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I don't' like to admit it but yes I can.

During my bar hopping years I knew this bar fly. If we saw each other at a bar, we would talk for a bit and then agree to hook up if both of us struck out that night.

And then another time this girl I've known like forever and I kinda dated for a few months. I think it was out of desperation for both of us at the time. We were and always will be just good friends.

 

 

DAMMIT!!! Snaf, you swore you'd never tell.. :D

I want a sensitive man - one who'll cry when I hit him.
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DAMMIT!!! Snaf, you swore you'd never tell.. :D

Hmm.... strike my last post. Never happened.:rolleyes:

"You can't stop insane people from doing insane things by passing insane laws. That's just insane!" Penn & Teller

 

NEVER FORGOTTEN

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During my bar hopping years I knew this bar fly. If we saw each other at a bar, we would talk for a bit and then agree to hook up if both of us struck out that night.

 

That is hysterical, Snaf. One of my gay buds and I agreed to marry if we were both single by the age of 40.

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I've been thinking over this since first reading this thread.

I have never had a one night stand so I don't think I can. I have always been involved to a certain degree with the men I have chosen too sleep with.

I also don't really have a desire (nor have I in the past) to have casual sex. Given the posible reprecussions such as pregnancy, sexual transmitted disease, it hardly makes sense.

I am a pathetic piece of shit leeching single mom.
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If I don't like 'em as a person I don't even find them that attractive. I truly feel there is a distinction between 'hot' and 'attractive'. A hot girl can be incredably unattractive, and somebody who at first seems a tad homely can be very attractive given there personality is there.

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"It's a poor sort of memory that only works backwards" -Lewis Carroll

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For me...

 

-A one night stand only works if you know little of the persons personality...I cant sleep with someone who will annoy the the crap out of me...

 

-I did the entire "whore" thing for about a year and a half and slept with anyone with a third leg.....it got very tiresome because the entire time i did it i was actually just looking for "love"...

 

-now..i have a hard time even dating someone because very small flaws annoy me

 

-Separating love and sex is quite easy....but you have to be in such a frame of mind to give in to your inner horny-ness....if your looking for more than a good time then a one night stand really defeats the purpose...

 

-over all its just trying to find that one special someone who you can love, trust, and not have those qualities that will drive you craze 6 months down the road (plus).......and judging from what i have seen.....you would have better luck trying to impeach bush than find that person!!

 

good luck everyone...cuz im still looking....and my bed has been dry for far too long (something like 3 years)

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-I don't know about you...but I am SICK and tired of being nice and understanding!!!

-The Liver is evil and must be punished!

-The Early bird gets the worm, but the second mouse gets the cheese.

How can your opinion be the correct one....if, infact, its only an opinion?!?!

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i guess im trying to make sex an expression of love and keep it like that. however, im a virgin ... soo .... i really dont have a clue what its all like in reality. i'd like to think (and im waiting for) a connection of personalities is whats needed rather than a connection made based on face/body value/attraction.

 

to me sex is special and sacred, something to be shared between two people with a love for one another and a mutual respect.

 

with, of course, a bit of passion flung in.

 

but like i say .. im a virgin, so its all a bit idealised ... incase you didn't pick up on that

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I have always been involved to a certain degree with the men I have chosen too sleep with.

 

What is a degree of involvment to you? Where you in love? If not then I thinnk that's what the question was.

"You can't stop insane people from doing insane things by passing insane laws. That's just insane!" Penn & Teller

 

NEVER FORGOTTEN

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What is a degree of involvment to you? Where you in love? If not then I thinnk that's what the question was.

 

I have always been in an exclusive dating relationship with the person I have slept with. There is a BIG difference in casual sex and someone having sex with someone they are involved in an exclusive dating relationship with.

I am a pathetic piece of shit leeching single mom.
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I have always been in an exclusive dating relationship with the person I have slept with. There is a BIG difference in casual sex and someone having sex with someone they are involved in an exclusive dating relationship with.

If i come down to orlando we can have some hot sweaty sex and find the answer to the question.

"This place may be bombed and we will be killed.

We love death. The US loves life.

That is the big difference between us."

 

Osama Bin Laden. nov. 2001

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Am I capable of seperating love and sex?

 

Answer: Yes.

 

I've never had a problem making the distinction.

 

That being said, I'm in no way a whore, ok... well maybe a little bit of a whore... I like to enjoy myself, who doesn't. :D

 

I've had sex with people I didn't love... I've had sex with people that i knew I could never love... but I've also had sex with people that I did love... It adds something to the experience to make love to someone. :)

Intelligent people think...

how ignorance must be bliss....

idiots have it so easy, it's not fair...

to have to think...

WHAT IT WOULD BE LIKE TO BE AMONG THOSE FORTUNATE MASSES..... :cool:

 

Hey, "Non-believers" I've just got one thing to say to ya... If you're right, then what difference does it make, it wont matter when we're dead anyway... But if I'm right... Well, hey... Ya better be right...

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If i come down to orlando we can have some hot sweaty sex and find the answer to the question.

 

You are a sick sick person that I am bizarrely fascinated with...

I know that I will probably regret clicking on the links you leave in your threads but that doesn't stop me, sort of like rubber necking at an accident.

 

As far as the sweaty sex...let me think about it...I'll get back to you.

I am a pathetic piece of shit leeching single mom.
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You are a sick sick person that I am bizarrely fascinated with...

I know that I will probably regret clicking on the links you leave in your threads but that doesn't, sort of like rubber necking at an accident.

 

As far as the sweaty sex...let me think about it...I'll get back to you.

LOL!! Everyone would be very suprised at what i am really like.

 

Did you click my newest link in spam? It is not sick but it is funny!

"This place may be bombed and we will be killed.

We love death. The US loves life.

That is the big difference between us."

 

Osama Bin Laden. nov. 2001

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Jesus, where did you get that pic from Lethal? That is disgusting..

 

It's either a concentration camp victim or a Hollywood starlet.

The power to do good is also the power to do harm. - Milton Friedman

 

 

"I cannot undertake to lay my finger on that article of the Constitution which granted a right to Congress of expending, on objects of benevolence, the money of their constituents." - James Madison

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Look at the sun glasses on Nicole Ritchie's face.. Don't they just swallow her right up? She is digusting..
I want a sensitive man - one who'll cry when I hit him.
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You know if you weren't a mod you'd be idiot boxed by Preak for posting that big of a pic in a thread.

 

Okay, so you're now the socialist adviser of GF. :p

Persevere,

it pisses people off.

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