What's my problem? o_O

Brkng_Th_Hbt

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I'm not interested in anyone. I never really have been. I'm talking about a girlfriend...or even a boyfriend for that matter ( :eek: ). I don't want either one one. I am sexually attracted to girls (not guys), but I'm just not interested in having a relationship. almost every guy I know has or wants a girlfriend. I don't think I'll ever fall in love with a girl.. lol. I don't want to get married or anything. I just want to live by myself and just have friends.

Anyone else feel like this? :confused:

 

Brkng_Th_Hbt

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Well cool then (in the sense that I'm not alone with this problem). I'm actually fine with being alone without a g/f or wife. I want to be alone. I've got friends, lol.

Just girls will come up to me and ask me if I wanna go out with them.. and i'll be like "I'm not interested in having a girlfriend right now.." and that'll just be a bit embarassing, lol. Oh well. :)

 

diva__007

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Im scared, of growing up and not ever falling in love, or having a husband and family. and that scares me.

Iv never had a boyfriend, tho guys have asked me out but i say no. because i dont want a boyfriend for like a month or 2, and all my friend do that, and i think its a waste of time, id rather a "real" boyfriend, not just some guy who just wants a girlfriend

 

donbyers

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IMO Some people are just late bloomers, would i be right i saying you're 15 in Jan Ryan? I'm 19 and have been "dating" etc since about you're age, but i have friends my age who just arent intrested in g/f's. And on the other end of the stick i have few mates who just want to fall in love, get married, have kids etc. Its a crazy world. But were all different man. I wouldnt worry about it. It just might be a few more years before you start gettin intrested
 

Brkng_Th_Hbt

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Actually i'll be 14 in Jan, lol. So yeah, maybe in a couple years I'll be more interested. But as of now, I just want to be alone and single... and that's how I think I'll still feel later on... buy maybe I won't, lol.
 

donbyers

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O________o my bad lol

Yeah man, your my bro's age, and he'd much prefer to play ps2, surf the net etc. I dont think he even knows about the birds and bee's yet :p dont worry man

 

Stenners

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It's all down to age, when I was younger I was never interested in forming relationships but as u age especially towards 15 or 16 years old u suddenly want one more then anything else lol.

So I used to feel that way but I don't now :)

 

donbyers

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It's all down to age, when I was younger I was never interested in forming relationships but as u age especially towards 15 or 16 years old u suddenly want one more then anything else lol.
So I used to feel that way but I don't now :)
What he means is now he's trying it on with anything with a pulse :rolleyes: trust me i know! :(

 

Friðbjörn

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Ryan don't worry man, you're young.

Well actually you shouldn't have to worry about this at all, it's perfectly normal. But seeing as you're 13 you have enough time for anything...

And I mean love can be a great thing, but you know, being on your own means you're your own boss, you're independant, free, w/e you wanna call it. You don't have to think about anyone else. I'm not saying it like girls are boring or something, cause I'm pretty sure many of them feel this way too

And I mean I myself am craving a girlfriend right now, but you know, I'm not stressing out on things...

And I'll end this like a proper therapist, you're perfectly normal feeling this...

(I just hope anything I said made sense...)

 

Sygy

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im sorry but i find that so weird, no offence to you but all the boys i know around your age are soo horney...
 

stupidsoul1

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lol i have had a guy who said he was my boyfriend, he also said a bunch of other stuff and i think my friend punched him in the face.

but yeah not too long ago i got my first boyfriend

i vowed to never go out with anyone or like feel any emotions for people, but this guy is different.

its not just you, i spent a while thinking there was no point so to screw it because it will only end

but there are a few people who are worth wasting time with and when you find them you should waste as much time as you can with them before it comes to an end.

 

donbyers

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there are a few people who are worth wasting time with and when you find them you should waste as much time as you can with them before it comes to an end.


OMFG, you know thats the most sense ive heard anyone speak inna long time :)

 

allieking

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my blokey never wanted a gf, he planned out his life, he wanted his own plae and a cat and that was it. now hes got me and my 3 kids who he wouldn't be without.

you might find things will change as you get older.

 

LPGotLinkinPark

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Im scared, of growing up and not ever falling in love, or having a husband and family. and that scares me.Iv never had a boyfriend, tho guys have asked me out but i say no. because i dont want a boyfriend for like a month or 2, and all my friend do that, and i think its a waste of time, id rather a "real" boyfriend, not just some guy who just wants a girlfriend
Same here.

You probably just don't feel that way yet.

 

Hahninator

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I'm not interested in anyone. I never really have been. I'm talking about a girlfriend...or even a boyfriend for that matter ( :eek: ). I don't want either one one. I am sexually attracted to girls (not guys), but I'm just not interested in having a relationship. almost every guy I know has or wants a girlfriend. I don't think I'll ever fall in love with a girl.. lol. I don't want to get married or anything. I just want to live by myself and just have friends.
Anyone else feel like this? :confused:
Your problem is that you don't have a problem. lol. it's common for that to happen. I dunno what the cure is, but hmmmm I dunno. Go look at some **** lmao

 
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