****** it up.

Chris

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Okay. This is really difficult.

I like 2 girls. Those 2 girls hate each other. Those 2 girls have never seen each other because they live 50miles away from each other. I've seen both girls.

First, I met Fay. We watched a couple movies and kissed. That was my first kiss and she totally changed me and she knows that I ment that serious. Couple weeks later I went to her town, watched some movies and kissed. Fay already has 'some sort of boyfriend'. Not in love, but they **** each other. And she lives.. 100 miles away from me. I posted this a couple pages back i think. I said Id wanna try with her and make it work and she was considering about it but I didnt knew.

So 2 days ago, I met Anne. She stayed over at a friend of me, Guido. Guido knew I kind of had something going on with Fay. Anne likes me, but I didnt knew. Guido, later that day, asked me "Do you want to spend some time together with Anne?", and THAT is something he never should say again. Anyway, Anne didnt want to sleep at Guido's place, so she.. ehh.. kind of 'slept' over here. In my bed. With me. You do the math.

Fay knew Anne was in my town, and she knows that she slept in my room, but she doesnt know that I showed her who's the boss. But she knows that we kissed.

Fay thinks that I have more feelings for Anne than for her. But I really dont know. I mean, Fay really changed me and she's really sweet and nice to me. And Anne, she changed me aswell. And I dont really know who I like more. I think im more in love with Fay than Anne. I never meant to hurt someone in this situation. I promised Fay that I wouldnt do anything with Anne, and look what I did?

Fay is really angry at me, but I havent told her that Anne and I ******. She wants to give me another chance and she lets me think about it, but when I tell Anne that I wanna go with Fay, then I'll hurt her. Its a lose-lose situation, I know. I really need some help with this.

Sorry if some thing are bit unclear. Please ask if you dont understand something, or want some more clearness (??).

 

Sygy

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Tell Fay that you slept with Anne. Because its always better to come out with the truth and if you dont tell her ive always learnt that the truth comes out anyways no matter how hard to try to hide it. and when it comes out the latter way its always much MUCH worse.

And i also think that you should tell Anne that you like Fay more. Honestly it will hurt Anne's feeling. But if you string Anne along and not tell her then when eventually see finds out or you tell her again it will sting much more..

So yeah..i think you should do some serious apologizing to both girls.....but dont only take my adivce get like second and third oppions.

 

Chris

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Thanks. I asked my mom and dad and stuff and they think I should go with Fay.

Yes, I can talk to my parents about that :')

 

Sygy

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you can talk to ur parents about that? now thats just plain unfair...**** i want ur parents....
 

LPpinkfreak821

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hmm. . .

You have to be honest with Fay. Tell her what really happened. If your sorry then tell her your sorry, but dont lie to her if your not.

Does Anne know about Fay? If she doesn't then you might want to fill her in. Because if you dont. . . she'll get ****** when she finds out.

You really have to ask yourself who do you have the most feelings for. Who do you like more? Because in the end... that is what it comes down to.

From what it seems like... Fay would probably be better for you. Why?

You've known her longer

You know what she's like other then just knowing her for a couple days

You say she's nice & sweet & she changed you.

Now... you didn't really specify but its probably obvious. Just think about it tho... Did Fay & Anne change you in a good way or a bad way? You really have to think about that. And think about how exactly they changed you.

Thats all I can really say other then.. good luck.

 

Chris

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Thanks :)

I want to be honest, I just cant stand the feeling about not being honest to her. She really doesnt deserve what she has to go through right now and I dont want to make it any worse, but I just have to.

Anne knows about Fay. I met them both on a profile-site. Something like myspace.

I like Fay more than Anne. But I dont want to hurt any of them.

I knew Anne a couple months, but she stayed over at a friends house.

They both changed me in a great way. Fay was the first girl I kissed, and Anne unvirgirned me. Or something. I dont know the word :')

 

LPpinkfreak821

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then thats tough.

Whether you like it or not... you have to be honest. If you aren't... it'll only get worse if she finds out some other way.

No matter what you do... someone will get hurt. You can't help that fact. Its just something you gotta deal with you.

All you can really do is follow your heart on that one.

 

Lenneh

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Flip a coin over them..

Seriously this is something which is quite difficult since you say you like them both of those girls. You should do what you think is right.

For me that'd be, telling Fay what you did, apologize.. Big chance she'll call you a loser and dump you, but when you keep it a secret, she'll find out sometime, confront you, and hate you, probably.

Good luck..

 

allieking

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didn't you say fay has a bf she, as you put it "*****"? what happens to him if you get together?

i'd say anne is your best bet mate, shes not with anyone else and it sounds like she really likes you, but hey who am i to tel you :p

 

allieking

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are you really gonna be with fay knowing shes sleeping with some other guy? sorry but thats wrong. if your with someone you don't sleep around.
 

Chris

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She 'dumps' that guy. She was considering it. The only problem there was between us was the distance, or else this wouldnt have happened. And I believe her on that, she text me 10 times since yesterday. I know, i wouldnt believe it if someone did that to another person but I know her.

Im going tell her tomorrow I guess. I have to find the right words, and then the day after that I'll tell Anne.

 

allieking

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well good luck hun but remember think with your heart not with whats in your pants. i always say personality matters not ***!!!!

hope it all works out for you :)

 

Chris

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well good luck hun but remember think with your heart not with whats in your pants. i always say personality matters not ***!!!!
hope it all works out for you :)
lmao. i'll remember that. *** isnt important to me, all i want is a caring person and thats what Fay is. Anne is a caring person aswell, but Fay really showed to me how much she loves me.

 

Chris

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Okay. Does anyone knows a way of telling her? Im really lost.

Edit: Nevermind, just told her.

**** broke lose.

 

Chris

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She really cares about me and she still wants me. She doesnt trust me anymore though and she says i have ALOT of making up. Im glad that I told Fay the truth though. I feel relieved.

So now I have to tell Anne that I feel more for Fay than her.

Thanks for caring everyone :) You guys are the best.

 
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