Religious Vs Non-Religious :(

[LÎnkinPärkExtreme]

Hey everyone, well this happened quite some time ago maybe a month... But I was actually in a long distance relationship with a girl from Queensland on the gold coast and we were together for about a year... But then she decided she would believe in her Religious fate more... then she would with me and she decided to follow the bible saying that she was Not-Allowed to go out with an Non-Religious believer... so she decided to not give me a 2nd chance *we had problems in the past* so it really made me and really upset :'( And then she was saying... I could of put into the relationship more I could of done this better I could of done that better... And she also said I didn't know what Love was, she thought it was just a 1 off thign with me but she is wrong, I do know what love is... But to be quite honest I was the 1 who put into the relationship and shared my "real" feelings with her more then she did with me. I was more opened up to her, then she was with me... And it just got to the point when we had a massive argument and she has decided not to know me anymore and just "forget" me, I still love her with all my heart... But... She has just changed so much ever since she decided to read the bible.

We met on Skype, and then we found love on first instance of meeting each other... And we had so much in common, we were massive Linkin Park fans, we liked the same color and heaps of other things to many to list and that's how it all started. But then all this happened, so I'm sorry if there is any Religious believers on this forum but I have to say it to get it off my chest,I Hate The Religious WORLD! It really stuffed my life up, I gave so much dedication and love into the relationship and she said I could of done "more" just for an excuse to leave me to make it so it wasn't a big deal.

Anyway... What do you guys think about it? Do you think it's screwed up saying... We can't be together or what? I really would like your opinions and sorry for being so upset and angry about the whole thing.

 

[Jeezy]

You know...I don't bellieve in what the bible says...

but doesn't it say that you should love everyone no matter what kind of oppinions they have?

so she maybe got something wrong there...

If she has really changed so much...and she doesn't want to be with you anymore because of the bible...she probably doesn't deserve you anyways.

All this sounds like a lame excuse to me...

maybe she just doesn't want to tell you that she want's to leave you...or there's another guy.

 

[LÎnkinPärkExtreme]

You know...I don't bellieve in what the bible says...
but doesn't it say that you should love everyone no matter what kind of oppinions they have?

so she maybe got something wrong there...

If she has really changed so much...and she doesn't want to be with you anymore because of the bible...she probably doesn't deserve you anyways.

All this sounds like a lame excuse to me...

maybe she just doesn't want to tell you that she want's to leave you...or there's another guy.

Yeah I really don't know to be honest, I did how ever... talk to 1 of her close friends and she is saying she isn't with anyone. But for all I know she could be lieing...

 

[allieking]

religion is a pile of ****, when something bad happens people always say " its gods way" bullshit!!! i'm sorry but if there was a *** children wouldn't be sexually abused, children wouldn't get murdered and there would be no such thing as rape. if someone ever proved beyond a doubt that *** was real then i'd pitty him for creating such a ****** up world.

also all wars that have ever occoured were because of religion, it does nothing but cause friction between diffrent cultures!!!!

sorry if i offend anyone but its what i belive.

 

[Jeezy]

Yeah I really don't know to be honest, I did how ever... talk to 1 of her close friends and she is saying she isn't with anyone. But for all I know she could be lieing...

I think you should just move on and find a better girl

 

[LÎnkinPärkExtreme]

I think you should just move on and find a better girl

Yeah, only problem... No girls in this town like me Only because I'm "marked" as being a un-cooooool kid towards them because my name is Winter. Stupid kids who really need to grow up!

 

[By_My-elf]

haha I believe but don't follow that ****

It's too confusing it always sais Don't do this and that......

But here's one Thing I know I'll keep this short and simple.

She's a Hypocrite

 

[Black_Angel]

I hate it when religious people won't go out with non-religious people, it's like discrimination, which is something that they're not supposed to believe in. Just forget about her mate, she ain't worth it.

 

[Sygy]

religion is a pile of ****, when something bad happens people always say " its gods way" bullshit!!! i'm sorry but if there was a *** children wouldn't be sexually abused, children wouldn't get murdered and there would be no such thing as rape. if someone ever proved beyond a doubt that *** was real then i'd pitty him for creating such a ****** up world.
also all wars that have ever occoured were because of religion, it does nothing but cause friction between diffrent cultures!!!!

sorry if i offend anyone but its what i belive.

AGREED!!!

Religion is full of contradictary nonsense and i feel very sorry for religion becuase i feel that organized religion only blinds people and traps people. For example, all the preist all over the world telling people thats immotal to use condoms and that aids is a punishment for being bad, gay and having *** outside of marriage.

what i hate about some christains is how the see themselves on a higher plain from others and are so smug and the priests are such meglomanicas.

Maybe im bias, i probably am actually ive dealt with years of my dads abuse whislt he masquerade behind being on the board of ethics and st pauls catherdale. christain hypocracy at its best.

meh, last point. If the christain *** is so powerful then why isnt he stopping all his little christains from getting hacked up by arabs and raped by british soldier (who were meant to be protected them in refugee camp) in Darfur?

i think u should forget about her.

 

[Person]

The only thing salvagable from the bible are it's morals.

Everything else is a bunch of ****.

***? Who knows if he (or she) is real.

If you want to have faith, then go ahead.

That's all religious people have anyways =o

 

[LÎnkinPärkExtreme]

Thanks you guys! At least most of you understand what I'm thinking

 

[Breakdown Conspiracy]

Ahh I dont have a problem with ppl dating other people regardless of religions, but it can really **** things up later on in life. And in examples of christianity, its religion that has killed it and given it a bad name.

 

[Acezorz]

I agree with some previous posts; It's like discrimination >_<

Just forget about her dude, I bet you can do much better, and those kids that mark you? They'll grow up eventually, so just stuff em!

I'm not religious, and respect people's views, but mine is this:

If there was a ***/living force/ etc, there would've be a sign of it by now and the world wouldn't be as ****** up as it actually is.

I believe Christianity is hypocritical in many ways, and its one of my least favourite religions.

 

[LPShinodaFM]

Now, this is coming from an agnostic.

[OFF TOPIC RANT MODE] The bible may or may not be true. We don't know. There could be some fictional content, and some non-fictional. Or it could be just made up. But I'm not here to judge the bible or to say whether Christ ever lived. I'm here to judge those "religious" people who read the bible, and either interprate it the wrong way, or just reads it to make them "religious" or "superior" in a way. I'm here to say, that there are two types of religious and "religious" people I can't stand. The actual believers who believe in the bible, ***, and everything, but take it the WRONG way. They take it as that they are the REAL religion, and that people who do not believe in their religion are followers of Satan or something. I don't know, but these people are those really really staunch-minded believers. The others, who "believe" for the sake of nothing but to show others that he goes to church every week, or carries around a bible... to make them seem more, I guess, honest? I mean, if you're just going to pretend you believe for the sake of other human beings, why are you going to church every week? If you believe, I mean, believe for yourself. Make religion your sanctuary or something, somewhere you can feel *** or something, something that makes your life better. I just can't stand how people would go to church and expect others to look at him/her in a different way. As if they've gone to a higher level when all they're doing is degrading themselves. [/OFF TOPIC RANT MODE]

Your girl may have just not understood. I mean, why would a bible say that you can't fall in love with someone who doesn't read the bible? (Christianity is not a bad religion. It is the so-called "believers" who **** it up. They are the ones who discriminate and they are the hypocritical ones)

But truthfully (on topic now), I think that you and that girl wouldn't go together. I mean even if you guys have so much in common, if your beliefs towards religion are on the extreme opposite ends, things would NOT work out. :/ My opinion.

 

[Stllmn8j]

Now, this is coming from an agnostic.
[OFF TOPIC RANT MODE] The bible may or may not be true. We don't know. There could be some fictional content, and some non-fictional. Or it could be just made up. But I'm not here to judge the bible or to say whether Christ ever lived. I'm here to judge those "religious" people who read the bible, and either interprate it the wrong way, or just reads it to make them "religious" or "superior" in a way. I'm here to say, that there are two types of religious and "religious" people I can't stand. The actual believers who believe in the bible, ***, and everything, but take it the WRONG way. They take it as that they are the REAL religion, and that people who do not believe in their religion are followers of Satan or something. I don't know, but these people are those really really staunch-minded believers. The others, who "believe" for the sake of nothing but to show others that he goes to church every week, or carries around a bible... to make them seem more, I guess, honest? I mean, if you're just going to pretend you believe for the sake of other human beings, why are you going to church every week? If you believe, I mean, believe for yourself. Make religion your sanctuary or something, somewhere you can feel *** or something, something that makes your life better. I just can't stand how people would go to church and expect others to look at him/her in a different way. As if they've gone to a higher level when all they're doing is degrading themselves. [/OFF TOPIC RANT MODE]

Your girl may have just not understood. I mean, why would a bible say that you can't fall in love with someone who doesn't read the bible? (Christianity is not a bad religion. It is the so-called "believers" who **** it up. They are the ones who discriminate and they are the hypocritical ones)

But truthfully (on topic now), I think that you and that girl wouldn't go together. I mean even if you guys have so much in common, if your beliefs towards religion are on the extreme opposite ends, things would NOT work out. :/ My opinion.

I agree with most of that,relegion is good in most ways,but there are people that make it seem bad

 

[Breakdown Conspiracy]

I agree with most of that,relegion is good in most ways,but there are people that make it seem bad

Now, this is coming from an agnostic.
[OFF TOPIC RANT MODE] The bible may or may not be true. We don't know. There could be some fictional content, and some non-fictional. Or it could be just made up. But I'm not here to judge the bible or to say whether Christ ever lived. I'm here to judge those "religious" people who read the bible, and either interprate it the wrong way, or just reads it to make them "religious" or "superior" in a way. I'm here to say, that there are two types of religious and "religious" people I can't stand. The actual believers who believe in the bible, ***, and everything, but take it the WRONG way. They take it as that they are the REAL religion, and that people who do not believe in their religion are followers of Satan or something. I don't know, but these people are those really really staunch-minded believers. The others, who "believe" for the sake of nothing but to show others that he goes to church every week, or carries around a bible... to make them seem more, I guess, honest? I mean, if you're just going to pretend you believe for the sake of other human beings, why are you going to church every week? If you believe, I mean, believe for yourself. Make religion your sanctuary or something, somewhere you can feel *** or something, something that makes your life better. I just can't stand how people would go to church and expect others to look at him/her in a different way. As if they've gone to a higher level when all they're doing is degrading themselves. [/OFF TOPIC RANT MODE]

Your girl may have just not understood. I mean, why would a bible say that you can't fall in love with someone who doesn't read the bible? (Christianity is not a bad religion. It is the so-called "believers" who **** it up. They are the ones who discriminate and they are the hypocritical ones)

But truthfully (on topic now), I think that you and that girl wouldn't go together. I mean even if you guys have so much in common, if your beliefs towards religion are on the extreme opposite ends, things would NOT work out. :/ My opinion.

Exactly :yes:

And thus like I said, its people who have given christianity a bad name, because religion has comsumed them and has become the focus.

 

[Friðbjörn]

Theoretically and preferably it shouldn't matter. People should be able to live together, but I guess that's impossible

 

[LP186]

i dont like religious people who tell other people whats what

if your a believer, Great. if your not thats great too

but dont tell people who, what and when to believe something

i really hate those naive people who think their religion is the one true religion

a lot of people have a lot of believes, have some respect for them

 

[LPShinodaFM]

^not naive, completely stubborn and staunch.

And i agree, we should have some respect for everyone and their beliefs, not to tell each other how their beliefs are wrong and stupid.