Ok....so there's this girl...

[DarkShadow]

Ok, I posted this in the Elite Lounge because I trust all of you guys more than the normal members, because I know most of you pretty well. Anyway, there's this girl that I really like. I mean...I like her a lot. We've seen eachother before around school, but never really started talking until this past week. I made a dumass move and asked her out, and she said that she doesnt really know me that well yet. But I'm not sure if that's a good sign or not...I mean...this chick is ****** awesome. We have basically EVERYTHING in common. She obviously knows that I like her, but I'm not sure what to do now...I mean, I want to be her friend, then go out with her once we know eachother a little better. But I don't wanna become too good of a friend that she won't wanna go out with me (Which I know is usually bullshit, thats just the line i usually get). And I'm really excited about all this because this is the first girl that I really like this much after my horrific breakup a few months ago. So what the **** should I do? I mean I really wanna go out with this girl a lot...but I'm not exactly sure what I should do...

 

[stupidsoul1]

well well ...um..i guess she knows you think of her like that

if you have that much in common then just get more conversation out of that stuff

and ask her to hang out with you

you play guitar right??

well if she plays an instrument ask her if she would like to play stuff with you...

just try to hang out and get to know eachother better and then ask her out again

 

[DarkShadow]

Yeah we talked on the phone earlier. She thought the cops were after her because this guy gave her and her friend a dime of weed. And she thought her friends mom called the cops on her and I was all like "Calm down...the guy made you take it...you didn't want to just be honest and tell them what happened" Yeah that was kinda random but oh well. I really like this girl a lot and I think maybe it'll work out eventually. But I'm kinda excited and I wanna go out with her now..haha...I'm such a loser. I think she might like me but I'm not sure..hopefully all this will work out and I'll be really happy again! Haha...yeah I'm going on and on and on but idc. I might see if she wants to hang out somewhere when I'm not grounded anymore...hehehe..we could have some "bonding time" perhaps. I don't see her much at school except in the mornings before 1st period starts. We don't have any of the same classes or even the same lunch shift. But I'll make it all work out..haha wish me luck I guess.

 

[LP186]

DarkShadow, you and i dont talk alot but you know you my boy

so heres what u should do,

the key is to never ever give up, EVER!! i mean if you really like her, you know you wont right?!

and if u wanna hang out with without over doing it, get 3 or more of your friends to go with you

that way it wont seem like a date too her but you can still hang out with her

i wish you luck man, im sure u'll do fine :thumbsup:

 

[LPGotLinkinPark]

I'm not real good at advice on this kind of thing...but as a girl, I think you should just give her time. Be her friend and stuff. Just do sweet little things & it'll make her like you more.

 

[Brkng_Th_Hbt]

Well you guys talked on the phone.. and she called you. That's a good start. Like LP186 said, don't give up... unless something drastic happens like she moves away (but still, don't give up XD). BUT don't do anything too serious (like give her a huge bouquet of flowers, lol). Just see where things go and if you guys get to be friends, maybe after awhile you could try asking her out again. Maybe she'll ask you out, ya never know

Bleh. I'm not that good at advice, but I figure if I try to give it a much as I can, then maybe I'll get better at it.. lol.

 

[stupidsoul1]

hehe

is it just me or did this get off to the greatest start

GO SON!

you gave her the best advice

which is even better...usually most guys i personally know go

"oh ok..um...i dont know"

so yeah..

**** that really sucks..lunch shifts?? dont you all have lunch at the same time?

 

[DarkShadow]

lunch shifts?? dont you all have lunch at the same time?

There's 2800+ kids at my high school. There's A, B, & C Lunches. She has A Lunch, I have C Lunch...anyway im kinda worried about her because she didnt get online and her cell phone was turned off last night since dinner....so I think something's up....but I'll know for sure when I get to school. I hope shes ok...(aaaahhhhhhhhhhhh) But yeah, I gotta go get ready for school.....leavin in 20-30 minutes....(****!) I really don't wanna go to school

 

[Pheonix791989]

my advice, either write her a little note or a little bit of a song. I know alot of girls like that because it shows that you care and take the time to notice some of the little things. Compliment her on how she's dressed or how she smells, the little things can make the difference. but like LP186 said dont give up and go give chase!

 

[stupidsoul1]

aww sugar -___-

i dont know how many kids there are at my school but we all have breaks at the same time

it's just so much easier, especially when there is whole school assemblies and what not

 

[Rusu_luvs_LP_4ever]

You seem to have eveything under control in my opinion.

Just do what you are doing, and it should all turn out dandy.

But, don't rush her if she's not ready to be in a relationship with you. Because then it might turn oout all foljaeil;akjroaiejfao;ja

 

[DarkShadow]

all oljaeil;akjroaiejfao;ja? Well I'll keep that in mind. XP

 

[KillMeImIrish]

tell her to throw that dime my way

 

[LPGotLinkinPark]

Don't try to talk to her too much. If the reason she had her cell phone off & wasn't online was to avoid you, then maybe you're calling to much or she just doesn't like you like that.

 

[ImTheOneThatFalls]

GotLinkinPark?']Don't try to talk to her too much. If the reason she had her cell phone off & wasn't online was to avoid you' date=' then maybe you're calling to much or she just doesn't like you like that.[/quote']
I agree with [LP]Got

I had your same kind of drama happen to me. Except he was the one that asked me out and i barely new him. But since your calling her and what not... try and but down on that kinda of stuff cause it really creeps girls out. (I don't know about othe girls but it creeps me out) Sometimes we just need our space. So for now just laylow and pretend nothing even happened. Say hi in the always but just to act like your all up on her ****.

 

[DarkShadow]

Well we've been talking a little more, still not going out, but I really feel some kind of connection between us....but I'm not sure if she does. And she's goin through some tough **** right now (mom and stepdad divorcing, and they said its all her fault;and a bunch of other ****) and I'm tryin to help her through it all...I'm stayin by her side and everything...but I really feel a connection...I feel like there's something different about her than other girls..but idk what to do....gaaahhhhhhhhhhhh this is so frustrating and stressful...

 

[ImTheOneThatFalls]

Ah I really don't know what to say to you since i TRIED to help you with that other girl.

 

[stupidsoul1]

Just stick by her, obviously a relationship isnt the first or last thing on her mind right now.

 

[DarkShadow]

Ok here's an update..haha

We've established a really good relationship, but it's really complicated...She and I both want to go out with eachother, but there are a few complications...She just got expelled, and might have to move to Ohio for the rest of the school year. And there is kinda an issue of trust but I don't think she'll do that again. Anyway, I've been really stressed about it a lot. A lot of my really good friends have noticed that I've been depressed more than usual lately and they think it's because of her and they want me to just kick her to the curb and move on. But honestly I don't think I can do that. But then my BEST BEST friend, I've kinda been having feelings for her too...so it's really confusing. She has a boyfriend though so it's not like that really matters. But all this **** with Ashley is just frustrating as ****. She keeps getting into trouble and its just stressin me out like a ****. She's getting a lawyer to sue the school district for expelling her, but I told her she's not gonna win a case like that. But she has a good point with it. I'm not going to mention why she got expelled but she ended up in the hospital the night it happened. So yeah, just thought I'd update you all on the situation if you care.