really big problem

[Pheonix791989]

has any one had a problem that was so big it changed your life? well i kindda have a problem like that. I dont really know what to do about it, but you think I would having to deal with it for two years now. im not really sure about how to put it because I dont really want to loose any one as friend on her over it.

 

[LPGotLinkinPark]

Well I'm not sure what you mean, so I can't really give you any advice. But I know what you, when something comes up and you just know things will never be the same.

 

[Pheonix791989]

well its just i had an accident two years ago and people see me different because of it. I've been almost blind since it. I can see a little bit but its mostly shadows and stuff. people see the scars and how messed up my eyes are they mess with me. they think that just because im a little weird and that because some times I cant see them that I cant hear them

 

[uwantme2b]

People are messing with you because you have scars? That is appalling.

I'm sorry you have to go through this. ::hugs::

Dealing with the problem for two years, and not yet coming up with a solution is not a sign of weakness or anything of the sort. You have nothing to be ashamed of, and you have nothing to worry about.

The way I see it, the problem is not even that you are experiencing this trouble; the problem is that it is changing your life. Please remember that nothing - and I mean nothing is a problem that cannot be solved.

Have you tried simply talking to these people about how they are making you feel? If that does not work, or you don't wish to do that, then the answer is with you. I believe that the answer to most problems is somewhere within you, corny as it sounds.

Now I don't know the full situation, so I can only imagine, and generalise. But you need to accept yourself and realise that, if other people can't accept you too, then they aren't worth bothering with. Remember, nobody can ever make you feel inferior without your consent.

If something I said it unclear, please let me know and I'll rephrase it.

If you wish to talk to me anytime, you're more than welcome to do so.

 

[Pheonix791989]

thanks for the help. I've tried to talk to them but they just laugh and walk away. hey your right if they cant accept me then they arnt worth it.

 

[LPGotLinkinPark]

That is just horrible. I mean just because you have some scars from an accident doesn't mean they should treat you differently. You should just try to ignore what the people say, because there is no way to really make them stop. You just can't let that stuff get you down. I mean as long as you have a couple of close friends that will always be there for you, then you don't need all of those other people. Try to keep your head of and hopefully things will get better for you in the future.

 

[Shadowed Heart]

I had that sorta problem not even two weeks ago. But I haven't totally done anything about it yet. I told the truth to the person it was most affecting, but no one else. I was lucky and my friend was really cool about it when I exspected him to blow up. Try to fix what oyu've done, it's never to late, and you never know what kind of people actually care about your well-being. Who know, if you have really great friends, they'll understand, as mine did...

 

[Black_Angel]

Pfft.. some people are so shallow. Try to ignore them, if they get a reaction then they'll probably do it even more. Hope things get better soon *hugs*

 

[stupidsoul1]

we still love you

what happend though??

um...you should waste time on people who judge you because of a stupid accident because no matter what happens you are still you inside and that seriously is all that matters, you should let *** wipes like that bring you down because they are just douche bags that one day will be used like the *** wipe they really are and then thrown away

where as there you will be still there...

i hope you get my point..because my brain stopped thinking now

 

[Pheonix791989]

what happened... well i was in a really bad surfing accident. i was off shore in the gulf of mexico and me and my brothers were surfing. there was a huge swell and when i took off, the leash that was on my ankel got caught on my oldest brothers board so we had a collission and I got pulled under, the minute I came up I got slammed into a pier then hit by a fishing boat.

 

[ForgottenKid]

Ouch thats gottah hurt....must have.

Hey atleast your alive and well...im not sure if you well cause you said your a little blind, but you seem to be doing just fine. Just ignore the people that see you diffrent cause you really havent changed at all, exsept you got older.

 

[Pheonix791989]

good point. as long as i can play the drums and surf then im fine. lol. i can still do those things and the blind ness or whatever isnt a problem.

 

[acdcrules04]

omg... how horrible for you to have to go through that, :big big hugs:

that is really shallow of other people to treat you different, just because of some scars, i really don't know what to say, i am happy for you tho, because you can still surf and play drums, :hugs:

 

[Shadowed Heart]

what happened... well i was in a really bad surfing accident. i was off shore in the gulf of mexico and me and my brothers were surfing. there was a huge swell and when i took off' date=' the leash that was on my ankel got caught on my oldest brothers board so we had a collission and I got pulled under, the minute I came up I got slammed into a pier then hit by a fishing boat.[/quote']I'm sorry (wow that blows off my advice!). Hope you feel better!

 

[Chainerreturns]

wow that really sucks,sorry to hear,hope in the future it gets better, like our medical science will fix it. it must be really hard for you to read the comp screen.