Umm yea :(

[ugur90]

yea so lately everything thats going on has been making me sad...my friends kinda ignore me a bit not totally ditch but yea they haven't invited me to ne hangouts for a while the girl i like doesnt talk to me much even tho shes a really good friend of mine and jst gives one word answers to everything i said its like im forcing the conversation into her..i cant study for school properly..and im graduating and going to university in america after this year so im gna be leaving behind my family and everything i know and ive started crying a lot..can somebody help me

 

[tuba]

i really can't help you cuz im going through the same time you are going.... but i guess you are lucky that you are going to america and maybe you find good friends there......

 

[GraDoN]

just hang on man, lifes a ***** sometimes. Getting through it only makes you stronger

 

[Jeezy]

Just get yourself together and be more positive

 

[Cloud]

Well things go bad don't they?

Nothing is right for me at the moment, health, love life and friends...

But one thing that we will do is fight on and if we don't do that we will not succeed in all that is bad at the moment...

Carry on and make the moves that you think are right in any situation.

Just know if you carry on feeling like this, your not alone and everyone on these forums are here for you buddy.

 

[LpLunatic92]

Just try to go on and be positive. I went through a few months of depression. I never thought I'd get out of it, but I kept believing there was a little hope..... i guess there was because now everything is ok. I hope the best for you!

 

[Peterdea]

yea so lately everything thats going on has been making me sad...my friends kinda ignore me a bit not totally ditch but yea they haven't invited me to ne hangouts for a while the girl i like doesnt talk to me much even tho shes a really good friend of mine and jst gives one word answers to everything i said its like im forcing the conversation into her..i cant study for school properly..and im graduating and going to university in america after this year so im gna be leaving behind my family and everything i know and ive started crying a lot..can somebody help me

I know that too well... But it eventually gets better. What I write here may seem a little full on and maybe a bit ridiculous or lame etc. but it's what helped me through such problems.


my friends ditched me like that not too long ago, the way I got past it was by telling them that I was sick of being left out. Let them know how things are, and if they are really your friends they'll realize their mistake.


As well as making new friends. Be friends with the people who get picked on a lot. Make yourself and them happy. People can call you a loser for being friends with their target, but at least you know you've got a good friend.


It took until a few weeks ago to mend this problem for me. Talk to them about things she is enthusiastic about, make her feel happy. Worked well for me, I mean, yeah I'm not going out with her at the moment, but at least I can hold conversations with her.


Only problem is I had a bit of help because one of my friends picks of her and I stick up for her but I'm sure that someone like you doesn't need that kind of thing.


Studying is a *****, I'll agree to that. You need to get motivated. Find a reason to do all the studying you need to do, a really great reason and just go for it. Block out all the other **** thats going on and think about whatever it is thats motivating you.


A **** of a lot of positives could come from this. Think of all the new friends you could potentially make, the great people you could meet which could open up a lot of opportunities for you be it social, educational or anything else like that, so much can come of it. But once again you need to get motivated.


Theres nothing wrong with that... Everyone cries sometimes. For whatever reason. I will say I don't cry too often, I more go into a coma of not giving a ****. But yeah I do cry sometimes. If it's everything you've mentioned above thats causing it maybe talk to someone you know cares for you and will listen and help you.


To pretty much conclude my actual help, everything can and will work out eventually, but you can give it a push if your willing to try.

 


Sorry if I dragged it out a bit or made it all really lame, but as I said before it helped me, and I hope it can help you as well.