internet relationships

hi, well, i just want to ask if anyone's ever fallen in love or has a crush on anyone they met online? if they ask you if you two could become more than friends because they really like you, what would you say? can you trust them?

because a guy i know since feb, and i have a big big big big crush on him, just told me he really likes me, and he's all the way in UK. i know, it could be as a friend, but i....don't know.

 

Jenny

it has never happened to me b4,besides if i decide to date some1 on the internet is like dating my computer,that´s what I think at least.

In the other hand,i think it would be kool to meet that person and try to know him/her personlly and u can spend more time with him/her.

So if u really really like this guy and u are arranged to give everything on this guy,I suggest u to take the risk.

I´m not really good at giving advices but as I read your post I just feel to say that,so good luck with your boy;)

thanks alot 4everLP_Shinoda. i've heard alot about internet relationships, it can turn out to be a miracle as well as hell. we've seen what each other looks like, and joked about it, and even exchanged mobiles is that too much? i don't know.

 

Jenny

*Shrugs* i feel the same way about it as vero i spose....but i totally support azem n cb7

i know someone i've been talking to For nearley.... whoa like...1 1/2 years .... He lives in aus ... and I never thought that i would have feelings for someone online, it seemed rather weird... but no... its fine...

 

I really lik ehim nd hope we get to meet some day... only thing is he has an online GF.. so were just.... FRIENDS... which is good cuz i cant let myself go crazy over some guy online... ya we talk online and we see eachothers cams often and flirt and stuff but i dunno... the not physically being there part is sucky.

 

But i do believe online relationships work.. there is a couple on the dailyconfession.com forums .. one lives in the us and one lives in the uk... they fly to eachother everymonth and seem pretty happy.

 

If you have the money it possible.

 

I can trust him (the guy in aus) i have trusted him. hes proven trustworthy and i know he isnt some weirdo middle aged man, because i see him on cam all the time...

 

Unless your open to online relationships , you will never know what i mean.

my story is worse than all of you. i love him, from germany. this 13th jan will be the fouth years we've known each other.. oh god. i've loved him for more 2 years.. he is one of my 4 kool friends on the net. he is a really nice guy, i trust in him. he likes me, and he knows that i love him. but he does not believe in love on the net.. what can i say now? i was trying to make him understand that how i loved him.. he did not believe my love. i know its hard to believe in love on the net. but i love him and i just can say i love him.. i know i cant change his mind.. its stupid when i do not meet him in real life.. i will go to germany for studying, but not now, when i graduated in my university. but it takes a long time, more 3 or 4 years. at that time, maybe he is married.. haha.. right now i miss him much, i wrote a letter to finish this pain.. its funny, 'cuz im his nothing, just an online friend.. i have to forget him. althought i never want that, anyway im from vietnam, and he is from germany.. too far! he still be my kool friend, special one in my heart.. so sad.

Roxy, I do know what you mean. I believe he isn't some wierdo too. Goodluck to you, hope you do meet one day. ^^

 

And breakin'habit, my situation was similar to yours. He's much more mature than I am, he's very serious and once told me that he doesn't believe in online relationships. He use to be like a big brother to me. He's talented and smart and kind, and I just love him! I really don't think he'd ever like me. But he said it! So it felt like he likes me as a sister or friend which was very painful. Should I just keep it this way? Or tell him how "I" really feel?

 

Plus, he may already have a girlfriend in real life (only I never actually asked him), just...way too good for me.

 

Jenny

i dunno.. but i said to him that how i loved him.. he is a nice guy, treats me good, like a big bro.. but i do not want he would be my bro.. never.. :-"

Me too. This is so sad, how old is he and how old are you? My crush is...6 years older. He really is like a big brother, I dont even know if this love I have for him is some kind of sisterly love to a big brother.

 

Jenny

mine is my age

 

Which makes it harder...

 

Also hes coming here soon and i convinced him not to see me. Cuz it would just be too hard.

 

Im a fucking moron.

Me too. This is so sad, how old is he and how old are you? My crush is...6 years older. He really is like a big brother, I dont even know if this love I have for him is some kind of sisterly love to a big brother.

 

Jenny

im 21 years old, will be 22 in this 14th jan

my crush is 6 years older, too..

your name is jenny? me, my name is dy, nice to meet u, jenny

Roxy, you ain't a moron. maybe just not ready, has he seen your picture?

If my crush came I'll see him for sure, but my parents would probably kill me. But I did it for love...

 

Hi Dy, nice to meet you too. My crush is 21 too, and I'm only 15. Don't you think its ridiculous? But I really really like him, he's always there for me. Seriously, maybe I should just leave it this way...

 

Jenny

ridiculous? no, its not.. my first love was when i was 16.. so its not ridiculous... :-?

hey pple..my case is the most wierdest.. this guy, last year, we met online. we talked and exchanged emails....then one day he told me...that i was comin in his dreams and all that stupid stuff..but i didnt like him more than just a fren....so i just told him...he got upset...after that we lost contact...he didnt email me..i didnt too..but u noe what was the most wierdest part?? HE WAS 26!! ALMOST 13 YEARS ELDER THEN ME!!!! my god..i just got so disgusted when he said that he liked me.....ewww...

hey pple..my case is the most wierdest.. this guy' date=' last year, we met online. we talked and exchanged emails....then one day he told me...that i was comin in his dreams and all that stupid stuff..but i didnt like him more than just a fren....so i just told him...he got upset...after that we lost contact...he didnt email me..i didnt too..but u noe what was the most wierdest part?? HE WAS 26!! ALMOST 13 YEARS ELDER THEN ME!!!! my god..i just got so disgusted when he said that he liked me.....ewww...[/quote']

 

 

13 years older then you, and he is 26 that means your 13.

 

What the fuck are you doing talking to someone TWICE your age anyways ??

 

I dont care how mature you think you are.

 

Please just tell me what convinced you that it was ok to talk to someone who was your current age .... when you were BORN ?

Off Topic/On Topic

 

roxy your sig has two right feet btw...lol

 

 

and i don't know how i feel about internet relationships...i mean i joke around about it, but it's really not for me i guess, cuz there's no way you can really know a person you meet online, cuz ya, it's a fuckin screen that you're talkin to, not a persons face. and like, one of my friends had an internet gf, and he ended up goin girl crazy cuz he never saw her, it was really really sad. i just think internet relationships...aren't the best...but it's not like the worst thing in the world

no if you both have cam, its totally different.

 

and i know it has two right feet, i cant seem to make the left one left. It looks all deformed .. so I just left it. lol.

regardless of cam, doesn't show their true person, just shows that when someone's watchin em they can act a certain way..

 

 

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Thanks.

lol no prob, it's not lookin right to me no more...lol

No, Online relationships are almost impossible, you gotta talk with the person for years to know her/him pretty good. It's easier to meet somebody in real life

hey pple..my case is the most wierdest.. this guy' date=' last year, we met online. we talked and exchanged emails....then one day he told me...that i was comin in his dreams and all that stupid stuff..but i didnt like him more than just a fren....so i just told him...he got upset...after that we lost contact...he didnt email me..i didnt too..but u noe what was the most wierdest part?? HE WAS 26!! ALMOST 13 YEARS ELDER THEN ME!!!! my god..i just got so disgusted when he said that he liked me.....ewww...[/quote']

 

awwwwwwwwwwww!

cute cute!

maybe he never found anyone to love him

so he thought "what about this cutie lil 13 yeas old girl"

LOL

awwwwwwwwwwww!

cute cute!

maybe he never found anyone to love him

so he thought "what about this cutie lil 13 yeas old girl"

LOL

 

dun disgust me sum1..or shall i say..LAMA...

13 years older then you, and he is 26 that means your 13.

 

What the fuck are you doing talking to someone TWICE your age anyways ??

 

I dont care how mature you think you are.

 

Please just tell me what convinced you that it was ok to talk to someone who was your current age .... when you were BORN ?

 

 

i became frens with him becoz we both like the same tamil actor..like how everyone here is frens wif everyone becoz we like lp..

Sometimes this relationships are very dangerous,but not always.We must be careful. For me the age is important.I will never be a girlfriend of 10-20 older boy.