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hey guys. i know i hardly ever post here anymore but i just wanted to see if anyone could give me advice on something. ok so here it goes:

a random guy IMed me saturday night. i hardly ever respond to random IMs but i was having a bad day and wanted someone to talk to anyway, so i responded. i shouldn't have, but anyway. he said he saw my myspace and wanted to get to know me. so we started talking and he seemed like a nice guy. i'm 18 and he's 17, by the way. he lives about 15 minutes away from me. now he wants to meet me. he said we could meet at a mall so there would be alot of people around.

half of me is telling me not to meet him. i know that i trust people too easily. i don't wanna meet him and have him turn out to be a murderer or something. when you meet people online, you never know whether you can trust them or not.

but the other half of me is telling me to meet him. i NEVER take any chances in life. i'm 18. i wanna try something new for once. he seems like a nice guy. and if we just meet once at the mall, nothing bad can happen, right?

he keeps asking me what day i can hang out and i don't know what to say cuz i haven't decided if i actually want to meet him or not. so, what do you guys think?

any help would be appreciated. thanks.

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hhmmm.....maybe you should just keep away for a while.

but it could turn out to be the person you want to meet.

so I don't know maybe it oculd be a murderer O.o

this is a tough one.

maybe you shouldn't meet him but thats my opinion

you could do whatever you want though. o.o

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I met 4 people off lpf..

3 of them are extremely awesome, one used to be my best friend till we had an argument.

If you meet them in a mall then there is no harm because there are alot of people and stuff.

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well think about it yoo could go to the mall randomly one day and bump into this guy, chat and give him yoor email address isnt it the same thing

if hes gonna meet yoo, just dont take any risks and stay in busy places^^

 

meeting people on the internet isnt always a bad thing its realleh on par with picking a stranger up in a bar etc

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goodluck with whatever yoo decide though

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thats tough. I, personally, would... meet him out of curiousity [thank god I'm not a cat]

 

If you do meet him. . . Make sure its in a public place. Dont be alone with him. Dont like walk out to his car with him he forgot something. Make sure you stay where people can see you and hear you scream. And if you have a cellphone keep it in your bra or something like that & dont let him know that you have it. Let someone know that your going out and give them an estimated time when you'll be back. Make sure that you keep in touch with this person though!

 

It could go either way. All I can say is... follow your gut, hun. That's the best thing for you. Be careful if you do meet him. Even if he is everything he said he would be... still be careful. crazy people come in all shapes & sizes. Follow your gut...

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thanks for the tips and for all your opinions. :] it's making my decision a little easier. i think i'll meet him at the mall and stay where there's alot of people and if he seems like a creep then i'll stop talking to him. but if he still seems cool and we decide to meet again then i'll make sure that's it's somewhere with alot of people again. haha.
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If he spel leik tis then he's probably not a really intelligent guy. :\ The stupid ones are the creepy ones...

 

Okay, okay, just kidding.

 

Since there are a lot of people around, you can hang out with him. And like someone else said, bring a friend. Talk to him and all that lovey dovey stuff. DON'T LEAVE THE MALL THOUGH. DON'T DO IT.

When you leave with your friend, and you're scared he might be some sorta stalker dood, just keep on the lookout for anything strange fooolloooowing you...It's okay to looke like an extremely paranoid person, just as long as you're safe.

 

MAke sure you say BYE to him at the mall.

 

AND WHEN YOU GO TO SLEEP THAT NIGHT LOCK ALL THE DOORS AND WINDOWS.

 

sorry...dis coming from a paranoid person who gets embaressed even when she's all alone...

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Bring a baseball bat and tazer and ur set to go :D

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OR whats better than that a lil vial of dettol...then yoo cant get done by the police for carrying a dangerous weapon...^^ yoo could say yoore taking it to yoor friend

dettol would cause them pain AND probably blind them

thats what i do if im going somewhere im not too sure of

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gd luck with it though lol

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Like a few people before me said, just meet him in public places where plenty of people are around.. make sure he doesn't follow you home though..(but a decent person wouldn't follow you.. unless he's like madly in love with you..) once you get to know him.. you can show your place.. I guess. ^.^

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you can look at this in different ways, he says 'lets go to the mall' and actually points out there will be people there meaning either that he plans to try to get your trust then say 'hey.. lets go back to my place..' or he is just saying that being honest. If you really wanna meet him, but dont wanna take chances, go to the mall, hang out, don't go home with him, and bring pepper spray, that shit is POWERFUL AS HELL!

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