Men Who Hit Women.

[eddo]

Most men do not like to be beaten up by a violent woman, continuing smiling and doing nothing. I think, your opinion is indeed the minority.

 

and where was it my opinion to just stand there and take it when being abused by another?

 

Being spat upon is not the same as "being beaten up by a violent woman." Walking away from a violent situation is not the same as "continuing smiling and doing nothing" while getting beaten up.

[yohan]

right back at cha.

moron.

I gave you many valid arguments.

Just read back...

Your one-liners are quite brainless today, BTW.

[catboy]

What if your handicapped, and you have seizures

that make you flail and whack him/her back when

you have no control over these seizures?

 

Or bite?

 

Or scratch?

 

Or thrash?

 

Seizures do not know the difference

between male or female, if your

a boy who has seizures and its triggered

by someone hitting you, and you g o into

a seizure and flail them bloody and you

DON'T EVEN REMEMBER ANY OF IT -----

 

Then what?

 

Give up on life?

 

Stay indoors and have a nurse

take care of you for the rest of your life?

 

Never go anywhere with out a nurse

to watch and protect you?

 

Medicine does not always work and

it isn't pericect, medicine fails you sometimes.

[eddo]

Never go anywhere with out a nurse

to watch and protect you?

 

Damn straight. What if during one of your seizures, you kill a little kid that accidentally bumped into you? then what?

 

you saying "oh sorry i killed your 3 year old, I have seizures" isn't going to help little Johnnie's mom and dad feel any better.

[catboy]

No poopyface, that never happened, we are NOT

talking about little peopel or bumping into them.

 

We are talking about biug peiple whacking you

hard enough to cause a seizure.

 

You need to PAY ATTENTION to what the poster

is saying and not insert things that have nothing

to do with what I am saying.

 

If you cannot help it, if its part of your handicap,

then I apologise, we are not compatible units,

not able to understand each other, transmissions

ended here.

 

I'm talking about BIG PEPLE who whack you

and make you have a SEIZURE and flail them

when you don't remember it.

 

BIG PEPLE not little peple.

 

And we are not talking about killing,

we are talking about having seizures

that make you flial and whack someone

or bite them.

[Phantom]

Catboy. Sorry, but I cannot for one minute believe you are for real.

[eddo]

catboy, you can control your seizures enough to control who you hit and don't hit?

 

yes or no?

[catboy]

So?

 

Why are you telling me this?

 

What am I supposed to do?

[catboy]

catboy, you can control your seizures enough to control who you hit and don't hit?

 

yes or no?

 

No I can't, not when a big person whacks me

hard enough to make me black out to

where I don't rmemener NOTHING!

 

Do you know what it is like to have

things happen to you that you think

your going batzoid because some

peple including your frends and familyu

are telling you that they happend and

you don't remember squast???

[eddo]

no, I don't. But I also understand how you can be assured of not harming a child during one of your seizures.

 

 

and yohan is still a moron. Can't forget that.

[eddo]

and who the hell goes around hitting handicapped people?

 

 

is this really a problem for you?

[catboy]

and who the hell goes around hitting handicapped people?

 

 

is this really a problem for you?

 

Well this one boogernose in the grocer's did

once, I don't remember her ever doing it, I

just remember ending up in the hospital with

dad and uncle and a lawyer and dad talking

about how it all happened.

 

I was writing out a cheque and sh e said

something like hurry up and something

like we have lives and that trash and I

said I'm Handicapped!! and the next thing

I know I wake up in the hospital with dad

and uncle there and dasd telling me about

what I was acused of and what reallyuhappened.

 

We won, annsd she had to pay for the hospital

bill and everything, but I don't live on my own

anymore, I live with my brother and we get along

so well that dad said OK and brother has no

problem with it, I fix things around his house

for him when they break, its all I know how to

do anyway, I have to remember I can't live

by myself anymore all the time, just while

brother is at work, I don't go anywhere without

brother though and I never never NEVER answer

the phone or the door to strangers, and I neve

rtalk to strangers when we are out either.

[thekid65]

If the punishment fits the crime, then no one should be exempt from facing the consequences of their actions.

 

Your punishment crossed the line.

 

Ahhh. now i see your point. You actually have no problem with hitting a woman, as long as she hits you first.

[Phantom]

Spitting, although childish, crude, and trashy, is not violent. Hitting her was.

 

Was is so hard to understand?

 

Just spit back.

[thekid65]

I'm not denying it wasnt a violent act. I just shared with ya'll the one time that I hit a gal. The point I was attempting to drive home was that the double standard is bullshit, and although I may have been in the wrong when I reacted.. I do believe, that in some cases, its ok to hit a gal.

[Outlaw2747]

Shiza! I didn't think this thread would go on this long. The main point that needs to be expressed here is that whether it is spitting, pushing, punching, kicking, whatever the hell, the person(s) doing it are at risk of retaliation of some sort. I am not talking about kids by the way, that's a different subject. No one should be touching or projecting saliva period. Some of these "adults" need a reality check and realize what kind of crap they are getting into and accept any ramifications for their actions.

 

Hate to be Captain Obvious but sometimes the most obvious things have to be re-exposed.

[Termi0n]

Even Sean Connery says its ok to smack a bitch.

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3FgMLROTqJ0

[yohan]

Spitting, although childish, crude, and trashy, is not violent. Hitting her was.

Was is so hard to understand? Just spit back.

Spitting is clearly a form of violence - using abusive language, scratching, kicking and so on are also considered as violence. Such violence is often chosen by women to attack men sometimes out of no understandable reason.

 

The gender is irrelevant however, the story of hitting her is violence, but hitting him is not violence does not work.

 

If an aggressor is attacking you, it is up to you to decide IF and HOW you defend yourself in a reasonable form. This is called self-defense.

 

Generally, I see no reason, why the male victim should 'smile and walk away', as some strange people seem to suggest.

I think, it is the female aggressor, who should RUN away or should be forced to do so.

 

The argument 'spit back' sounds funny, however it is nobody's business to give orders to the male victim about his possible defense.

You cannot expect, that spitting will cause spitting in return, that hitting will cause hitting in return...

 

Thekid65: I do believe, that in some cases, its ok to hit a gal.

Yes, correct, you are right.

[RegisteredAndEducated]

Even Sean Connery says its ok to smack a bitch.

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3FgMLROTqJ0

 

Well then... I guess that just makes it ok... Sean IS however the man... and that was just disturbing...

[Phantom]

Even Sean Connery says its ok to smack a bitch.

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3FgMLROTqJ0

 

That is disgusting. Boo! Sean Connery. Boo!

 

Spitting is clearly a form of violence - using abusive language, scratching, kicking and so on are also considered as violence.

 

Spitting and language offends you so badly you would hit someone? What a sissy!

[yohan]

Spitting and language offends you so badly you would hit someone? What a sissy!

What would you do?

Yes, spitting is clearly a form of violence - using abusive language, scratching, kicking and so on are also considered as violence.

 

Just check it with your lawyer if you do not believe me.

It seems to me you need some legal advice.

 

And yes, some women deserve a good spanking....

[Outlaw2747]

Violence:

 

1. swift and intense force: the violence of a storm.

2. rough or injurious physical force, action, or treatment: to die by violence.

3. an unjust or unwarranted exertion of force or power, as against rights or laws: to take over a government by violence.

4. a violent act or proceeding.

5. rough or immoderate vehemence, as of feeling or language: the violence of his hatred.

6. damage through distortion or unwarranted alteration: to do editorial violence to a text.

 

I think spitting, yelling, pushing, punching, and the like fit this definition quite well.

[tech10171968]

I think Yohan and Outlaw have hit on something here. All this talk about Male violence toward women is fine, I agree it's wrong. But what happens when someone decides to raise a hand against a guy?

 

That's right, he gets told to "take it like a man".

 

case in point:

Spitting and language offends you so badly you would hit someone? What a sissy!

 

Okay people, say it with me; "Double Standard". Sure it's wrong to hit a woman, but should violence vs a man go unpunished? Most seem to think so. In fact, there has been a rash of male bashing in relationships lately, and I can see where it's coming from. A female has cultural norms, law, the courts, and a host of manginas protecting her "poor delicate" self. When you are confronting the world from such a protected viewpoint I guess it's easy to engage in such double-standards (because you know the world will never call you on your shit).

 

Just remember, fairness cuts both ways. You can't point out the faults of one group without acknowledging your own; otherwise you are every bit the hypocrite.

[Termi0n]

That is disgusting. Boo! Sean Connery. Boo!

 

Barbara Walters doesnt seem to have a problem with it.

 

I've lived with families whos kids who got spanked when they misbehaved and they're fine. I've also known women who got smacked when they got out of hand and they're fine and a lot happier than most women I've met who dont get a shmack when they need it. So you all obviously dont know what you're talking about and are making assumptions based on PC garbage.

[yohan]

I've lived with families whos kids who got spanked when they misbehaved and they're fine. I've also known women who got smacked when they got out of hand and they're fine and a lot happier than most women I've met who dont get a shmack when they need it. So you all obviously dont know what you're talking about and are making assumptions based on PC garbage.

I agree with TermiOn.

This is a very good and realistic explication of the overall situation in this world.

Only a narrow-minded feminist (male or female), who was never out of the US and has never seen anything else but a feminist society in his/her life might question the truth of this statement.

 

Violence does not exist solely from men against women, but women are also violent. -

The majority of child mistreatment crimes is done by women, boys are more frequently mistreated by their mothers than girls...why should this all remain unpunished or regulated by lenient sentences, because the aggressor is a woman?

 

Women are showing up in reported domestic violence against men in remarkable figures and are leading in categories I mentioned before: using abusive language, provocating with insulting remarks, throwing something, scratching, biting, spiting, kicking ...

 

Only an idiot with a masochistic background can recommend, the man should smile and walk away, if he cannot tolerate such psychotic violent behaviour anymore.

 

On the other side, should the violence start by the man by rising his voice or moving his foot too loud against a chair, it is PC-correctly recommend to call 911 and ask for a restrain order, to file for divorce, take the house and car, take at least 50 to 75 percent of all assets and ask for alimony for life - in case of problems, false rape allegations are doing the job with lawyers paid out of tax-payers money to support feminist organizations like NOW!.

 

Double standard? I think so...