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This isn't a general debate inasmuch as it is a personal question. So, are you the type who can separate sex from love? Can you have sex with someone just because they are "hot" or do you have to share a personal connection with your partner before giving your body to him or her?
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In my opinion, there has to be a personal connection.. At least on some level..

 

Sure people fantasize about having hot, nasty, sweaty sex on a whim.. And I am sure, that there are infact people out there, that do actually act that fantasy out.. But they would be whores..lol.. I am joking, I dont know.. Why the fuck did you send me this link?

 

This is all over that wacking your beaver comment isn't it?? Just do it and get it over with already.. You'll feel better..

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Why the fuck did you send me this link?

 

I sent you the fucking link because you asked me what post I was working on. And because I am stalking you, but that is neither here nor there.

 

This is all over that wacking your beaver comment isn't it?? Just do it and get it over with already.. You'll feel better..

 

I already told you on yahoo I got that out of the way this morning.

 

I was just thinking about the people who can jump into the sack with just any old thing. If my heart isn't into it, I'm as frigid as a nun.

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If my heart isn't into it, I'm as frigid as a nun.

 

Yeah that is what you'd like us all to believe..

 

And for the record, you are by far, my favorite stalker..lol

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A fuck is a fuck, making love is making love. Two completely different things but both nonetheless enjoyable for what they are.

 

Outside of a relationship I have had sex just for the sake of sex, once in a relationship though I never look anywhere else. If I needed to look then I wouldn't be in a relationship worth shit.

Dementia is just a state of mind.
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It's nice to be loved. Even if it's in a lesbian way. :p

 

With the trend going on, this does not surprise me.

"I wish I was in Tijuana, eating barbecued iguana." - Wall of Voodoo

 

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Oh hush. :p Kath and I go way back. Men just WANT all hot women to be lesbians. Well, "open" lesbians. ;)

 

Lesbians are not really anything special. Most of them are fake and do it for attention.

"I wish I was in Tijuana, eating barbecued iguana." - Wall of Voodoo

 

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hmmm, so now I am a lesbian? Well that should definately make my husbands day..
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Sex is a cheap commodity. A fuck can be had on any night of the year. Not rocket science. Not emotional, just a fuck.

 

A deeper connection? Well, that's just harder to find.

The dick has no conscience and the heart has no rational abilities.

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Sex is a cheap commodity. A fuck can be had on any night of the year. Not rocket science. Not emotional, just a fuck.

 

You're lucky. I've just never been able to pull off having mindless sex. Heck, I couldn't even kiss a guy if it just wasn't "there" for me. Must be my prudish puritan-like values. lol

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hmmm, so now I am a lesbian? Well that should definately make my husbands day..

 

 

What? Your husband would like to see you get naked and do it with another girl? That’s just plain sick.

 

Where’s his head?

Watchin you two rubbin all up in on each other. You wildly humping her leg while she dips down and lightly tickles your savory slice of life with her tongue? Taking that tender index finger of yours and exploring for her magic spot.

 

That sick bastard!

 

Watching as you two tangle up into a sweaty ball of women flesh humping and bumping humping and, and……brb

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What? Your husband would like to see you get naked and do it with another girl? That
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This is all over that wacking your beaver comment isn't it?? Just do it and get it over with already.. You'll feel better..

I already told you on yahoo I got that out of the way this morning.

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You're lucky. I've just never been able to pull off having mindless sex. Heck, I couldn't even kiss a guy if it just wasn't "there" for me. Must be my prudish puritan-like values. lol

 

I didn't say I am like that now. And actually, kissing is far more intimate to me and if they guy can't kiss right, then the rest isn't happening.

The dick has no conscience and the heart has no rational abilities.

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Men are better at this than women; and only a very small percentage of women can do it, I'm not one of them, I prefer to be in love with the person, although I've been guilty of giving some ugly oompa loompa looking creature a courtesy fuck once.
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I think I can look at any given female with a pretty face and a nice body and think to myself that they are hot, and that I would fuck them, but in all reality, I'm a shy person, and if I was to actually sleep with someone, I need to get to know them first.

 

Meaning, I would need to develop a bit of a relationship with them before having sex.

 

Casual sex has never been my style, for me it's more mental then physical. So ultimately, how they look isn't really much important at all.

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I can separate it very easily of course. But in order for me to actually have sex with a girl, I would have to AT LEAST be good friends with her. I am not a big fan of one night stands or whores. I prefer sex in a relationship but if a good friend really wants some, I will take the opportunity. IMO, people who get too attached shouldn't be having sex until they can take care of their insecurities. Then they will go around blaming the person who fucked them when in fact the person complaining couldn't control their own horomones.

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Who said I wanted you to be lesbians, and who said either of you were hot for that matter?:D

 

Point taken! LOL! It really was more of a general statement though.

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I don't' like to admit it but yes I can.

During my bar hopping years I knew this bar fly. If we saw each other at a bar, we would talk for a bit and then agree to hook up if both of us struck out that night.

And then another time this girl I've known like forever and I kinda dated for a few months. I think it was out of desperation for both of us at the time. We were and always will be just good friends.

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