Who Am I?

great... damn.im feeling so messed up right now..Who am i? for the past one year,i've been so messed up cos of depression n stress.i've totally changed into another person who i dont recognise,i've lost my personality and i dont like to talk to ppl anymore.And now,i realised that i'm trapped in myself,my own world.looked thru photos of friends,and i found that,i've been gone from the real world all this time. All that's left is painful memories and also, LP...i dunno how to live my life right anymore..

advice pls?

Try and do something fun, to remind yourself of who you were. Try to meet new friends, talk to people online... anything to stop you feeling so alone. I know it'll be hard but you have to try, you can't be by yoursef forever.

Okay that was bad! lol

Hope you feel better soon.

I'm not sure that was the nicest thing to say

really? why not?

Friends is what u need. Screw these forums. u need real friends. people u can sit with and talk to. go to the movies with..i was stuck and felt depressed all the time....i met some ppl @ skool and now im happy

Azems right, and thats all I can really say cause Im in the same situation. I can understand if its hard to figure out who you are, but try using art as a "portal" for you to figure out who you are. Im told it works, i think its working for me.

First of all, I find that totally hilarious how killerfishy and squrl lvr who are the same person (Confirmed by Suicide King in a thread) actually replied where one of them gave advice, whilst the other comment was a worthless attempt at an insult. Straight after each other lol. I think she also needs help and has issues. Schitzophrenic behaviour is not normal o_0

Anyway I'm so sorry for what you're feeling right now! You're growing up and perhaps you're just going through rapid changes which you are not ready for. You need to get a little help about the stress and depression first. Talk to someone. That's always the best way. After overcoming those 2 issues, maybe you will find your old "identity" again. Just try and be who you are. Don't ever try and change! Live life how you want to and don't do anything rational. Take care and good luck *hugs*.

i was like you when i was in eight grade. well when i was thirteen. i didnt' want to talk to people... i kind of thought that they were all agaisnt me or takling about me. i felt insecure and trapped in myself. i didn't want to get out or do anything. i wanted to be alone. i got to the point where i'd look in the mirror and not even know the person that i was looking at. i wasn't living up to anything. i was trapped behind a person that i didn't want to be. i fixed it though. i'm not completly sure how, but i'll share what i am aware of.

First step! it took time, but i convinced myself that i could trust people. i tried not to think about what they are thinking. i'm really bad about that! i always try to think about what other people are thinking. anyways, just start to hang around people that are kind of in to the things that your into or like if there is a conversation around you.. speak up. don't be afraid to add your opinion. that is basically how you meet friends.

NEXT STEP! learn to live. don't be afraid to try new things. put yourself in a position that you wouldnt really ever put your self in. but not in too much danger. we wouldn't want that! just learn to go for it... or how some Americans say... GO FOR THE GOLD. let yourself be extreme without being to extreme. got that!? if you dont' understand just PM i'll try to explain.

Third Step! dont' care about what people think. it is what gets A LOT of people into the position your into. yea.. it kind of sounds like step one, but that is for making friends. this is for yourself. do what you find is right! you don't have to worry about people and what they think. if someone looks at you with a disgusted or like a dirty look just ignore it or give them the same look. dont ever worry about what people think about you! it isn't what you should do.

Fourth Step! LIVE FREELY! if you want to... stand up and scream. yell out your name and if you get a few people that look at you like your crazy. ignore them. dance in public even if you dont' know how to dance. everyone has a beat in them, some just don't know how to use it. make yourself noticable. its a good way to meet friends and a great way to express yourself. don't hide your inner spirit. if it wants to sit on the couch and watch t.v. ignore it or try to teach yourself to stand out.

Fifth Step! NEVER BE NORMAL! you dont' have to stick to the rules. they can be broken, but just decide which ones are worth breaking. go with the flow. and if you find the 'flow' boring... make it interesting. change your style up a bit or your hair or something. you dont' have to be like everyone around you. be yourself. be unique and different (same thing.. but whatever). lose control! have fun... go crazy!.. but not TOO crazy.. ok!?

by the way... i'm not saying you have to use these. so injuries or failure can not be blamed on me. these steps worked for me and i hope that they work for you and anyone else that feels this way. if you ever need to talk about anything.. PM or IM... which ever you like best. i hope that you get better. i hated being that way and i'm sure you do too.... so. hope this helps.

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omg' date=' NOW 12 YEAR OLDS ARE DEPESSED? this is going to be a problem... WHAT IS WRONG W/ THIS WORLD!!!?[/quote']

 

The world is fucked up. I mean, look around, everyone is depressed to some point. Did you know kids get depressed. I'm talking little kids, 5, 6 years of age or younger! Everyone just ignores it or can't read the emotions of kids.

 

 

gaia89 I kinda know what you mean. I've been there and am slowly getting back on track. Best thing to do is just what Azems said, get friends that are not on here. Keep your mind active, hang with poeple. Depression can lead to so much more if you don't stop it now, unless you've already have done something to hurt yourself.

hey you kno if u wanna talk add me points_of_authority89@hotmail.com

i kno at a poitn i felt the same as if u have lost yourself trying ot fit in and things are wrong, preffering ot b by yuorself but you gotta get out of that little space, trust me you gotta give it a try coz it aint gonna help if you just sit there and feel sorry for oyurself. you are what you make yourself, remember that.

great... damn.im feeling so messed up right now..Who am i? for the past one year,i've been so messed up cos of depression n stress.i've totally changed into another person who i dont recognise,i've lost my personality and i dont like to talk to ppl anymore.And now,i realised that i'm trapped in myself,my own world.looked thru photos of friends,and i found that,i've been gone from the real world all this time. All that's left is painful memories and also, LP...i dunno how to live my life right anymore..

 

advice pls?

i'm sure that deep down your a wonderful person. you just need a long holiday to get over your depression and stress. Have you tired talking to your parents?

oh...this isn't nice what i've read...u really need to socialize more..i think your depression comes from here

how many friends do u have??

try to talk to them about your problems ..it's not good to not talk to someone...ask for an advice...

this is what i'm adviceing u-i did the same thing today,i talked to marizka about my probs and i felt better after...

if u ever need to talk to a friend u'll find me here,cause i have the same probs like u ,only my depression last only 4 maximum a week...

If your depressed just try to let it all out of you by talking and expressing your feelings , by trying to be understood by others .

If you see ppl happy ,laughing and having a good time , think about all the problems that surround them . Everyone has moments when he takes the knife and starts touching the blade and thinking , " What if I do it ? " Will it take me away from this miserable world ? " It won`t . Only U can make your own world better.

Take care of you , practice a sport , read more , socialize more. If u feel sad think that thousands of ppl watch there children die every day in Africa.