Why the **** does everyone hate me so quickly?
- Thread starter Peterdea
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People our age are like this, they turn against each other in the snap of a finger, if one person doesn't like someone, everyone jumps on the bandwagon and joins in, then a few weeks later, they're your best friend again and act like nothing happened.
I wouldn't worry about it; it'll all blow over in a week or two. People just suck lol.
I wouldn't worry about it; it'll all blow over in a week or two. People just suck lol.
crazy robster
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The majority of people my darling Petie seek the opportunity to hate others. People just LOVE to hate, because they can't even love themselves! So they hate others in a meagre attempt to feel they are better than them. Made sense? The bottom line is: be happy with those select few who love you and screw everyone else. When YOUR conscience is clear and you know you do your best then you shouldn't care what others think. Besides....I love you, ain't that enough? LOL awww *hugs*
Ravynlee
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Hate you how? Am just curious, while I agree mostly with what sis said I think it's worth noting that people in general are mostly selfish creatures as well as creatures of habit. So while it may seem they hate you, to them you may just be symbolic of someone else, something else, or a situation that's ******* them off and they are venting at you rather than dealing with it. Besides, take it from me, the older people get the less they care about those around them, it's all about 'me, me, me' (actually I'd argue that's this latest generation, the 'I deserve but don't want to earn it' generation, but no matter) so with their selfishness and your feelings of insecurity or insubstantiality or feeling like you're not making the grade etc, these feelings your having may be 'easily' explained. But words are just words, when it feels like the world is dumping on you words usually don't fix anything.
Look brother, many people love you, and **** those that don't. Period. Yes this may sound cliche, and you may think if you have this way of thinking you're set for a life of loneliness and despair. Look at it this way, if you want people to love you then find out what they hate about you and adapt if you think you can, if you think they're worth it. You'll get older and see people for their true colours at some point, you'll have few close friends but cherish the few you have because they like you for who you are. If that's not enough then
I don't know what to tell you.Basically people don't care about anyone outside of themselves, or unless they're 'obligated' to through marriage or relations, maybe children would be the only real exception, but everyone's living for themselves. In the grand scheme of things Pete no one really hates you because no one cares about you as much as you think they do, or should - except of course family, close friends and those you choose to let into your inner circle to thie own varying degrees. I don't mean that how it sounds, but you know what I mean. In their eyes everyone is master of their own universe as it should be, thats why everyone tells you to live your own life and blah-blah-blah. Self help folks say that people treat you how you train them to treat you. If you want to be hated then you will find a way to **** people off, if you want to be adored you'll turn yourself into something you're not and bend over backwards to be whatever anyone wants you to be... get the picture? And if it feels like you're just not measuring up spmehow to what everyone wants you to be and feel like a failure ask yourself one thing - in the long run who's life is it and in the end in the dark of night alone with your thoughts and conscience, who do you really answer to?
Peterdea
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hmmm... I don't really know how to respond, I understand it entirely but I can't really think of a response as of right now...
Jeeeeeeeeeesus!
I hate you to friend! :friends:
you pretty much got me thinking...Hate you how? Am just curious, while I agree mostly with what sis said I think it's worth noting that people in general are mostly selfish creatures as well as creatures of habit. So while it may seem they hate you, to them you may just be symbolic of someone else, something else, or a situation that's ******* them off and they are venting at you rather than dealing with it. Besides, take it from me, the older people get the less they care about those around them, it's all about 'me, me, me' (actually I'd argue that's this latest generation, the 'I deserve but don't want to earn it' generation, but no matter) so with their selfishness and your feelings of insecurity or insubstantiality or feeling like you're not making the grade etc, these feelings your having may be 'easily' explained. But words are just words, when it feels like the world is dumping on you words usually don't fix anything.
Look brother, many people love you, and **** those that don't. Period. Yes this may sound cliche, and you may think if you have this way of thinking you're set for a life of loneliness and despair. Look at it this way, if you want people to love you then find out what they hate about you and adapt if you think you can, if you think they're worth it. You'll get older and see people for their true colours at some point, you'll have few close friends but cherish the few you have because they like you for who you are. If that's not enough then
Basically people don't care about anyone outside of themselves, or unless they're 'obligated' to through marriage or relations, maybe children would be the only real exception, but everyone's living for themselves. In the grand scheme of things Pete no one really hates you because no one cares about you as much as you think they do, or should - except of course family, close friends and those you choose to let into your inner circle to thie own varying degrees. I don't mean that how it sounds, but you know what I mean. In their eyes everyone is master of their own universe as it should be, thats why everyone tells you to live your own life and blah-blah-blah. Self help folks say that people treat you how you train them to treat you. If you want to be hated then you will find a way to **** people off, if you want to be adored you'll turn yourself into something you're not and bend over backwards to be whatever anyone wants you to be... get the picture? And if it feels like you're just not measuring up spmehow to what everyone wants you to be and feel like a failure ask yourself one thing - in the long run who's life is it and in the end in the dark of night alone with your thoughts and conscience, who do you really answer to?
could you explain it in a bit more detail?