What would you do if your girlfriend...

This was a subject I was discussing with one of the girls I work with..

Her friend had went to a bachelorette party and they were selling beads or some shit like that, and guys would pay to take them off any way they could... well anyways, this one guy had tried taking the bead necklace off the girl with his teeth, but failed to do so, and then proceeded to take them off with his hands.

From what I can gather that is all that transpired but evidently her boyfriend was not to happy about this and broke up with her..

Would you break up with your girlfriend/boyfriend for such behavior ??

.

.

I voted no, but I suppose it would depend on the situation.

If it was someone I had been seeing for a short time, and was unsure of being able to trust, then most likely yes.

However, if it was someone I had been with for a significant amount of time, was in love with, and trusted, then no. (I.E., my current situation. I can't see my fiancee doing this, but if he did, he would probably get a whack on the head, and that would be the end of it.)

I would have to say it depends on where the other guy had to out his hands to take them off AND thats not too say that it would have been better for him to use his teeth.

My ex-husband cheated on me so I have a VERY strict view of things like this. I saw alot of red flags before the event and ignored them. Maybe her boyfriend is thinking she is a tramp and likes to be handled by whatever guy is present. Who knows he might be right or he might be paranoid. Maybe he has seen some red flags and this was the last straw.

If she's got beads around her neck and he just takes them off, then no big deal.

If it's a bit more sexual, then a line's been crossed.

I'm the jealous type myself and don't stand for any playing around at all - no ifs or buts.

if it was a stripper situation....then no i really dont think so. Strippers tend to not sleep with their customers unless they pay extra after the bar is closed (male and female , gay and straight........seems to be on the same level).....

over that no......

however........if the beads were in a private home and then a 'girls/guys gone wild' sorta shit went down......then yes...id break up.......maybe even sue

Hell no. How insecure is that? If your Lady is gonna go ape and forget you over some non-entity that uses his teeth or hands, or whatever, in a clearly contrived pseudo-sexual arousal dance, then she is not worth worrying about.

For the same reasons, if you can't cop your Lady playing along, and having a little fun teasing, then your relationship is not as sound as you would have liked. You have issues that you need to get around, or get over. Take it out on a wall, and apologise to your fists tomorrow. Loser.