Men Who Hit Women.

[eddo]

NO ONE SHOULD BE HITTING ANYONE. PERIOD.

 

best. reply. ever.

[catboy]

I don't try to hit anyone, but if someone strikes me,

be they male or female, I will have a seizure

and I have been told that I flailed and broke

a nose, or bitten someone real bad.

 

If you want to hear about the grocery store

insident, ask, but don't say I did not warn.

[Chi]

So when a woman is all pissed off she has a right to go completely nuts on him by kicking him in the balls or gouging his eyes out or punching him in the nose when he didn't cause the conflict and continue to punish him whereas a man has to sit there and "take it like a man" unless she uses a weapon?

 

Double standard. Just because a man hits a woman because she intends to do serious harm (such as what I stated above) does not give her any special privledges. NO ONE SHOULD BE HITTING ANYONE. PERIOD. If an man should do something is not not use all of his force (and causing serious injury) and let the bitch know what is up. Show her that messing with him is a BAD IDEA. If she has the "balls" to dish out hits, she better have the "balls" to take them.

 

Me personally wouldn't hit ANYONE unless provoked. But this double standard bullshit by treating women with a form of respect when they are clearly out to severely damage you is out of the question. Most of the women who attack a guy know the law and they will use it to their advantage. Damage the guy the best they can while chivalry holds him back and in most cases no matter what, he will get the blame and tossed in jail ANYWAYS.

 

They want equality? Suffer the same damn consequences for initiating an attack as a man would. Stop putting bitches on pedestals. Weaker my ass, anatomically this is true but one should learn a lesson about biting off more than they can chew in some sort of way.

Outlaw, dude, relax. I NEVER said it was okay for women to "go completely nuts on him by kicking him in the balls or gouging his eyes out or punching him in the nose" etc. I said a man is usually strong enough to restrain a woman, to prevent her from doing all of that to him, so why can't they do that instead of hitting a woman? I know when I play fight with my bf he can easily restrain me, leaving me to give up and lose because let's face it, I'm weaker. And that's that he isn't super strong, a bodybuilder or anything like that, just an average guy.

 

Not to say women don't gain super strength when pissed, but then again so do men, so they still end up with the advantage. I also don't think the law should automatically take the woman's side, it should be based on a case to case basis. Sometimes the woman is the aggressor and the one deserving to go to jail/be removed/whatever.

[Outlaw2747]

I don't try to hit anyone, but if someone strikes me,

be they male or female, I will have a seizure

and I have been told that I flailed and broke

a nose, or bitten someone real bad.

 

If you want to hear about the grocery store

insident, ask, but don't say I did not warn.

 

Let's hear it. You got my curiosity.

[tiredofwhiners]

I don't try to hit anyone, but if someone strikes me,

be they male or female, I will have a seizure

and I have been told that I flailed and broke

a nose, or bitten someone real bad.

 

If you want to hear about the grocery store

insident, ask, but don't say I did not warn.

 

Here kitty kitty kitty....one post and comes in with a bang.

[Outlaw2747]

Outlaw, dude, relax.

 

I am relaxed.

 

I NEVER said it was okay for women to "go completely nuts on him by kicking him in the balls or gouging his eyes out or punching him in the nose" etc.

 

Correct.

 

I said a man is usually strong enough to restrain a woman, to prevent her from doing all of that to him, so why can't they do that instead of hitting a woman?

 

USUALLY. Now what if that man isn't exactly stronger or is about equal to the woman's strength. Not that it would be an accurate measurement. What if the man isn't a fighter but the woman knows martial arts? Or better yet, why can't the woman NOT hit the man at all?

 

I think restraint whether it be physical or verbal is great and all but against someone that is coming at you like an enraged grizzly bear, not always going to happen. Once again I feel this is one sided. Me honestly think that some of these "ladies" need the shit smacked out of them if they try to take the first swing. But alas, the law is biased and should that happen, bye bye dude, have fun getting fucked in the ass by Big Bubba in jail.

 

I know when I play fight with my bf he can easily restrain me, leaving me to give up and lose because let's face it, I'm weaker. And that's that he isn't super strong, a bodybuilder or anything like that, just an average guy.

 

DIFFERENT ANIMAL. That's like trying to compare a congo eel to a conger eel. Similar but still a totally different animal.

 

Not to say women don't gain super strength when pissed, but then again so do men, so they still end up with the advantage.

 

The fact that there are dudes who get put in jail for DOING NOTHING, restraining the woman, or himself calling the cops to keep from getting physical with the woman is the advantage. Which goes to the woman. Again, she has no damn business striking him in the first place. And for folks who have been to war or trained to fight (some, not all) that survival instinct kicks in when someone is coming at them with a knife or when the assailant means seriously bodily harm. A man's strength is NEGATED by attacks to weak areas, (eyes, testes, nose, throat, etc. or by weapons.

 

I also don't think the law should automatically take the woman's side, it should be based on a case to case basis. Sometimes the woman is the aggressor and the one deserving to go to jail/be removed/whatever.

 

Exactly, but this "Oh we need to treat the woman gently when she attacks you but BEAT THE LIVING FUCK out of a man if he decides to slap you." bullshit needs to stop. And I will say this almost everytime I post here:

 

NO ONE SHOULD BE PUTTING THEIR FUCKING HANDS ON ANYONE!

[catboy]

Ok.

 

The Grocery Store Insident:

 

It happened when I was checking out in the que,

writing my cheque and I am handicapped so

I can't write it o so perfect like Old Mrs. Terist

can, so I write it at the speed I am ABLE.

 

I hear this dirty ol dpoopyface say "Hurry up!

We have lives to live here too you know!"

 

I say "I'm handicapped!"

 

Next thing I know I am wake up in the

hospital with dad and uncle and a lawyer.

 

Dad says son just lay there and be quiet,

I will fill you in on what happpened in just a minute.

 

I listen in to dad talking to uncle and the

lawyer guy and then he told me

that the old bag hit me, I went into a

seizure, both arms flailed, my Left arm back

handed her and broke her nose, and I

flipped over and thrashed around like

a fish out of the water, kicking down

a little wall or something.

 

That was what peple in the que said

and the police report said it too.

 

SHE said I swung around and punched

her, uhh hello I am RIGHT handed,

if I was going to do that I would have

used the right hand and not the lfte

one such as they told me, second,

she said I kicekd he down, no, they

said I thrashed around and kicked a

little wall down, not her, and I am going

to blive my dad not some dirty old

poopyhole old bag that hates handicapped

peple.

 

So dad counter sued and she shrumppled

up like a bag of potato crisps and settled

so she had to pay dad for the hospital

bill.

 

I live with my brother now, I don't go

out alone anymore.

[eddo]

lmao @

 

"I AM HANDICAPPED!!!"

[Chi]

lmao @

 

"I AM HANDICAPPED!!!"

 

I'm glad I'm not the only one who found the retelling of this story sorta funny.....:o But seriously, I wouldn't want to ever be in that position, so shame on me.

[RegisteredAndEducated]

lmao @

 

"I AM HANDICAPPED!!!"

 

Why is that funny? It was someone related to you, wasn't it? It was your grandma that attacked poor catboy? You heartless bastard! I'll bet you beat on women, and attack old and or handicapped people too... don't you?

[RegisteredAndEducated]

lmao @

 

"I AM HANDICAPPED!!!"

I'm glad I'm not the only one who found the retelling of this story sorta funny.....:o But seriously, I wouldn't want to be in that position, so shame on me.

Chi... I'm shocked!

Speechless...

 

...

 

(I don't really know what else to say...)

[Chi]

Chi... I'm shocked!

Speechless...

 

...

 

(I don't really know what else to say...)

 

I know hangs head in shame

[eddo]

I just find it extremely amusing that this dudes first reply in response to a belligerent asswipe is to scream

 

"I'M HANDICAPPED!"

 

and then ignore them.

 

If that makes me heartless, then call me heartless. but I'm gonna lmao about it.

[RegisteredAndEducated]

I know hangs head in shame

It's ok... we all make mistakes... Just look at some of the people in the world... You think they'd be here if their parents hadn't made "mistakes?"

 

 

I just find it extremely amusing that this dudes first reply in response to a belligerent asswipe is to scream

 

"I'M HANDICAPPED!"

 

and then ignore them.

 

If that makes me heartless, then call me heartless. but I'm gonna lmao about it.

Let's hope you still think it's funny when you are handicapped and there is some asshole yelling at you! I would like to hear your reply.

[eddo]

Let's hope you still think it's funny when you are handicapped and there is some asshole yelling at you! I would like to hear your reply.

 

I am sure my reply would be more along the lines of:

"I'm sorry, but I am going as fast as I can, I will be out of your way as soon as I can"

 

or

 

"Shut up bitch, the coffin will wait til you get there."

 

or

 

"Perhaps you could help me? I just shit myself, and my nanny has the day off."

 

 

but screaming "I'M HANDICAPPED" is not likely to be my first thought of a reply.

 

Now don't get me wrong. This "old poopyhead" was outta line. Way outta line. There was no need to push the issue, especially if catboy was actually being productive in trying to finish up his purchases in front of her. But his response was downright silly.

[Komrade Vostok Hazard]

Things to do when/if I ever take over the world: Make Vagina worship a class-A felony

 

 

I think that double standards are a crock of shit and if a woman doesn't want to be hit, then they shouldn't touch a man in violence. I don't expect to hear any shit that a man is a bajillion times stronger than any women. Both men and women IN GENERAL have the same strength potential. And if this is the case then why is it ok for men to beat up on men that are much weaker than themselves? And also if women are weaker then men, maybe they should act like it. It burns my ass to no end when I see women who hide behind the dont hit girls rule as they sass off, threaten or physically attack men. Once again, if you don't want to be hit, dont' do anything that will get you attacked.

 

 

And these "knight-in-shining-armor" guys who feel the need to attack another man for hitting a girl should either be a) forced into mandatory military service for the rest of their lives (want to be a macho fuckstick and like to protect shit, then start with your country) or B) Flat-out put down. Macho shitheads (especially the vagina worshipping variety) are the lowest lifeforms in existance. Cops who make judgement calls on the side of women should suffer the same fate

 

I say if men aren't allowed to hit women in self defence then we should be allowed to SHOOT them in self defence (well actually I say that people should be allowed to shoot women if they so much jolly well feel like it, but that's another story)

 

I have my own story about this girl who was drunk off her ass and was whining and pissed off about something and kept punching me in the ribs. I ended up pulling a Kukri on her. And if those rib shots did inflict any pain (which they didn't) I would have buried that damn thing into her.

[Phantom]

I think that double standards are a crock of shit and if a woman doesn't want to be hit, then they shouldn't touch a man in violence. I don't expect to hear any shit that a man is a bajillion times stronger than any women. Both men and women IN GENERAL have the same strength potential.

 

I disagree with that. The average man is taller, stronger, and weighs more than the average woman. Men are the physically stronger gender regardless of what the neo-nazi feminists say. If it is a matter of self defense or life and death, then of course defense yourself. No one should be expected to take abuse just because they have a penis.

 

But, for instance, I am 5'7" and 120 lbs. Hubby is 6'4" and approaching 300 lbs. If I draw back and punch him with everything I have, I might break his nose. If he did the same to me, he would probably kill me instantly. What is wrong with realizing your strength has the potential to do some severe damage and knowing that it is time to simply leave the situation?

 

And if this is the case then why is it ok for men to beat up on men that are much weaker than themselves?

 

You actually make a really good point! I never thought of it like this before. But again, if you say much weaker than them, than the bigger guy should be able to be man enough to tell the little guy to take a hike, IMHO.

 

And also if women are weaker then men, maybe they should act like it. It burns my ass to no end when I see women who hide behind the dont hit girls rule as they sass off, threaten or physically attack men. Once again, if you don't want to be hit, dont' do anything that will get you attacked.

 

Not sure if I read that the way you meant that to come across. So you think it is ok for a man to strike a woman just because she "sasses off?" In self defense, sure. But for "sassing?" That sounds awfully brutish. Nobody should be hit just for having a big mouth.

 

And these "knight-in-shining-armor" guys who feel the need to attack another man for hitting a girl should either be a) forced into mandatory military service for the rest of their lives (want to be a macho fuckstick and like to protect shit, then start with your country) or B) Flat-out put down. Macho shitheads (especially the vagina worshipping variety) are the lowest lifeforms in existance. Cops who make judgement calls on the side of women should suffer the same fate

 

I STRONGLY disagree with that! If you see someone getting hurt, you should intervene. I would intervene if I saw a group of young children hurting an animal or if I saw a parent losing it on their kid (not just spanking but an all out beating). I also respect the hell out of a man who would intervene if he saw a man beating up on a woman. Right before I got married, there was a man who just started going off on his/wife girlfriend in the middle of the grocery store. The woman was crying and begging him to stop. SEVERAL REAL men came to her defense and dragged him off of her while she was on the floor in a bloody heap.

[Komrade Vostok Hazard]

I disagree with that. The average man is taller, stronger, and weighs more than the average woman. Men are the physically stronger gender regardless of what the neo-nazi feminists say. If it is a matter of self defense or life and death, then of course defense yourself. No one should be expected to take abuse just because they have a penis.

 

The point I'm is that there are strong women and weak men out there

 

But, for instance, I am 5'7" and 120 lbs. Hubby is 6'4" and approaching 300 lbs. If I draw back and punch him with everything I have, I might break his nose. If he did the same to me, he would probably kill me instantly. What is wrong with realizing your strength has the potential to do some severe damage and knowing that it is time to simply leave the situation?

 

And once again, I'm sure there are some women out there that can do physical damage

 

 

 

You actually make a really good point! I never thought of it like this before. But again, if you say much weaker than them, than the bigger guy should be able to be man enough to tell the little guy to take a hike, IMHO.

 

But according to the logic of the issue they are within their rights to smack them around at will

 

 

 

Not sure if I read that the way you meant that to come across. So you think it is ok for a man to strike a woman just because she "sasses off?" In self defense, sure. But for "sassing?" That sounds awfully brutish. Nobody should be hit just for having a big mouth.

 

Guys do it to other guys all the time...

 

 

 

I STRONGLY disagree with that! If you see someone getting hurt, you should intervene. I would intervene if I saw a group of young children hurting an animal or if I saw a parent losing it on their kid (not just spanking but an all out beating). I also respect the hell out of a man who would intervene if he saw a man beating up on a woman. Right before I got married, there was a man who just started going off on his/wife girlfriend in the middle of the grocery store. The woman was crying and begging him to stop. SEVERAL REAL men came to her defense and dragged him off of her while she was on the floor in a bloody heap.

 

Sure no one likes a bully or a child abuser, but some dude trying to puff out his chest and play his superman role is just to look like a "real man's man" is just as big of an assclown.

[KathyA]

I guess I am heartless too, cause I laughed..

 

It's the way he tells the story.. that adds the humor to it.

[catboy]

I totally just stay away from people.

 

My seizures can't tell a male from a female,

so if I am hitted, I just black out, and whilst

blacked out, I can bite, scratch, flail, who knows?

 

I stay home and I don't go anywhere without

my brother.

 

This way I will never have this kind of trouble again.

 

Seizures do not shivel, they just happen and I

cannot do anything about them except to stay

home safe in my playroom where no one can

make me have seizures at all.

[RoyalOrleans]

And these "knight-in-shining-armor" guys who feel the need to attack another man for hitting a girl should either be a) forced into mandatory military service for the rest of their lives (want to be a macho fuckstick and like to protect shit, then start with your country) or B) Flat-out put down. Macho shitheads (especially the vagina worshipping variety) are the lowest lifeforms in existance. Cops who make judgement calls on the side of women should suffer the same fate

 

Personally, I don't give a tuppenny fuck about another's moral conundrum. What goes on in a house, doors shut, blinds pulled... is not of any concern to me. I hear about wife-beaters on the news, Cops, and related media and I think what a "bag of shit", still I don't have on scintilla bit of compassion.

 

Why? It's none of my business.

 

That is, unless, it is family. If my Brother-in-Law ever struck my sister, you're damn right I'd beat his ass if I ever lay my paws on him.

 

The cops that arrested me were charmed by my ex-wife's beauty and probably would've tasered me or shot me, that is, if I hadn't served with the black cop. He's still a motherfuckin' ******-cop to me.

[rizzo]

No one should be hitting anyone, male or female. I was always taught that if you hit someone, you had better be prepared to be hit back.

 

There is a huge double standard when it comes to a woman hitting a man. He is supposed to just walk away, or gently restrain her without doing any harm. Why? Why is he not allowed to defend himself? If someone hits me, I'll be hitting them back. Not trying to kill them, but definitely hitting back.

[RoyalOrleans]

No one should be hitting anyone, male or female. I was always taught that if you hit someone, you had better be prepared to be hit back.

 

There is a huge double standard when it comes to a woman hitting a man. He is supposed to just walk away, or gently restrain her without doing any harm. Why? Why is he not allowed to defend himself? If someone hits me, I'll be hitting them back. Not trying to kill them, but definitely hitting back.

 

I was always taught that I should never go around picking fights, but finish them.

[Outlaw2747]

The issue is that society programmed us and especially the cops to NOT hit a woman since they are so beautiful and delicate and helpless while a man is big, strong, and supposed to "take it like a man". This gives the woman the advantage (what else is new) and more often or not they take advantage of it.

 

This YouTube video explains it better than I ever could.

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LYxJ8V_0ktw

[rizzo]

I was always taught that I should never go around picking fights, but finish them.

 

That, too. But somehow that's along the same lines, isn't it? No one should hit and not expect to be hit in return.