What are your thoughts..?

[ElenaRosemary]

BEFORE you read!

Please understand that this is not aimed at ANYBODY!!!

((EDIT: Nobody in the forums, real life, Facebook, etc..))

It's not made to insult, degrade, etc. a person.

These are just my opinions &the "you" is just to people in general..

Not to YOU, whoever you are reading it ^_^ But to the world.

:lol:

((this might be a tad bit long...many apologies ^_^))

:lol:

What are your thoughts on grudges &hating?


What are your thoughts on judging people?


What are your thoughts on [not] moving on?

:lol:

I think grudges are very silly.

&hating is a plain waste of time. What's the point of it?

Everyone makes silly mistakes. Everyone fights.

Everyone calls each others "*****" and makes up rumours.

Everyone turns others friends against others, etc.

That's part of general drama. It's silly, I know.

But to keep it against a person on what they said or did way back..

It's just..a bit of a waste of time, don't you think?

The person you're hating on probably doesn't care.. xD

But...

Everyone's different, correct?

:lol:

Do YOU want to be judged by strangers when they don't even know you?

Like, you hear rumours from somebody else about said person.

&you form your opinion from what you HEARD. Not what you see yourself.

What's so hard about having a chat to them yourself?

What's so hard about trying to get to know a person?

A lot of my friends get judged...and their friends get judged by others.

Like -they hear some rumour...or some gossip..

At least try speak to them..before you run away from them..=]

:lol:

So -everyone's entitled to their own opinions.

I absolutely respect that.

Mind you, again, this is just what was on my mind.

These are my opinions &my thoughts.

Have a greaaat day!=]

 

[allieking]

i'm sorry hunni but i think this is aimed at someone on these forums, someone who i actually think alot of, she may hold grudges but maybe she has reason to.

i sudgest this thread gets closed before someones feelings get hurt.

 

[ElenaRosemary]

i'm sorry hunni but i think this is aimed at someone on these forums, someone who i actually think alot of, she may hold grudges but maybe she has reason to.
i sudgest this thread gets closed before someones feelings get hurt.

Noo! This is not aimed at anybody.

I was reading a blog at this site I blog at.

&it was about grudges &all these rants &bitchiness.

I just wanted to make a thread here.

To see what others think on the issue.

Please don't think it's aimed at anybody.

I've stated clearly that it wasn't=]

&I'm entirely entitled to my own views on various subjects.

 

[allieking]

sorry but i have been talking to the person and i know this is aimed at her, and at the moment she doesn't need this.

 

[ElenaRosemary]

sorry but i have been talking to the person and i know this is aimed at her, and at the moment she doesn't need this.

Please don't attack me with this.

I think I have an idea of who you are referring to.

&I really don't hold anything against said person anymore.

Or want to pull said person down or anything.

A lot of my friends are going through these issues.

Grudges, judging &all.

&it ****** me off a bit.

So, I'm basically just venting in general.

&I don't want people to think I'm aiming at anybody.

Because the only 'anybody' I'm aiming at is the world in general.

 

[Stenners]

Me? Personally?

Grudges are a waste of time, just forget the person existed for christ sake. Maybe acknowledge each other when you next see each other or just walk by. Grudges get people no where and often end up in 1 person getting really hurt & person made to look like a complete and utter ****. Sometimes you get both.

Grudges & active participating in can stunt and interfer with peoples social skills.

People who don't move on:

This can lead to self pitty, self willowing and self regret

Judging People:

We all do this but you should still try to get to know the person first, judging people too greatly can again damage your social life.

 

[ElenaRosemary]

Me? Personally?
Grudges are a waste of time, just forget the person existed for christ sake. Maybe acknowledge each other when you next see each other or just walk by. Grudges get people no where and often end up in 1 person getting really hurt & person made to look like a complete and utter ****. Sometimes you get both.

Grudges & active participating in can stunt and interfer with peoples social skills.

Haha, you? Personally?

YES! YOU, personally! ((sticks out tongue))

I agree.

I've fallen out with quite a few people back in the Ice Age. Rofl.

&now, we're just content with each other.

I think it's also got to do with the fact that I'm really easy to get along with now.

&don't get irritable -therefore, I don't get snappy &bitchy.

If someone ******* at me, I just ignore it. xD

I agree with the social skills bit.

Lol.

But then again -all are different, mhm?

 

[Stenners]

Oh I have known that most people who hold them become real cold spitful vendictive gits.

 

[ElenaRosemary]

Oh I have known that most people who hold them become real cold spitful vendictive gits.

Haha, oh yes, they do!

I pity those people that can't forgive.

But then again -I shouldn't.

Or I'll start to pity myself for pitying.

I'm sounding like a ****** Slytherin now!

 

[allieking]

ok i will give you my thoughts. life is too short to hold grudges or judge people.

 

[ElenaRosemary]

ok i will give you my thoughts. life is too short to hold grudges or judge people.

Wow!

I totally "amen" that second sentence!

Life IS too short..however long it may seem sometimes.

That's why I always feel that making the best out of things.

&taking every great opportunity you can is all so worth it=]

 

[Sygy]

omg, elena, this is lame and is aimed at me. If people dont believe me go look at me journal where shes posted a whole thing about he holding grudges. -.- haha

ok, this is what i think, people have the right to hold grudges against people who they thought were their best friends who **** them over and are hellbent on trying there uttermost to ruin their lives!

 

[ElenaRosemary]

omg, elena, this is lame and is aimed at me. If people dont believe me go look at me journal where shes posted a whole thing about he holding grudges. -.- haha
ok, this is what i think, people have the right to hold grudges against people who they thought were their best friends who **** them over and are hellbent on trying there uttermost to ruin their lives!

Oh, hello, Sygy!

It is not aimed at you. It is aimed at people in general.

((If you would just read the opening sentences!))

But if you want to think that way, there's no me stopping you.

 

[Sygy]

ah, i have a question for yours truelly!

Why did you even join this forum, your yet to post something which isnt about yourself or is about Linkin Park?hmm, dont you think its odd, if i displease you so and have aparntly said rumours about you and didnt all this stuff that you made up why would you join a forums that you know im a vert active member! And yes, this is aimed at me, indirectly or directly it is!

 

[ElenaRosemary]

ah, i have a question for yours truelly!
Why did you even join this forum, your yet to post something which isnt about yourself or is about Linkin Park?hmm, dont you think its odd, if i displease you so and have aparntly said rumours about you and didnt all this stuff that you made up why would you join a forums that you know im a vert active member! And yes, this is aimed at me, indirectly or directly it is!

If you wish that this is aimed at you,

Indirectly or directly,

Then let it be. Absolutely your wish ^_^

I joined this forum for a few reasons.

Let me state them.

1] I enjoy forums and communities.

2] I've recently discovered that I DO like Linkin Park.

3] I like the layout of this forum.

Yes..I'm VERY picky with the styles ^_^ Haha.

For those that are curious,

My favourite songs are "Numb" and "Bleed It Out".

EDIT: I forgot to mention "Crawling" >.<

Personally, I don't know MUCH about the band itself.

Nor do I know MUCH about other bands.

Like Moi dix Mois...Cradle of Filth and all.

If I decide I like a few of their songs -I like the band.

Anything else? :lol:

 

[GraDoN]

eh?

we really dont need that flame wars of 2005/2006 again so... bleh

lets keep it chilled

i dont believe in grudges but yeah...

and teh fact that you sad "this isent aim'd at anyone in teh forum" makes we wonder -_-

 

[ElenaRosemary]

eh? we really dont need that flame wars of 2005/2006 again so... bleh

lets keep it chilled

i dont believe in grudges but yeah...

and teh fact that you sad "this isent aim'd at anyone in teh forum" makes we wonder -_-

I said that because the first reply I got,

Was somebody saying that they thought it was.

So I edited it and wrote that it wasn't.

Fair enough :lol:

 

[tuba]

i personally do believe in grudges.. cuz ppl r here really bad.. sometimes ur best friends nd your own sisters completely ruin your life....for the sake of stupid complexes!!!.. and i do have grudges...but i never done any to them who cheated me....i eventually leave everything in the hands of time...and i have seen them getting hurt...cuz i strongly believe in "WHAT GOES AROUND COMES BACK AROUND"

and abt judging.. i think some how we all do this.. when we see some one fro first time.. we start judging rite...but this shud not be done i believe.. cuz sometime we judge wrong...

 

[GraDoN]

forgive and forget is my motto

life is too short for grudges, no watter what a person did there is always a way to forgive