When you start to love your bestfriend

[MyDecember]

Okay...this is something i need some good advice on so...here

Alright, I have a friend...hes like my best friend of 2+ years, and just recently i realized i had feelings for him...i dont know where they came from or how long theyre gunna last but..theyre here...and i dont wanna tell him, not because itd ruin our friendship cause hes told me countless times how he feels about me, im afraid cause were both in relationships (but mines ending very soon) and he really likes his girl and im afraid that if i tell him he may still have buried feelings for me and then break up with his current girlfriend...and then her heart would be broken...i feel so bad and confused...please help!!

(I know that was alot and complicated...sorry!!!)

 

[chester_Crazy]

Well right now the choice is up to you really,you say the last word but I'm going to give you some advice. Okay before I give you advice I need to know if your close with His Girlfriend, like friends or anything?

 

[majinkamahl]

You know what? I have been in that EXACT situation, let me see, about four times now. Follow my sig link and we will talk there.

 

[Mike Shinodas Gurl]

Okay...this is something i need some good advice on so...here
Alright, I have a friend...hes like my best friend of 2+ years, and just recently i realized i had feelings for him...i dont know where they came from or how long theyre gunna last but..theyre here...and i dont wanna tell him, not because itd ruin our friendship cause hes told me countless times how he feels about me, im afraid cause were both in relationships (but mines ending very soon) and he really likes his girl and im afraid that if i tell him he may still have buried feelings for me and then break up with his current girlfriend...and then her heart would be broken...i feel so bad and confused...please help!!

(I know that was alot and complicated...sorry!!!)

My best friend......is not my best friend anymore because I liked him and I told him you know and he got a girlfriend a couple a days after and he told me he still wanted to be friends or whatever but I still felt something for him you know but He told me he liked it better as friends i still like him and I've liked for 5 years now sad huh? We still talk though.

 

[nocturnal]

This is a pretty tough situation but I think you have to tell him..If he has that kind of feelings about you..it is much worse for his girlfriend..If she is a normal person she wont want a guy who loves someone else...also you dont see him as a friend now. So he has the right to know about your feelings... Last thing I want to say that 'pretending solves nothing'..tell 'em

 

[MyDecember]

Well right now the choice is up to you really' date='you say the last word but I'm going to give you some advice. Okay before I give you advice I need to know if your close with His Girlfriend, like friends or anything?[/quote']

Were not like best friends...but i d say we were really close friends...even before they started dating

 

[FanSince1999]

Look, I have posted a much worse case, which was my case , here in LP Forums and everyone said me I should tell my girl, I was in love with her, and I finally did it, and guess what happened....I discovered she was in love with me also !! We arent together yet (thanks to the ******* holidays) but I guess I will very soon be with her.

Anyway I'm tryin to say....If you tell him all the truth..what's the worst thing that may happend to you? Just think about it and take the risk

 

[FanSince1999]

ohhh almost forgot this...why did you post this thread in the dark room? lol come on !! say everybody you love him !!!

 

[chester_Crazy]

So Go for it!!

 

[Mike Shinodas Gurl]

you should go for it!^_^

 

[FadedBlue]

Im not sure..

I think you should go for it.

 

[Black_Thought]

Im not sure..I think you should go for it.

I guess Faded is right..

If you are sure you want it..then do it!

 

[Sygy]

:thumbsup: you should tell him

 

[stupidsoul1]

go for it!!!! coz either way u wont b happy.....so just go for it!

 

[Rusu_luvs_LP_4ever]

Thats true.

 

[angelwithburntwings]

yeh i've been in this situation before, i told the girl and we are going out she's the best thing that ever happened to me so i'd say go for it!!!!

 

[Majin_Raziel]

I kinda know how you feel...Its happenin to me right now but Im too scared to tell her just in case our really good frienship will be lost.

 

[Clogz]

When my girlfriend and I started dating, a friend of mine talked to me. He had hidden a huge crush on her for years. I told him that if he didn't like her enough to ask her out, he didn't deserve her.

If you want him, go for it. Love is like walking through a minefield.There will always be risks, no matter what. If you decide to do it, tell him how we feel, but don't pressure him into dating. Give him a chance to decide how he feels about you.

 

[MyDecember]

Thanx guys, the advice has helped alot, i had finally gotten up my courage to tell him and...he said he liked me...the only thing is..HE HAS A GF!! lol... i dk what to do now, i guess wait and see what happens. hehehe, but i broke up with my bf (and the same day he started goin out with my friend lmao can u say desperate)...so...eya