LPHybridSnax
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- Aug 30, 2006
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Well here's the situation.
I've been friends with this girl for about 3 years now, she moved about 5 months ago, but we remained somewhat in contact, like not good enough to visit each other, but still some conversation. She's had a crush on me for over a year now and the other day she send me a message saying she wanted to have sex. I thought she was kidding at first, but a couple hours later I found out she just wanted to be blunt about it. Pretty much she's horny and wants some one she can trust, which I found pretty amusing because she seems so innocent. I see this girl as nothing, but a friend, still it's almost every guys dream to have sex, almost literally, thrown at them, but I have a few problems with it. One, I'm not the kind of guy to go **** some one just so i can feel big and brag to my friends. Two, I don't want a kid, plain and simple. Three, she's a virgin, I don't want to take her virginity like that because although sex isn't a huge deal to me, I know a lot of girls they want their first to be "special". Honestly, I think I almost qualify for being a saint by just considering to tell her that I'm not the right guy, or maybe that's just how all people should be. Any thoughts?
I've been friends with this girl for about 3 years now, she moved about 5 months ago, but we remained somewhat in contact, like not good enough to visit each other, but still some conversation. She's had a crush on me for over a year now and the other day she send me a message saying she wanted to have sex. I thought she was kidding at first, but a couple hours later I found out she just wanted to be blunt about it. Pretty much she's horny and wants some one she can trust, which I found pretty amusing because she seems so innocent. I see this girl as nothing, but a friend, still it's almost every guys dream to have sex, almost literally, thrown at them, but I have a few problems with it. One, I'm not the kind of guy to go **** some one just so i can feel big and brag to my friends. Two, I don't want a kid, plain and simple. Three, she's a virgin, I don't want to take her virginity like that because although sex isn't a huge deal to me, I know a lot of girls they want their first to be "special". Honestly, I think I almost qualify for being a saint by just considering to tell her that I'm not the right guy, or maybe that's just how all people should be. Any thoughts?