My talk with a Canadian Doctor

[timesjoke]

Exhibits A, B, C & etc...^^^ TJ - You never asked for examples in your prior comment.

 

Give me a hard example of me living my life completely different than what I preach, if you can.

 

I asked this today right after your post, so yes I did ask for an example, I guess this is another example of you guys seeing what you want to see.....not what I write.

 

 

 

 

 

We were talking about you in general. The specific examples have been pointed out to you in every single post you've participated in on any given argument you have had with any given member, time and time again. Don't act crazy.

 

 

But that is the problem, let me give you an example, today I pointed out to RO that he was accusing me of beating a dead horse but I was not the only guy responding on the topic. Even snaff was making similar points and yet I am the only person called unreasonable.

 

Most of you have made up your minds that I can never say anything good so you fill in the blanks with what you want me to be saying instead of what I actually say. I cannot defend against things I have never done, these things you think I have done are in your own mind.

 

But okay, now you say to give you an example of being a hypocrit. I'll give you a few just from the top of my head. You said you don't like being called a liar yet you called Emmy a liar from merely giving her personal accounts with Canadian healthcare. 2. You say you don't like people personally attacking you and that you never stoop so low. Yet you do, most recently you attacked Ali saying she was alone and wallows in it. What the hell is that??? Others here (me, all the way!) resort to personal attacks, but at least won't deny it nor will act holier than thou about it.

 

Here is a prime example:

 

Please post a quote from me calling Emkay a liar.

 

Please post me saying Ali wallows in being alone.

 

 

You take a small thing I do say, wrap it in things I never said then act pissed off that I said it.......well again I cannot defend myself from things "YOU" say, I can only respond to things I do say.

 

 

 

Let's take your "wallows" claim:

 

 

I said I know Ali is alone in connection to the farting carol comment. I never once used any words like wallowing, that comes from you, not me. If Ali is happy being alone then that is up to her I have no dog in that fight so why would I care one way or another?

 

 

I didn't say it, but that does not stop you from brainwashing yourself into believing I did.

[Ahhlee]

lol, not a nice try Ali, how many times have you said you are completely alone in this world? You even wallowed in it during the "it is not natural" discussion so obviously my comment about your house is based on my knowledge that you have nobody else in your home to sing with.

 

Please post me saying Ali wallows in being alone.

 

 

You take a small thing I do say, wrap it in things I never said then act pissed off that I said it.......well again I cannot defend myself from things "YOU" say, I can only respond to things I do say.

 

 

 

Let's take your "wallows" claim:

 

 

I said I know Ali is alone in connection to the farting carol comment. I never once used any words like wallowing, that comes from you, not me. If Ali is happy being alone then that is up to her I have no dog in that fight so why would I care one way or another?

 

 

I didn't say it, but that does not stop you from brainwashing yourself into believing I did.

 

You are such a dumbass.

[timesjoke]

You are such a dumbass.

 

Okay, I was wrong about the word, I am sorry for that, I really thought I used a different wording.

 

If you read my post for context though, you see I am not intending to use the word wallow as her suffering from her being alone but instead the way she "spreads it around the forum".

 

So my usage of wallowing was not meant to be personal, just an expression of her usage of that information and how I understood her to be alone because she is always talking about being alone.

 

 

So this is still a great example, you see one bad looking word and assume the worse for my intent instead of looking for context to see what I was actually saying.

 

 

 

Ali, if I hurt your feelings in my poor choice of words I am sorry, that was not my intent.

 

I really do mean that.

[wez]

 

Please post a quote from me calling Emkay a liar.

 

I can respect what emkay says and take it as part of the whole to be sure, but just the Canadian supreme court alone makes her comments not very believable in comparison. ~ TJ

 

Emkay is defending her system out of blind pride or something, but she is not being honest.~ TJ

 

 

Emkay, for you to claim there are no waiting times problems but your entire Country from the suppreme court to local doctors all saying there is a massive problem shows your not willing to be honest.~ TJ

I think your not being honest about this Emkay. ~ TJ

 

There's 4, f ckhead..

 

 

Please post me saying Ali wallows in being alone.

 

You take a small thing I do say, wrap it in things I never said then act pissed off that I said it.......well again I cannot defend myself from things "YOU" say, I can only respond to things I do say.

 

Let's take your "wallows" claim:

 

I said I know Ali is alone in connection to the farting carol comment. I never once used any words like wallowing, that comes from you, not me. If Ali is happy being alone then that is up to her I have no dog in that fight so why would I care one way or another?

 

I didn't say it, but that does not stop you from brainwashing yourself into believing I did.

 

See Ali's post above..

 

So my usage of wallowing was not meant to be personal, just an expression of her usage of that information and how I understood her to be alone because she is always talking about being alone.

 

 

So this is still a great example, you see one bad looking word and assume the worse for my intent instead of looking for context to see what I was actually saying.

 

 

 

Ali, if I hurt your feelings in my poor choice of words I am sorry, that was not my intent.

 

I really do mean that.

 

Wasn't your intent after the fact.. eh moron? Your sorry's = sh t

 

You with your silky words

And your eyes of green and blue

You with your steel beliefs

That don't match anything you do

It was so much easier before you became you ~ Sheryl Crow

 

 

I'm not you ~ wez

 

 

You are such a dumbass. ~ Ali

 

 

 

 

For the love of God.. shut the f cking hell up

[ImWithStupid]

Okay, I was wrong about the word, I am sorry for that, I really thought I used a different wording.

 

If you read my post for context though, you see I am not intending to use the word wallow as her suffering from her being alone but instead the way she "spreads it around the forum".

 

So my usage of wallowing was not meant to be personal, just an expression of her usage of that information and how I understood her to be alone because she is always talking about being alone.

 

 

So this is still a great example, you see one bad looking word and assume the worse for my intent instead of looking for context to see what I was actually saying.

 

 

 

Ali, if I hurt your feelings in my poor choice of words I am sorry, that was not my intent.

 

I really do mean that.

 

 

I think what was really intended with TJ's "wallow" comment, was taken out of context. He meant the it more like the Webster's definition and example.

 

 

Wallow

 

• 
  [ ]Pronunciation: ˈw?-(ˌ)lō
  [ ]Function: intransitive verb
  [ ]Etymology: Middle English walwen, from Old English wealwian to roll ? more at

voluble
[ ]Date: before 12th century

1 : to roll oneself about in a lazy, relaxed, or ungainly manner <hogs wallowing in the mud>

 

[eddo]

this thread is full of

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-8 weblife status points for TJ

[Ahhlee]

Okay, I was wrong about the word, I am sorry for that, I really thought I used a different wording.

 

If you read my post for context though, you see I am not intending to use the word wallow as her suffering from her being alone but instead the way she "spreads it around the forum".

 

So my usage of wallowing was not meant to be personal, just an expression of her usage of that information and how I understood her to be alone because she is always talking about being alone.

 

 

So this is still a great example, you see one bad looking word and assume the worse for my intent instead of looking for context to see what I was actually saying.

 

 

 

Ali, if I hurt your feelings in my poor choice of words I am sorry, that was not my intent.

 

I really do mean that.

 

My feelings aren't hurt. There is a big difference between being single and being alone. I'm not alone.

 

 

I think what was really intended with TJ's "wallow" comment, was taken out of context. He meant the it more like the Webster's definition and example.

 

Wallow

 

Pronunciation: ˈw?-(ˌ)lō

Function: intransitive verb

Etymology: Middle English walwen, from Old English wealwian to roll ? more at voluble

Date: before 12th century

1 : to roll oneself about in a lazy, relaxed, or ungainly manner <hogs wallowing in the mud>

 

 

 

Really? Is today fat joke day?

 

Good thing I didn't wear my good muumuu. I'd hate to ruin it with my greasy, gravy filled tears.

[ImWithStupid]

My feelings aren't hurt. There is a big difference between being single and being alone. I'm not alone.

 

 

 

 

Really? Is today fat joke day?

 

Good thing I didn't wear my good muumuu. I'd hate to ruin it with my greasy, gravy filled tears.

 

 

I'll let you see my side boob...

 

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[timesjoke]

My feelings aren't hurt. There is a big difference between being single and being alone. I'm not alone.

 

Well I just wanted to be sure you knew my intent was not to say anything bad about you on a personal level, it was my failed attempt to say you openly say your single with nobody living with you.

 

I can admit when I am wrong, it just does not happen very often

[Ahhlee]

I'll let you see my side boob...

 

You are SUCH a side boob whore! Sheesh!

 

Well I just wanted to be sure you knew my intent was not to say anything bad about you on a personal level, it was my failed attempt to say you openly say your single with nobody living with you.

 

I can admit when I am wrong, it just does not happen very often

 

You know what, TJ? I appreciate your apology and accept it. I will even pass on some good rep to you for actually being pretty cool about this because I believe that two goods make a....well, I don't know what two goods make but at least it's not bad.

[timesjoke]

Thank you Ali

[Chi]

Give me a hard example of me living my life completely different than what I preach, if you can.

 

I asked this today right after your post, so yes I did ask for an example, I guess this is another example of you guys seeing what you want to see.....not what I write.

 

 

But that is the problem, let me give you an example, today I pointed out to RO that he was accusing me of beating a dead horse but I was not the only guy responding on the topic. Even snaff was making similar points and yet I am the only person called unreasonable.

 

Most of you have made up your minds that I can never say anything good so you fill in the blanks with what you want me to be saying instead of what I actually say. I cannot defend against things I have never done, these things you think I have done are in your own mind.

 

 

Here is a prime example:

 

Please post a quote from me calling Emkay a liar.

 

Please post me saying Ali wallows in being alone.

 

 

You take a small thing I do say, wrap it in things I never said then act pissed off that I said it.......well again I cannot defend myself from things "YOU" say, I can only respond to things I do say.

 

 

 

Let's take your "wallows" claim:

 

 

I said I know Ali is alone in connection to the farting carol comment. I never once used any words like wallowing, that comes from you, not me. If Ali is happy being alone then that is up to her I have no dog in that fight so why would I care one way or another?

 

 

I didn't say it, but that does not stop you from brainwashing yourself into believing I did.

 

I will not do a single more thing for you. You are a complete waste of time. I'm not going to sit here and play games with you, while you try to switch it up. You may have time for this bull, but I don't. Besides, we already all know what you are all about. No need to keep proving it or repeating it.

 

For a man who so-called has his hands in all of these ventures, you sure do have a lot of time to waste....

[timesjoke]

Besides, we already all know what you are all about. No need to keep proving it or repeating it.

 

And there is my point from square one.

 

You have your "I hate times" glasses on, and that is all that matters to you, you will never allow yourself to see anything else.

 

Friendship and understanding is a two way street, you want me to travel to you and give you more understanding but you refuse to do the same for me. When you learn to do so, let me know because I am more than willing to get along with those who will meet me in the middle.

 

 

 

For a man who so-called has his hands in all of these ventures, you sure do have a lot of time to waste....

 

And so what is this supposed to mean?

 

You can't stick to the issues and must turn to more personal flames? Now I cannot have a job because I have access to the internet at work? This is the kind of tactic I am speaking about. Kill the messenger, ignore the message.

 

 

You know, those who spend so much time pointing fingers at other people for making up their life on the internet are usually guilty of doing that themselves. There is not one person on the internet I feel any need to impress. Obviously you feel inferior or threatened to be acting so poorly.

 

 

But guess what Chi, I don't hate you, and I am not mad at you, I can dissagree with people without taking it personal, I guess you can't.

[wez]

And there is my point from square one.

 

You have your "I hate times" glasses on, and that is all that matters to you, you will never allow yourself to see anything else.

 

Friendship and understanding is a two way street, you want me to travel to you and give you more understanding but you refuse to do the same for me. When you learn to do so, let me know because I am more than willing to get along with those who will meet me in the middle.

 

 

 

 

 

And so what is this supposed to mean?

 

You can't stick to the issues and must turn to more personal flames? Now I cannot have a job because I have access to the internet at work? This is the kind of tactic I am speaking about. Kill the messenger, ignore the message.

 

 

You know, those who spend so much time pointing fingers at other people for making up their life on the internet are usually guilty of doing that themselves. There is not one person on the internet I feel any need to impress. Obviously you feel inferior or threatened to be acting so poorly.

 

 

But guess what Chi, I don't hate you, and I am not mad at you, I can dissagree with people without taking it personal, I guess you can't.

 

 

Talking about yourself again there genius.. Chi is not you..

 

That is why you're a hypocrite.. judging.. labeling.. and looking down on her for what YOU, in fact, are.

 

 

one thing to another.. one member to another... same sh t.. shut the f cking f ck up..

[Chi]

And there is my point from square one.

 

You have your "I hate times" glasses on, and that is all that matters to you, you will never allow yourself to see anything else.

 

Friendship and understanding is a two way street, you want me to travel to you and give you more understanding but you refuse to do the same for me. When you learn to do so, let me know because I am more than willing to get along with those who will meet me in the middle.

 

And so what is this supposed to mean?

 

You can't stick to the issues and must turn to more personal flames? Now I cannot have a job because I have access to the internet at work? This is the kind of tactic I am speaking about. Kill the messenger, ignore the message.

 

You know, those who spend so much time pointing fingers at other people for making up their life on the internet are usually guilty of doing that themselves. There is not one person on the internet I feel any need to impress. Obviously you feel inferior or threatened to be acting so poorly.

 

But guess what Chi, I don't hate you, and I am not mad at you, I can dissagree with people without taking it personal, I guess you can't.

 

TJ - I don't hate you. I reserve that for a select few. I don't like you, but that's no big secret. I've told you that on numerous occassions before.

 

And yep, that's me making grandious stories of building mosques, building Canadian doctor's offices (it's funny how you're always involved in building something related to the discussions you have with people on these boards...) am a volunteer firefighter, have a heating & cooling business, "among a couple other businesses", work in sales and everything else, yet I'm always at these boards spending countless hours on novel sized responses on anything and everything under the sun. Yep, that's me!

 

^^TJ - It's not a personal flame (ok, maybe it is a little), but it is also a factual observation^^.

 

I'm also not closed to getting along with people, but you make it very difficult. I don't like liars, people who are completely illogical and seem to be untrustworthy. I'm sorry, but that's just how you come off to me.

[timesjoke]

TJ - I don't hate you. I reserve that for a select few. I don't like you, but that's no big secret. I've told you that on numerous occassions before.

 

Actions speak louder than words, while you say here you do not hate, your constant need to ignore topics and concentrate on personal flames shows a different truth.

 

You do not like me, so that is all you will ever let yourself see, you read my words and insert your expectations for what you "want" to see, not what is really there.

 

 

If all your looking for is bad in people, you will always find it.

 

 

And yep, that's me making grandious stories of building mosques, building Canadian doctor's offices (it's funny how you're always involved in building something related to the discussions you have with people on these boards...) am a volunteer firefighter, have a heating & cooling business, "among a couple other businesses", work in sales and everything else, yet I'm always at these boards spending countless hours on novel sized responses on anything and everything under the sun. Yep, that's me!

 

^^TJ - It's not a personal flame (ok, maybe it is a little), but it is also a factual observation^^.

 

You do know that there are these businesses where companies build commercial buildings right? I mean, do you think they just sprout out of the ground all by themselves?

 

I work at a company who builds a wide range of buildings. Consider every kind of building you have been in and my company has more than likely built something similar. Why does it seem difficult for you to understand that I have exposures in many kinds of construction projects?

 

I actually have residual income from over 15 businesses I have been involved in building from scratch. Some with partners, some not. My usual pattern is to get the business making money then sell it off to someone where I retain anywhere from 5 to 10% ownership interest. Yes, I have had a few failures as well, but we learn more from a failure than a success.

 

I will go ahead and give you another tidbit you can call me a liar about, I now have my GC license because I got tired of being a sub to everyone else.

 

Work smarter, not harder.

 

 

I'm also not closed to getting along with people, but you make it very difficult. I don't like liars, people who are completely illogical and seem to be untrustworthy. I'm sorry, but that's just how you come off to me.

 

I respect your right to have your opinion, but your wrong about me. You have inserted concepts and ideas of me that are not reality and I really do not know how to help you with this Psychosis you are experiancing.

 

I have not lied about anything. I am not untrustworthy, I am the very definition of logical because I do not allow political correctness or anything else to get in the way of my persuit of truth.

 

 

It is like what I said to Ali, she agreed with my conclusions, but not my methods. I agree, I am blunt and to the point. I do not worry about trying to protect brittle emotions because to me emotion is irrelivant to fact.

 

 

 

If you want to call me out on a lie, do so, be specific and I will gladly respond to it. But, I will not try to answer to things I have only done inside your own mind just to justify your hate and bad behaviors.

[RoyalOrleans]

And yep, that's me making grandious stories of building mosques, building Canadian doctor's offices (it's funny how you're always involved in building something related to the discussions you have with people on these boards...) am a volunteer firefighter, have a heating & cooling business, "among a couple other businesses", work in sales and everything else, yet I'm always at these boards spending countless hours on novel sized responses on anything and everything under the sun. Yep, that's me!.

 

TJ must have a time machine!

[Chi]

Actions speak louder than words, while you say here you do not hate, your constant need to ignore topics and concentrate on personal flames shows a different truth.

 

You do not like me, so that is all you will ever let yourself see, you read my words and insert your expectations for what you "want" to see, not what is really there.

 

 

If all your looking for is bad in people, you will always find it.

 

 

 

 

You do know that there are these businesses where companies build commercial buildings right? I mean, do you think they just sprout out of the ground all by themselves?

 

I work at a company who builds a wide range of buildings. Consider every kind of building you have been in and my company has more than likely built something similar. Why does it seem difficult for you to understand that I have exposures in many kinds of construction projects?

 

I actually have residual income from over 15 businesses I have been involved in building from scratch. Some with partners, some not. My usual pattern is to get the business making money then sell it off to someone where I retain anywhere from 5 to 10% ownership interest. Yes, I have had a few failures as well, but we learn more from a failure than a success.

 

I will go ahead and give you another tidbit you can call me a liar about, I now have my GC license because I got tired of being a sub to everyone else.

 

Work smarter, not harder.

 

 

 

 

I respect your right to have your opinion, but your wrong about me. You have inserted concepts and ideas of me that are not reality and I really do not know how to help you with this Psychosis you are experiancing.

 

I have not lied about anything. I am not untrustworthy, I am the very definition of logical because I do not allow political correctness or anything else to get in the way of my persuit of truth.

 

 

It is like what I said to Ali, she agreed with my conclusions, but not my methods. I agree, I am blunt and to the point. I do not worry about trying to protect brittle emotions because to me emotion is irrelivant to fact.

 

 

 

If you want to call me out on a lie, do so, be specific and I will gladly respond to it. But, I will not try to answer to things I have only done inside your own mind just to justify your hate and bad behaviors.

 

lol, you're nuts, dude! You even have to dictate how I feel about you. Do you ever stop thinking you have all of the answers and know everything? In fact, I have yet to find something you have a good handle on. You think you know people even more than they know themselves and more than they do about their own experiences!

 

I am very done with you. You're also crazy if you think I read all the bs you write. I skim and wade through it.

[RoyalOrleans]

lol, you're nuts, dude! You even have to dictate how I feel about you. Do you ever stop thinking you have all of the answers and know everything? In fact, I have yet to find something you have a good handle on. You think you know people even more than they know themselves and more than they do about their own experiences!

 

I am very done with you. You're also crazy if you think I read all the bs you write. I skim and wade through it.

 

 

Maybe Obama will make him a czar of some capacity.

[timesjoke]

if you think I read all the bs you write. I skim and wade through it.

 

How do you know what I say if you never read any of it?

 

Busted again, here you show the real problem, you have never read anything I have written, all you do is see one or two words, assign the worse possible meaning to those words, and attack.

[Chi]

How do you know what I say if you never read any of it?

 

Busted again, here you show the real problem, you have never read anything I have written, all you do is see one or two words, assign the worse possible meaning to those words, and attack.

 

Slow boy, the key word is ALL. And oh yeah, I am so busted! You foiled my evil plan! I should be spanked:o

[timesjoke]

Slow boy, the key word is ALL. And oh yeah, I am so busted! You foiled my evil plan! I should be spanked:o

 

No, you already admitted you never give me a chance, you ignore almost all of what I say and select a couple words to take in the worse possible way and flame me. Your words, not mine.

 

 

And yes, you seem like someone who could use a few good smacks on your bottom

 

I have been known to 'cherry' a bottom or two for the ladies, let me know if you need me to help you out

[snafu]

Slow boy, the key word is ALL. And oh yeah, I am so busted! You foiled my evil plan! I should be spanked:o

 

I got dibs on that job!