asking him his opinion on what brokerage firm you should be using or the benefits of one vehicles MPG -vs- another

 

Translation, your imprinting your son onto yourself so he can be emotionally crippled as an adult, your bitter and you do not get along with real people in the real ADULT world.... just a guess.

 

I bet you brought your son into the argument when you where getting a divorce, and over custody and I bet you didn't say nice things about his father then or now.

 

Summary:

Your son will grow up to be an emotionally unstable adult man. On his journey to becoming an adult he will most likely be an addict of some kind (probably addicted to your prescription drugs) he will under-perform in school and he Will never take any responsibility for himself. He will be a loser.

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Couldn't be more wrong. As a matter of fact, every single thing you said was about as far off as a person can get.

1. His opinion onanything. I value what my child has to say. He doesn't always get his way, but he has learned that I will listen to him and consider what he has to say. It has taught him to present a good case. Not a bad thing.

2. My not dating anyone has to do with the fact that I do not have tiime to waste on men right now. Fucking someone is not a priority, but raising my son in a good, healthy, loving environment is. I don't need a man to facilitate that. I am extremely busy trying to make a good life for my child and myself. I get along great with people, but have no tolerance for assholes or idiots.

3. Despite the shitty things his father has done, both then and now, I have CONSISTENTLY encouraged a relationship between my son and his father. I have gone out of my way to facilitate it.(To the point of giving my ex money so he would have no excuse not to take our son to a movie.)

I have never spoken ill of his father. To this day, my son has NO idea what the real reason behind the divorce is.As far as he knows, his father and I just couldn't live together any more.

Funny...in reading your response to me, the only person who seems bitter is you, NazzNeg. A woman do you wrong somewhere?

Not bitter at all, just pointing out your bullshit, and as far as a woman doing me wrong wellllllll any woman can do me wrong, sideways, upside down, bending over and on her knees for all I care.... But since you brought that up, the woman doing a man "wrong" thing, is that even possible?? How exactly can a woman "do" a "man" wrong?? sexually speaking I believe it would be close to impossible. relationship speaking I guess you don't know us "Men" so good, do us "wrong" as you say and we simply move on, we continue our journey in life and forget all about you... we give it all closure and move on... The best part is we get to meet new people and become a better person outselves having learned from the whole experiance... what do women do?? dwell... thats what they do, as far as money goes phuttt!!! on that, men can make more money, or we can live in a tent, most of us really dont care which one it is. Ooo I would say you are plenty bitter about your life, and it is a safe bet you will screw that kid up for the rest of his life.

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Nazzy boy, are you on better meds or am I? Because you are starting to make sense again.