Another cause of insurance increases.

[timesjoke]

Story and comment deleted per request by emkay.

 

 

Yes, I can see that some might think this was done to intentionally take a shot at someone, but that was not my intention. I saw it on one of my other boards and it fit perfectly with the many stories of why our healthcare costs and insurance costs keep exploding out of control.

 

 

In the spirit of trying to keep the peace, I will drop this story.........but I do not feel it is right that I have to tip toe around to avoid hurting someone's feelings when nobody ever shows me the same consideration..........but then again, who ever said the world was fair, lol.

[emkay64]

TJ--seriously...why would you post this? You claim you don't enjoy fighting, but you've deliberately searched this out hoping for a reaction that I have no doubt you'll get.

[timesjoke]

TJ--seriously...why would you post this? You claim you don't enjoy fighting, but you've deliberately searched this out hoping for a reaction that I have no doubt you'll get.

 

Actually no, this story was posted on one of my other boards and I thought it was interesting being as we have been discussing the "real" reasons healthcare costs are so high, I will pm you with a link to the other site to prove it.

[emkay64]

No need for proof.

[timesjoke]

No need for proof.

 

Obviously it is, you just made an assumption of evil intent to my actions that is not right, this is how this stuff gets out of hand, first you then someone else jumps on the bandwagon and before you know it I have been branded with something that is not true.

[emkay64]

It took balls for TJ to take this post down, and I commend him for seeing the integrity in removing it.

[Ahhlee]

Oh gee.....let me guess?

 

Ehhh, go ahead and post it. I don't care. I know it's yet another side jab at my expense but we should all be used to that by now.

 

Go ahead and discuss it. Everyone is entitled to their opinions.

 

But thank you for the consideration, emkay. You are indeed a good friend.

[Ahhlee]

There's really no point in attempting to "keep the peace" between us, jackass. We're way, way, WAY too far gone for that bullsh!t.

 

All I asked was for it to be kept off the main board out of consideration for the other members. Simple request, really.

 

Too much to ask, I assume?

[emkay64]

It wasn't his intent to be mean. I blew it outta proportion and wanted it removed...consider it over.

[Ahhlee]

It wasn't his intent to be mean. I blew it outta proportion and wanted it removed...consider it over.

 

Anything for you, toots. Over it is.

[timesjoke]

It wasn't his intent to be mean. I blew it outta proportion and wanted it removed...consider it over.

 

See my point, I could post the sky is blue and someone would assign an evil intent to my words that is not there.

 

Notice how I get called hurtful and ugly names even when I am trying to do the right thing?

[wez]

See my point, I could post the sky is blue and someone would assign an evil intent to my words that is not there.

 

Notice how I get called hurtful and ugly names even when I am trying to do the right thing?

 

I love how abusers set themselves up to be victims.. let the good times roll..

 

Why is it you think you want people to feel sorry for you all the time TJ?

 

 

Rationalization or excuses — The abuser rationalizes what he's done. He may come up with a string of excuses or blame the victim for his own abusive behavior—anything to shift responsibility from himself.

 

You are dealing with a totally delusional human being, who builds his own fantasies about his reality and believes his own pathological lies. How can you possibly hope to have a healthy relationship with someone who bases his whole existence on deceit? IMPOSSIBLE! And don't kid yourself - They know exactly what they are doing - They prey, victimize, and devastate.

 

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