THE BITCH Posted January 5, 2007 Posted January 5, 2007 i know i know i'm stuck in to much plus it is the terminology used in my job so sort of comes out naturaly Quote
RoyalOrleans Posted January 6, 2007 Posted January 6, 2007 i know i know i'm stuck in to much plus it is the terminology used in my job so sort of comes out naturaly What are you a 911 dispatch? Quote To be the Man, you've got to beat the Man. - Ric Flair Everybody knows I'm known for dropping science.
THE BITCH Posted January 6, 2007 Posted January 6, 2007 No i'm a domestic violence counselor and a crisis parent Quote
hugo Posted January 6, 2007 Posted January 6, 2007 No i'm a domestic violence counselor and a crisis parent Another stinkin' social worker. The bane of the western world. Quote The power to do good is also the power to do harm. - Milton Friedman "I cannot undertake to lay my finger on that article of the Constitution which granted a right to Congress of expending, on objects of benevolence, the money of their constituents." - James Madison
THE BITCH Posted January 6, 2007 Posted January 6, 2007 no i'm not a social worker i am a crisis parent Quote
hugo Posted January 6, 2007 Posted January 6, 2007 no i'm not a social worker i am a crisis parent A subset of social workers. Quote The power to do good is also the power to do harm. - Milton Friedman "I cannot undertake to lay my finger on that article of the Constitution which granted a right to Congress of expending, on objects of benevolence, the money of their constituents." - James Madison
THE BITCH Posted January 6, 2007 Posted January 6, 2007 not at all social workers take children crisis parents then look after said children Quote
RoyalOrleans Posted January 7, 2007 Posted January 7, 2007 not at all social workers take children crisis parents then look after said children Though you may operate two doors down from the social workers' office, what you do is social work. Quote To be the Man, you've got to beat the Man. - Ric Flair Everybody knows I'm known for dropping science.
thekid65 Posted January 7, 2007 Posted January 7, 2007 I wasnt gonna be arsed to read every reply in this thread, so I may have a similar opinion on the subject as someone else. I'll start of by saying I've never "closed fisted" a woman before, but will admit to a backhand or 2 of one particular alcoholic wench I was with for about a year. The first one I remember clearly..she was drunk off her ass, and spit in my face. The backhand wasnt something I even thought about, it was a natural reaction that just happened, and I knocked her on her ass.. that was that. Anyways, I look at it like this. I go about 175 or so, and if some 130lb dude came at me swinging his fists, you can be damned sure I'd defend myself with mine. So why should it be any different if that person is a gal? Would I ever hit my old lady because we were in a verbal dissagreement, or she smarted off to me? Hell no I wouldnt. I would never throw a closed fist at a gal unless I was physically threatened. And even then, I'd be more apt to try and restrain a gal, as opposed to hitting her. But, ya never know, and sometimes instinct takes over. If you wanna act like a man, then you shall be treated like one. Quote
eddo Posted January 7, 2007 Posted January 7, 2007 so it's "acting like a man" to backhand a woman that does nothing but toss some saliva in your direction? Sorry, I don't think so. Quote I'm trusted by more women.
thekid65 Posted January 7, 2007 Posted January 7, 2007 And I ask you, if a man spit in your face, would you just shrug it off? And if not, what is the difference? Quote
clarity Posted January 7, 2007 Posted January 7, 2007 thekid, i understand what your saying, but i dont agree. she was wrong for spitting on you, but you could have walked away from the situation rather than causing it to escalate. Quote
thekid65 Posted January 7, 2007 Posted January 7, 2007 thekid, i understand what your saying, but i dont agree. she was wrong for spitting on you, but you could have walked away from the situation rather than causing it to escalate. No denying that.. however, like I said..it was an instantanious reaction.. no thought came into it at all. Do I regret it? Perhaps, a little. Did the wench have it coming?? Yes, she did. Drunk, or not.. spitting in ones face is about as rude as rude gets. And if one "walks away" from a situation like that.. whats to prevent it from happening again? Quote
thekid65 Posted January 7, 2007 Posted January 7, 2007 Fuck, I cant edit posts.. but wanted to add that it did not happen again. Even though I think we were together only a few more months after that incident happened. She could not handle her booze well at all. Quote
Vortex Posted January 8, 2007 Posted January 8, 2007 wow..a debate on men who hit women just entered the whiney zone... if you got bad rep...fuckin wahhhhhhh get over it... Quote -I don't know about you...but I am SICK and tired of being nice and understanding!!! -The Liver is evil and must be punished! -The Early bird gets the worm, but the second mouse gets the cheese. How can your opinion be the correct one....if, infact, its only an opinion?!?!
Ahhlee Posted January 8, 2007 Posted January 8, 2007 Fuck, I cant edit posts.. but wanted to add that it did not happen again. Even though I think we were together only a few more months after that incident happened. She could not handle her booze well at all. Whatever. You obviously can't handle your booze either if you backhanded her for spitting on you. A bigger man would have walked away and left her drunk ass there. Quote
ParasiteGod Posted January 9, 2007 Posted January 9, 2007 No denying that.. however, like I said..it was an instantanious reaction.. no thought came into it at all. Do I regret it? Perhaps, a little. Did the wench have it coming?? Yes, she did. Drunk, or not.. spitting in ones face is about as rude as rude gets. And if one "walks away" from a situation like that.. whats to prevent it from happening again? I think you're over reacting. I've said it before, but I think any woman who decides to get violent needs to be hit. However, I don't think spitting's very violent. I don't think anyone took into account that you're talking about a raging woman, and that people get crazy when they're that angry. Chances are she's going to be somewhat unpredictable and hard to restrain. Anyway, I don't see what the problem is with a man defending himself. If I go after a guy, it doesn't matter who he is. He's gonna get hurt. My brother's a tank - 6'8", and huge. I don't know what he weighs, but either way the kid is huge. Now just messing around, I can't touch him. But if, not playing at all, he smacks me around and I decide to fight back, yeah I can hurt him. No problem. So yeah, guys, if I decide to get medieval on your ass, please get medieval back. I will do the same. Quote I want to report a double murder. If you go one mile east on Columbus Parkway to the public park, you will find kids in a brown car. They were shot with a 9mm Luger. I also killed those kids last year. Good bye Brooks, I like you. Now get out of here. Go home.
OmegaManiac Posted January 9, 2007 Posted January 9, 2007 If a man, woman, child, dog, cat, or freaking goldfish attempts to cause you intentional harm it is your responsibility to beat them as much as is required to re-establish the neccessary level of mutual respect. Violent behavior left unchecked will just lead to more voilent behavior. Quote
thekid65 Posted January 11, 2007 Posted January 11, 2007 Whatever. You obviously can't handle your booze either if you backhanded her for spitting on you. A bigger man would have walked away and left her drunk ass there. It was a simple backhand that knocked her off her feet (mostly due to the fact that she was trashed) its not like I beat the shit outta her. Its funny how this double standard appears. I suppose, Ahhlee, I should just walk away if a man spits in my face, eh? And, if you say no, then I would like you to explain the difference from your point of view as to why its ok to punch a dude for one offense, but not slap a woman for the same? This is a debate forum, is it not? Quote
Ahhlee Posted January 12, 2007 Posted January 12, 2007 It was a simple backhand that knocked her off her feet (mostly due to the fact that she was trashed) its not like I beat the shit outta her. Its funny how this double standard appears. I suppose, Ahhlee, I should just walk away if a man spits in my face, eh? And, if you say no, then I would like you to explain the difference from your point of view as to why its ok to punch a dude for one offense, but not slap a woman for the same? This is a debate forum, is it not? So spit back. I don't see any reason for hitting the other person whether it was a man or woman. And just because this is a debate forum doesn't mean you were right in your actions. Try justifying it all you want but you still hit a woman. Quote
snafu Posted January 12, 2007 Posted January 12, 2007 So spit back. I don't see any reason for hitting the other person whether it was a man or woman. And just because this is a debate forum doesn't mean you were right in your actions. Try justifying it all you want but you still hit a woman. It's called provocation and I think spitting on someone constitutes that. Quote "You can't stop insane people from doing insane things by passing insane laws. That's just insane!" Penn & Teller NEVER FORGOTTEN
Ahhlee Posted January 12, 2007 Posted January 12, 2007 It's called provocation and I think spitting on someone constitutes that. She absolutely did provoke him. I cannot argue that. But he's not an animal that has no choice but to react on pure instinct. As a man and human being, he should have more self control over his actions. Quote
Outlaw2747 Posted January 12, 2007 Posted January 12, 2007 She absolutely did provoke him. I cannot argue that. But he's not an animal that has no choice but to react on pure instinct. As a man and human being, he should have more self control over his actions. The female should also have self control over her actions. Having a vagina doesn't exempt one from accepting responsibility. Quote "I wish I was in Tijuana, eating barbecued iguana." - Wall of Voodoo http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/fb910e0baa5b4e108ffee98f66cdb3cc.gif
Ahhlee Posted January 12, 2007 Posted January 12, 2007 The female should also have self control over her actions. Having a vagina doesn't exempt one from accepting responsibility. She made a very bad choice. So did he. If she was here bragging about it and trying to justify her actions, I'd be jumping her ass as well. Quote
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