The over dramatic friend in crisis!

[phreakwars]

Gotony, are you friends with Tell It Like It Is? You two seem to know each other from somewhere.

They're both from the same town as I am, and I know them both personally, does that give you a hint ??

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[gotony]

Yes, we do know each other..and i know the friend that she was bitching about in the beginning...The friend i was bitching about is a different one.

 

Wow...lots of bitching going on for a small town...oh well!!

 

Like i said Phantom, wish i was as strong as you to tell the one i was referring to, to fuck off...but what can i say, i am a softy i guess.

[tellitlikeitis]

They're both from the same town as I am, and I know them both personally, does that give you a hint ??

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Not that personally, ha ha

[phreakwars]

Not that personally, ha ha

Bitch, you STILL owe me $10.

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[Phantom]

People call you Phanny in real life?

 

No, but if I had typed, "OMG Gerdie!!!..." It wouldn't have made sense since not many people here know my real name is Gertrude.

 

They're both from the same town as I am, and I know them both personally, does that give you a hint ??

 

Not really. But I'll assume the three of you know each other.

[tellitlikeitis]

Bitch, you STILL owe me $10.

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Cry me a river! Maybe the next time I order Gambino's I'll actually tip you, lol!

[builder]

This is getting rather incestuous, you hillbillys.

[kokorosenshi]

I'm sure you can all agree that there has to be one of these in every group of friends. The one that has a new crisis every fucking week. The one who bawls on your shoulder over everything and expects you to drop everything to comfort them. But yet when you have a problem where the hell are they? No where to be found that's for damn sure. I don't want to sound insensitive towards my friends problem so please don't get me wrong. The doctor found some precancerous cells in her cervix. So she goes in today to have them scraped out. Ok so yes it sucks but at least it's not full blown cancer. Or even worse AIDS or something that can't be cured. She's been bawling and whinning and bitching about her recent "problem" for almost two weeks now. She's burning all of her friends out. She acts like she's dying for fucks sake. Now she has the bright idea to get a few new credit cards. (New being the key word here since she already has enough debt.) She wants to charge a vaca for her n her two kids on them. FUCKING RETARD. All that's going to do is give you more debt and for what? For a vaca that her kids won't even rem. She even called me hysterical last night to go comfort her when she knew damn well my hubby had just had all his upper teeth removed that morning. We have two kids ourselves my plate was damn full and I've been there for her for the last two weeks already. Plus she had already imposed herself on one of our other friends who was at home w/ a really sick kid of her own. Are my friends and I being to insensitive to her? What do you think?

 

 

hmm, im not sure if i've been that person once or twice, nonetheless, ive tried helping my friends and other people. there is a friend of mine that i would run to when ever i had a computer problem back when i was a noob. but with time i learned to deal with my own problems. but its not like i didnt help him, some people would ask me to fix their computer, sometimes i could and i wouldn't charge (its relaxing for me to fix a computer or some electrical/mechanical device), but the times i couldn't fix a computer, i would ask him to do it, in return, he got paid for it. were still friends though, and the fucker is fucking smart, but ive moved across town and had to deal with my own problems in general. every once in a while i would ask for advice online.

 

sometimes the situation is reversed where my friends ask me for help (mainly in class) but theres hardly anyone at all for me to ask for help. i had to learn to rely on my own fucking brain. but anyone that does help me, i try to repay the favor.

 

as for your friend their, sometimes helping a person would only make things worse, let them hit rock bottom till blood comes out and learn the hard way to rely on their own got-damn-self. i dont know if you think thats "mean" but thats the only way SOME people learn.

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Thanks for the input from the intellectual elite, koko.

[tellitlikeitis]

hmm, im not sure if i've been that person once or twice, nonetheless, ive tried helping my friends and other people. there is a friend of mine that i would run to when ever i had a computer problem back when i was a noob. but with time i learned to deal with my own problems. but its not like i didnt help him, some people would ask me to fix their computer, sometimes i could and i wouldn't charge (its relaxing for me to fix a computer or some electrical/mechanical device), but the times i couldn't fix a computer, i would ask him to do it, in return, he got paid for it. were still friends though, and the fucker is fucking smart, but ive moved across town and had to deal with my own problems in general. every once in a while i would ask for advice online.

 

sometimes the situation is reversed where my friends ask me for help (mainly in class) but theres hardly anyone at all for me to ask for help. i had to learn to rely on my own fucking brain. but anyone that does help me, i try to repay the favor.

 

as for your friend their, sometimes helping a person would only make things worse, let them hit rock bottom till blood comes out and learn the hard way to rely on their own got-damn-self. i dont know if you think thats "mean" but thats the only way SOME people learn.

 

That was kind of my point. We are ALWAYS there for her. We've changed plans or ditched on our husbands just to "be there" for her. But when it came time for us she had none. When she's in a relationship we rarely see her (b/c she tends to be only w/ her new man and his group). One night we went to dinner and she only asked b/c her boyfriend had dumped her again. Anyways she's blabbing on and on about herself as usual for about 10 min. and then she stops looks at me and says oh well enough about me how are you doing? I swear to you I didn't even finish my sentence when she cut me off and started right back into her whinning. So yes me and the rest of my friends are ready to just let her hit rock hard bottom all by herself. We're done picking up the pieces for her, especially since she never puts them back together!

[kokorosenshi]

Thanks for the input from the intellectual elite, koko.

 

im not sure how to take that (dont ask, ive had an unstable week, best in months)

 

That was kind of my point. We are ALWAYS there for her. We've changed plans or ditched on our husbands just to "be there" for her. But when it came time for us she had none. When she's in a relationship we rarely see her (b/c she tends to be only w/ her new man and his group). One night we went to dinner and she only asked b/c her boyfriend had dumped her again. Anyways she's blabbing on and on about herself as usual for about 10 min. and then she stops looks at me and says oh well enough about me how are you doing? I swear to you I didn't even finish my sentence when she cut me off and started right back into her whinning. So yes me and the rest of my friends are ready to just let her hit rock hard bottom all by herself. We're done picking up the pieces for her, especially since she never puts them back together!

 

let us know how it goes