TJ's own, private "Personal attack" playground

[eddo]

You and eddo was ripping her apart and I simply pointed out that it was not fair to treat any person in such a horrible way.

 

This right here causes so many problems TJ- and I am gonna try to do this without getting nasty:

Your mind is an interesting place to live. In there, everything and anything you say is ok, because it is "truth" to you. In there, you can be a pompous jerk, but as long as it is "truthful", then it is okie dokie.

 

Unfortunately, just because you think something is "truth," doesn't necessarily make it so.

 

Example:

The MrsK incident at thejungle. You jumped in, and yes you did jump Ali's and my ass, and you had no clue anything about the situation or past discussions- and yes, those do absolutely play into current discussions. That is true for that situation, and it is true for many others. Your "truth" was not real truth, but to you it was, so any reaction you had was justified.

 

Heck, yesterday you slammed me by suggesting that my birthday wishes weren't sincere. What did you base that assumption on? Yep, our past history. The same thing you are here slamming Ali for doing.

 

 

 

In your mind- you know the intentions of everything everyone types on these boards. in there, you are some sort of expert on knowing what people mean, even if they tell you that what you think they meant isn't what they meant. In your mind, you know better.

 

Unfortunately again, this "truth" of what you think others always mean can be wrong. It's subjective to what is going on in your mind, and suffice it to say, your mind is not my mind, Ali's mind, or even Bender's mind. In your mind, you draw these conclusions of people based on something you think they said, and then exaggerate it from there until, in your mind, you know everything everyone could possibly know, think, and believe. And in your mind, that is "true", but in reality, you are closing yourself off to the actual people here.

 

Example:

Yes, Bender likes Obama. Does that mean he agrees with everything he says or does? No. The posts prove that Bender keeps a pretty open mind about Obama, and has even questioned some of the things he does. But in your mind- Bender is the single biggest Obama kool-aid drinker to ever walk the earth. Your mind has painted him as such, so it must be "true."

 

Another Example:

Hugo thinks one cop could have handled a situation with a Harvard professor differently. Suddenly he is a cop hater or unequaled proportions. In your mind, it's "true." To the rest of the universe, it isn't.

 

 

 

As much as you would like it TJ, your mind doesn't control what the rest of us say, think, or do. So stop thinking it does.

 

 

 

 

Last I checked I still have a vagina. I may be creepy, but I'm not a dude.

I'm gonna need some sort of verification on that before I retract my earlier statement. Thanks.

[Ahhlee]

13 times TJ has mentioned my name in here to this point- in a post Ali made to settle things between the two of them.

 

13 times.

 

 

 

13.

 

 

wow.

 

 

 

 

Why the hell are my stalkers alwyas creepy guys???????

 

I'm sorry you're being drug into this, eddo. What's really amusing is that TJ thinks this is all about you, yet the final straw came from a completely different source.

 

I guess the self-proclaimed Mr. All Knowing doesn't know as much as he thinks he does.

 

You told a lie, I didn't force you to do that so you can't blame me.

 

Keep yapping. I'm sure God is taking good notes. I hope He has a brand new black Sharpie on hand! They're the best!

[timesjoke]

 

This right here causes so many problems TJ- and I am gonna try to do this without getting nasty:

Your mind is an interesting place to live. In there, everything and anything you say is ok, because it is "truth" to you. In there, you can be a pompous jerk, but as long as it is "truthful", then it is okie dokie.

 

Unfortunately, just because you think something is "truth," doesn't necessarily make it so.

 

Example:

The MrsK incident at thejungle. You jumped in, and yes you did jump Ali's and my ass, and you had no clue anything about the situation or past discussions- and yes, those do absolutely play into current discussions. That is true for that situation, and it is true for many others. Your "truth" was not real truth, but to you it was, so any reaction you had was justified.

 

You were either ripping MrsK apart or you were not eddo.

 

 

In this case you were, you and Ali kept offering MrsK's "PAST" as your excuse for your bad behavior and all I was saying is that kind of behavior is wrong under any circumstance. Your doing the same thing to me, based on the hate you two feel from the past, you believe that justified bad behaviors against me now.

 

 

Your past feelings against me, MrsK or anyone elase does not make bad bahavior on your part good.

 

 

Heck, yesterday you slammed me by suggesting that my birthday wishes weren't sincere. What did you base that assumption on? Yep, our past history. The same thing you are here slamming Ali for doing.

 

You called me an ass about 30 seconds before wishing me a happy birthday, forgive me for thinking that the happy birthday wish seemed diminished based on that.

 

 

In your mind- you know the intentions of everything everyone types on these boards. in there, you are some sort of expert on knowing what people mean, even if they tell you that what you think they meant isn't what they meant. In your mind, you know better.

 

Unfortunately again, this "truth" of what you think others always mean can be wrong. It's subjective to what is going on in your mind, and suffice it to say, your mind is not my mind, Ali's mind, or even Bender's mind. In your mind, you draw these conclusions of people based on something you think they said, and then exaggerate it from there until, in your mind, you know everything everyone could possibly know, think, and believe. And in your mind, that is "true", but in reality, you are closing yourself off to the actual people here.

 

I am rejecting your negative actions eddo. You have never treated me with a shread of decency so what do you offer me to open up to you? Am I supposed to be passive and meek in the face of constant agression from you?

 

 

Friendship goes both ways, it seems you both want me to do all the giving and even be dishonest for you to not be ugly to me.

 

 

 

Example:

Yes, Bender likes Obama. Does that mean he agrees with everything he says or does? No. The posts prove that Bender keeps a pretty open mind about Obama, and has even questioned some of the things he does. But in your mind- Bender is the single biggest Obama kool-aid drinker to ever walk the earth. Your mind has painted him as such, so it must be "true."

 

When asked Bender does agree with everything Obama does and even makes excuses for everything he does.........bad example eddo.

 

Even RO and IWS has said the same thing about Bender in one form or another. Look at the list RO posted and Bender replied to today for example. Bender called RO a liar in most of the list.

 

 

Another Example:

Hugo thinks one cop could have handled a situation with a Harvard professor differently. Suddenly he is a cop hater or unequaled proportions. In your mind, it's "true." To the rest of the universe, it isn't.

 

He said it himself, not me, another bad example. I even used his own quotes against him but he is so against cops in general he could not apply any responsibility to the guy who was showing his azz.

 

 

As much as you would like it TJ, your mind doesn't control what the rest of us say, think, or do. So stop thinking it does.

 

Control? I only reply to what you actually do and say, nothing more. Anything else is a figment of your imagination.

 

 

 

 

 

Ali, if your going to try and talk religion at least educate yourself a little before you open your mouth. There is nothing in any Christian faith that says man cannot judge man, in fact we are encouraged to do so in many ways but the real issue is to only judge on the leval your prepared to be judged yourself.

 

 

eddo could have explained that to you but as usual even if your wrong, he will look the other way in the name of your friendship.

[RoyalOrleans]

Even RO and IWS has said the same thing about Bender in one form or another. Look at the list RO posted and Bender replied to today for example. Bender called RO a liar in most of the list.

 

 

Don't bring me into your argument, TJ.

 

Ahh...

 

Ahhh....

 

SHHHHHHHHHHH!

 

Just don't fukken do it.

[eddo]

Thanks for proving all my points for me TJ. I know you don't believe you did (in your mind,) but for the rest of us, you just did an amazing job of backing up everything I said.

 

Thanks!

[timesjoke]

Don't bring me into your argument, TJ.

 

Ahh...

 

Ahhh....

 

SHHHHHHHHHHH!

 

Just don't fukken do it.

 

 

 

 

 

Typical Bender. Would rather shrug it off than face the music.

 

 

I am not trying to drag you into anything, I am just responding to eddo trying to make me sound bad and I am showing how I am not the only person who says Bender is an excuse machine for Obama.

 

I didn't want to be dragged into this either, but Ali and eddo really never take no for an answer when they are ready to flame someone.

 

 

 

 

 

eddo, I am glad you think I helped you but you helped me more than you think.

[Ahhlee]

Don't bring me into your argument, TJ.

 

Ahh...

 

Ahhh....

 

SHHHHHHHHHHH!

 

Just don't fukken do it.

 

Awww, come on. I've heard you dog cuss someone out and you're damn good at it! Don't you want to rip on TJ for a good 10 minutes?

 

I'll give you $50.

 

 

Ali, if your going to try and talk religion at least educate yourself a little before you open your mouth. There is nothing in any Christian faith that says man cannot judge man, in fact we are encouraged to do so in many ways but the real issue is to only judge on the leval your prepared to be judged yourself.

 

 

Seriously? LMFAO!

 

And as he sat at dinner in the house, many tax collectors and sinners came and were sitting with him and his disciples. When the Pharisees saw this, they said to his disciples, ?Why does your teacher eat with tax collectors and sinners? But when he heard this, he said, ?Those who are well have no need of a physician, but those who are sick. Go and learn what this means, ?I desire mercy, not sacrifice.? For I have come to call not the righteous but sinners.? - Matthew 9:10-13

 

Do not judge, so that you may not be judged. For with the judgement you make, you will be judged, and the measure you give will be the measure you get. - Matthew 7:1-3

 

Or how can you say to your brother, 'Brother, let me take out the speck that is in your eye,' when you yourself do not see the log that is in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take out the speck that is in your brother's eye. - Luke 6:42

 

 

But of course, you're the TRUE Christian, here. I'm sure you know better than any of us what Jesus actually meant in his teachings, as you seem to think you know us better than we know ourselves.

 

So yeah, go ahead and cast your stones. Pick some really big ones! Hurl those fukkers willy nilly and make people know that your judgement is sound and just! "The path of the righteous man is beset on all sides by the inequities of the selfish and the tyranny of evil men. Blessed is TJ who, in the name of charity and good will, shepherds the weak through the valley of the darkness. For TJ is truly his brother's keeper and the finder of lost children. And TJ will strike down upon thee with great vengeance and furious anger those who attempt to poison and destroy TJ's brothers. And you will know TJ is the Lord when he lays his vengeance upon thee."

 

Yeah. Good for fukking you.

[Ahhlee]

Hey TJ...rather than blaming my dislike for you on eddo, or Obama, or the liberals, or my fat, or irresponsible vaginas the world over, or global warming, or Taylor Swift, or whichever scape goat suits your fancy this week, why don't you just ask why I dislike you?

 

Don't assume. Just ask.

 

Go ahead.

 

Ask.

 

I dare you.

[timesjoke]

Do not judge, so that you may not be judged. For with the judgement you make, you will be judged, and the measure you give will be the measure you get. - Matthew 7:1-3

 

 

Exactly, so if you judge someone based on how nasty they are in attacking my family for example, I must also be willing to be judged on my own actions to attack someone's family. The meaning is to live what you preach......I do exactly that. That is not to say I am always perfect, I am human after all, but I do not go out of my way to be nasty or hurtful.....you do.

 

 

 

Ali, I am sure your reasons are complex, but the biggest reason you dislike me so much is I do not cower down to you. The biggest reason you and MrsK "patched" your relationship is because she finally gave up and let you dominate her. You do not have a single 'friend' who will stand up to you when your acting like an azz......not one.

 

 

That is not to say your all bad though as you try to make me sound.

 

Your like the abusive husband, you act very poorly and once you have dominated someone, you "make up for it" with gifts, pretty words and lots of attention. But let that person dare to step out of line again, and they will see the abuse again.

 

 

Your a control freak, and I can't be controlled, don't feel bad though, many people before you thought they could control me, and also failed miserably, your feelings of frustration are shared by many, lol.

 

 

Have a nice day

 

[Guest Hey TJ]

You are the epitomy of abusive husbands.. wives.. boyfriends.. girlfriends.. moms.. dads.. bosses.. control freaks and bullies the world over.. you fool no one here.. Shut the f ck up and move on to your next conquest far from here.. It's getting old.. fukking hypocrite..

 

 

 

or else..

[Guest Hey TJ]

Have a nice day

 

[hugo]

Last I checked I still have a vagina. I may be creepy, but I'm not a dude.

 

 

 

That is good enough for me.

[Ahhlee]

Hey TJ...rather than blaming my dislike for you on eddo, or Obama, or the liberals, or my fat, or irresponsible vaginas the world over, or global warming, or Taylor Swift, or whichever scape goat suits your fancy this week, why don't you just ask why I dislike you?

 

Don't assume. Just ask.

 

Go ahead.

 

Ask.

 

I dare you.

 

Ali, I am sure your reasons are complex, but the biggest reason you dislike me so much is I do not cower down to you.

 

 

LMFAO!!!!!!!!! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!

 

Sure TJ. You can't even ask because you already think you know it all. Ok.

 

 

The biggest reason you and MrsK "patched" your relationship is because she finally gave up and let you dominate her.

 

Completely false. Again, you don't know what the fuk you're talking about yet you'll yammer on about it anyways.

 

 

You do not have a single 'friend' who will stand up to you when your acting like an azz......not one.

 

Really? Wrong again.

 

 

Your like the abusive husband, you act very poorly and once you have dominated someone, you "make up for it" with gifts, pretty words and lots of attention. But let that person dare to step out of line again, and they will see the abuse again.

 

 

Your a control freak, and I can't be controlled, don't feel bad though, many people before you thought they could control me, and also failed miserably, your feelings of frustration are shared by many, lol.

 

Projecting.

 

 

Have a nice day

 

 

Knowing you aren't as big of a smarty pants as you like to THINK you are, I WILL! Thanks!

[Ahhlee]

That is good enough for me.

 

That's why I love hugo. He may be a drunk, cranky, filthy rich old bugger but he still appreciates the simple things in life.

 

God bless you, hugo!!!!

[timesjoke]

LMFAO!!!!!!!!! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!

 

Sure TJ. You can't even ask because you already think you know it all. Ok.

 

Does it really matter?

 

To me the results are all that really matter, not what excuse you will offer for your bad behavior this week.

 

 

 

Completely false. Again, you don't know what the fuk you're talking about yet you'll yammer on about it anyways.

 

Like you believing eddo was not capable of posting all bad things about me Ali?

 

That was also the truth but you refuse to allow yourself to see that truth.

 

With MrsK, you gave her crap until you broke her, everyone knows it to be true, where do you think I learned about it? I was gone from the jungle when you guys stopped fighting, someone had to tell me, just like somone filled me in on many of your details and even the specifics on the husband you were so critical of with her.

 

 

I know more than you think I know.

 

 

 

Really? Wrong again.

 

You don't Ali, even in your real world life there is not one person you will let be around you that is not dominated by you.

 

 

 

Projecting.

 

This entire thread is you projecting on me Ali.

 

I don't see a need for flame threads, you do. I don't attack peopls's families, you do. I don't attack people in personal ways just because I am angry, you do. Everything you have tried to paint me with is actually describing yourself.

 

 

 

Knowing you aren't as big of a smarty pants as you like to THINK you are, I WILL! Thanks!

 

You have not had a good day your entire life Ali.

 

Sure you put on a good face but your a miserable person. You strike out at me and the many people before me because your a mess inside. I am just the flavor of the week with you, many other people have endured your wrath and many more in the furture will do so as well because you always need someone to be attacking to help you feel better about yourself.

[Guest Morning sunshine..]

Lewis.. relentlessly repeating and projecting your Own Private Idaho on others will never make it true.

 

 

 

Have a delusional day

 

[Guest Baby Jesus]

Hey Lewis...

 

 

Do not Judge

 

 

What part of that don't you understand?

 

 

ps.. shut the f ck up and quit twisting my words.

[Guest weez]

Hey Lewis...

 

 

Boo!

 

 

Run and hide... tough guy... I'm sure you can find some women and children to take it out on..

[Ahhlee]

Does it really matter?

 

 

Actually, it did. But you refuse to listen to what I have to say, so...whatever. Keep assuming you know everything I feel. You will anyway.

 

 

Like you believing eddo was not capable of posting all bad things about me Ali?

 

That was also the truth but you refuse to allow yourself to see that truth.

 

 

Rhetoric. Boring.

 

 

With MrsK, you gave her crap until you broke her, everyone knows it to be true, where do you think I learned about it? I was gone from the jungle when you guys stopped fighting, someone had to tell me, just like somone filled me in on many of your details and even the specifics on the husband you were so critical of with her.

 

 

That's the undisputed universal truth, huh? I wonder how MrsK views it? Hmmm.

 

"Someone had to tell me"...lol! That one always cracks me up. Funny how such an omnipotent being as yourself needs to bring up his "hundreds of supportive PMS" and extensive network of super secret informants to back his sh!t up.

 

Ehh...whatever it takes to make you feel justified, big guy. Knock yourself out.

 

 

I know more than you think I know.[/Quote]

 

 

Yes, yes. I'm sure you do. It's not like you don't shove your vast personal knowledge of anything and everything down our throats EVERY BLOODY DAY!

 

 

 

You don't Ali, even in your real world life there is not one person you will let be around you that is not dominated by you.

 

 

Now you assume to know my real life. Your arrogance really is boundless, isn't it? LOL! Okey dokey!

 

 

This entire thread is you projecting on me Ali.

 

 

Okay!

 

 

I don't see a need for flame threads, you do. I don't attack peopls's families, you do. I don't attack people in personal ways just because I am angry, you do. Everything you have tried to paint me with is actually describing yourself.

 

 

You're easily one of the biggest flamers here, TJ. You just don't own up to it....excuse machine!!!!

 

 

You have not had a good day your entire life Ali.

 

Sure you put on a good face but your a miserable person. You strike out at me and the many people before me because your a mess inside. I am just the flavor of the week with you, many other people have endured your wrath and many more in the furture will do so as well because you always need someone to be attacking to help you feel better about yourself.

 

 

Oh absolutely! I bend multitudes to my will by the hour! I'm one evil, rotten, miserable bitch.

 

You would know, right? I mean....you know everything. So I guess there's no point in us having a discussion ever again, since you already know everything there possibly is to know about me, therefore there's absolutely no room for growth. We've hit a dead end.

 

I see no need to continue with you here. Besides, you're boring and I've found a shiny new toy to play with.

 

See ya!

 

Oh, and have a GREAT fukking day.

[timesjoke]

Actually, it did. But you refuse to listen to what I have to say, so...whatever. Keep assuming you know everything I feel. You will anyway.

 

Your every post is your chance to say what you have to say Ali. Why is this other tidbit any different than anything else you have ever posted?

 

To me it does not matter why you act poorly, it is all just excuses for your bad bahavior, nothing else.

 

 

 

 

Rhetoric. Boring.

 

No, it is the truth, but you do not care about the truth.

 

 

 

 

That's the undisputed universal truth, huh? I wonder how MrsK views it? Hmmm.

 

"Someone had to tell me"...lol! That one always cracks me up. Funny how such an omnipotent being as yourself needs to bring up his "hundreds of supportive PMS" and extensive network of super secret informants to back his sh!t up.

 

Ehh...whatever it takes to make you feel justified, big guy. Knock yourself out.

 

Your the one trying to justify your acting poorly Ali, not me.

 

 

 

 

Yes, yes. I'm sure you do. It's not like you don't shove your vast personal knowledge of anything and everything down our throats EVERY BLOODY DAY!

 

Like you shoving these flame threads down people's throats Ali? You famous for flamming people, long before I ever showed up in your life.

 

 

 

 

 

Now you assume to know my real life. Your arrogance really is boundless, isn't it? LOL! Okey dokey!

 

Like the abuse you had as a child? People love to talk about you Ali.

 

 

 

You're easily one of the biggest flamers here, TJ. You just don't own up to it....excuse machine!!!!

 

I tell the truth above all other things, you feel I should lie to save feelings and if I do not lie, that is the same thing as a flame in your world.

 

I do not flame is reality though, put simply it is the desperate act of a child to always turn to flames as you always do.

 

 

 

Oh absolutely! I bend multitudes to my will by the hour! I'm one evil, rotten, miserable bitch.

 

You would know, right? I mean....you know everything. So I guess there's no point in us having a discussion ever again, since you already know everything there possibly is to know about me, therefore there's absolutely no room for growth. We've hit a dead end.

 

I see no need to continue with you here. Besides, you're boring and I've found a shiny new toy to play with.

 

See ya!

 

Your only a nasty person when you or one of your friends feel threatened or is embarrassed in some way, but your always miserable, that is why you try to over compensate your E-friendships and why you didn't have the ability to control your eating.

 

 

 

Oh, and have a GREAT fukking day.

 

Always do, thanks

[eddo]

No, it is the truth, but you do not care about the truth.

 

please refer to this.

 

This time read it and try to understand it, ok?

[timesjoke]

please refer to this.

 

This time read it and try to understand it, ok?

 

 

Read it, understood it, responded to all of it already, please try to keep up.

 

You and Ali do this back and forth all the time, it is a practiced process you have rehersed with several other people long before you ever heard of me eddo. One is in trouble, the other steps in to run interference.

 

 

 

 

 

The point is how nasty you two can be to people, you both go on and on about how you feel justified to act so bad sure, but that is as far as the two of you ever go, you never try to look at yourself and ask why you look for excuses to flame people and lie about them to try and hurt them.

 

 

Why would you ever "want" to hurt me or anyone else eddo? That desire to harm is a failing inside yourself eddo, I can't force you to feel this way, I am not Mangiafuoco.

[eddo]

Read it, understood it, responded to all of it already, please try to keep up.

 

I saw you reply, but yet again I think you fail to understand it.

 

in a nutshell:

Just because you think something is one way, or "truth," does not mean that it is that way to everyone else. Your version of "truth" is very subjective.

 

 

Why would you ever "want" to hurt me or anyone else eddo? That desire to harm is a failing inside yourself eddo, I can't force you to feel this way, I am not Mangiafuoco.

 

based solely on your last response to (read: attack on) Ali, you have this same internal failing. But somehow I doubt you will see it that way.

 

 

you haven't before...

 

I'd ask if you want to start a support group for us, but you gotta deal with step 1 first...

[timesjoke]

I saw you reply, but yet again I think you fail to understand it.

 

in a nutshell:

Just because you think something is one way, or "truth," does not mean that it is that way to everyone else. Your version of "truth" is very subjective.

 

As is yours.

 

Just because many do not agree with me, that does not make me wrong either, take those who believed the Earth was flat for example.

 

 

 

based solely on your last response to (read: attack on) Ali, you have this same internal failing. But somehow I doubt you will see it that way.

 

 

you haven't before...

 

I'd ask if you want to start a support group for us, but you gotta deal with step 1 first...

 

Interesting you see what I said as an attack, but it is perfectly fine in your mind to attack my family or even attack me on things that have nothing to do with the discussions we are having.

 

If I do "return" a flame made on me, then the solution is an easy one, don't jump in the mud and then complain when you get dirty eddo.

 

Seriously, you both attack me hundreds of ways but you have the balls to complain if I return one? That is not what I was doing anyway, but even if it was, why are you complaining?

[eddo]

those who believed the Earth was flat for example.

 

you. are. dense.

 

Seriously, you both attack me hundreds of ways but you have the balls to complain if I return one?

 

Who's complaining that you get involved in the attacks? Many, many of us are guilty of it- INCLUDING YOU. Part of the issue here is that you attack, and then pretend that you don't attack.

 

You, too, are a master of the flame. So quit acting like you're not.

 

You are also a master of the chicken-sh!t excuses:

"I'm not gonna post a pic, cause you will be mean."

"I've got lots of friends that pm me in secret, but I won't tell you who they are and they won't get involved in any way publicly."

"I have my own board that I want to give you the members to, but not if you aren't gonna do things my way."

"My friends, who aren't members here and won't come here to verify anything I say, say you need professional help."

 

 

 

That is not what I was doing anyway, but even if it was, why are you complaining?

again:

 

you. are. dense.

 

 

own your sh!t man. own it. You just about had it there, claiming that you attacked, but then you pussed out and backpedaled faster than Joe Wilson. own it. admit you do it too.

 

Then maybe we can get that support group going.