yeah.. uhh... okay... here's how it goes...

LPHybridSnax

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Alright, I've dated this girl off and on for 6 months, we'd gotten so close that we would talk on the phone for 5 hours straight every day we couldn't see each other (and we weren't even together at the time) we'll in the last 5 months she found somebody new, she complains about him NON-STOP every day it's something new. I couldn't figure out why she would stay with him, well in the last week I found out that she had *** with him (don't know how long ago) and that was probably the reason why she wanted to stay with him. I knew that she did, I'm not a ****** I can put stuff together probably better than anybody you know. One of her friends was mad that she didn't tell her and immediately I knew what it was, but decided to play stupid, not the coolest thing I've done, but I wanted to know for sure the extend of all this. When I asked what it was about she smiled at me, shook her head, and said "nothing". That was basically a dead give away so I said "Oh! That! I've known about that." like it was no big deal and unfortunately for all of us her friend was stupid enough to confirm it all by saying it out loud "Emily is mad that you had *** with R___" they broke up a few days ago because he is psycho, he will probably eventually get arrested for hitting a girl or stalking one. Personally I think he's done both, but she won't tell me because she knows I will, seriously, kill him if he hit her.

Now I'm not going to ask your opinion on what I should do because you aren't here to understand the situation like I do (history, etc). I just want your guys opinion on what you see out of this.... if that makes sense.

I've known this girl for over a year, we've both said that we were the first people we've loved, and the other day she (SAD AS HELLLLLL) send me a TEXT message to get on MYSPACE because she wanted to talk to me.... what the **** ever happened to face to face conversations... or for that matter a ******' phone... anyway she said that she is sorry (doesn't seem like it to me, just one of those thing she got caught and is sorry that I found out) a few times and that she still loves me... Do I still love her too? Yes. But I don't think I can be with her when I think of her and her ex boyfriend "together" you know what I mean?

 

Jeezy

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I think I also would have a problem with that...I mean...you've been together with her...then she was with this other guy and had something going on with him...and now she kinda want's you back....(I hope I got that right)...and as you said...I don't know the whole story....but I think I would maybe just stay friends with her...if that is possible
 

LPHybridSnax

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yeah thats possible, but i know eventually in a few months we'd fade apart, just one of those things you can feel you know. Her friend called me at 4 am this morning (yeah... i was in a great mood....) she woke me up at 4 in the morning to tell me she (herself, not the girl im talking about initially) was back together with her ex, then started to talk about how bad my ex felt about all this, which again i think is complete bullshit, but this girl talking to me is basically my sister and I dont think shed lie to me, still.

Basically she's avoided me all weekend, but im ganna see her at school tomorrow so I get to deal with it then. im probably just ganna say that i still love her, shes still really important to me, but i think we both need to just move on.

 

Rock Angel

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just leave her she doesn't seems like a trust worthy! and she doesn't desirve your love ...fine someone eles i think she could hurt you ... well that's what i think
 

white Angel

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Sounds to me like if she hurt you once then she is going to do it again, b/c she knows you will always take her back. I feel like she is trying to take advantage of your feelings for her. I'd leave her alone and find somebody else to be in a relationship with. I almost forgot to ask, but does she know you still love her?
 
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