G spot

[snafu]

I love going down on a women. It drives me nuts seeing them squirm.

[mercury]

hmmm... could just be that she was so close, engorged and all that.

 

I know there are times that I can't stand to be touched (in any way, but especially in certain areas) because I tend to be very sensitive and it totally overwhelms all of my senses. And it's not a "fun" squirm... it's like total torture.

[timesjoke]

I have also known women who you could offer too much stimulation.

 

I have found alternating the type/degree/intensity of stimulation can help get them "over the mountain" than just going full steam ahead.

 

Even blowing/light finger touching on the area can offer a light stimulation but let her smooth out or just stop and pay attention to other areas she enjoys being stimulated and then when you go back to direct stimulation of the area a little later she can pop.

 

 

 

I have had many women tell me the worse thing a guy can do is just 'go crazy' on it, pay attention to her actions and if she is not the type to tell you how your doing verbally, then you have to try and figure out what her body is telling you, yes this can be difficult until you get to know each other well in bed. Some people may never really know their partner in bed unfortunately.

 

 

Women, tell you men how we are doing, I know sometimes it is hard for women to even speak and if that means your guy is doing well then cool, but if he is not doing what you want or need then you have to figure out how to tell him.

 

 

We have ears, use those ears to stear us around. Maybe talk to your man ahead of time and come up with some signals if talking is not your thing.

 

 

 

Communication really is the key.

 

 

Yes, a few men might get hurt feelings if you make him feel like an idiot, but I would like to believe that most of us men want to make you ladies happy, but as with other things, we need the woman to give us some hints, and even wack us over the head sometimes to get let us know what we need to do.

[atlantic]

What does it mean when the girl gets extremely ticklish while going down on her and she can't take it anymore? I think she would get really close to an orgasm but never could get to it.

You need to shave

[snafu]

you need to shave

 

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Lmao!

[Ahhlee]

So I was trying to find some "pointers" for merc and read a few articles (none that had any information other than what I'm sure we've all heard before). However, I did come across one article in askmen.com that described how it takes a lot of effort and practice to help a woman achieve an orgasm via the G-spot, then he followed that thought with the following sentence:

 

"And usually, it's her own mental block that keeps her from reaching orgasm -- it's not you. "

 

WTF?

 

Uhhhhh....no, guys. A lot of times, it's DEFINITELY you.

[timesjoke]

I was watching a comedian on HBO and something he said seems to fit this discussion well:

 

 

"I have made women climax before, so don't look at me, your vagina must be broken".......

 

 

 

[ame=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bBO9r2-kn8Y]YouTube- FEMALE G-SPOT ORGAMS AND SQUIRTING ORGASM A HOW TO[/ame]

[emkay64]

^^^^^Nice "kitchen gloves" lol.

[Old Salt]

So I was trying to find some "pointers" for merc and read a few articles (none that had any information other than what I'm sure we've all heard before). However, I did come across one article in askmen.com that described how it takes a lot of effort and practice to help a woman achieve an orgasm via the G-spot, then he followed that thought with the following sentence:

 

"And usually, it's her own mental block that keeps her from reaching orgasm -- it's not you. "

 

WTF?

 

Uhhhhh....no, guys. A lot of times, it's DEFINITELY you.

Sexist !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[emkay64]

So I was trying to find some "pointers" for merc and read a few articles (none that had any information other than what I'm sure we've all heard before). However, I did come across one article in askmen.com that described how it takes a lot of effort and practice to help a woman achieve an orgasm via the G-spot, then he followed that thought with the following sentence:

 

"And usually, it's her own mental block that keeps her from reaching orgasm -- it's not you. "

 

WTF?

 

Uhhhhh....no, guys. A lot of times, it's DEFINITELY you.

 

Definitely can be both people lol. I can see this though....sometimes us wimmins have such low self-esteem we spend so much time worrying about what he thinks that we sacrifice our own orgasm. It's far better to just relax, and shut your head off. We think too much.

 

Also..the guy could be just a completely lousy lay and painfully inept at finding the joy buzzer. Just depends.

[timesjoke]

Now, there was a time,

when they used to say,

that behind ev'ry great man,

there had to be a great woman.

But oh, in these times of change,

you know that it's no longer true.

So we're comin' out of the kitchen,

'cause there's something we forgot to say to you.

We say, Sisters are doin' it for themselves

[Ahhlee]

Definitely can be both people lol. I can see this though....sometimes us wimmins have such low self-esteem we spend so much time worrying about what he thinks that we sacrifice our own orgasm. It's far better to just relax, and shut your head off. We think too much.

 

Also..the guy could be just a completely lousy lay and painfully inept at finding the joy buzzer. Just depends.

 

Absolutely. It can be both people. That's why communication is so important...and being open to communication is important, too.