MyDecember Posted January 2, 2005 Posted January 2, 2005 Okay...this is something i need some good advice on so...here Alright, I have a friend...hes like my best friend of 2+ years, and just recently i realized i had feelings for him...i dont know where they came from or how long theyre gunna last but..theyre here...and i dont wanna tell him, not because itd ruin our friendship cause hes told me countless times how he feels about me, im afraid cause were both in relationships (but mines ending very soon) and he really likes his girl and im afraid that if i tell him he may still have buried feelings for me and then break up with his current girlfriend...and then her heart would be broken...i feel so bad and confused...please help!! (I know that was alot and complicated...sorry!!!) Quote -Emily [broken External Image]:http://tinypic.com/4q23cn SeXy....! My Space ^_^ http://profiles.myspace.com/users/13438403
chester_Crazy Posted January 2, 2005 Posted January 2, 2005 Well right now the choice is up to you really,you say the last word but I'm going to give you some advice. Okay before I give you advice I need to know if your close with His Girlfriend, like friends or anything? Quote I am the enemy who is honest and the friend who has betrayed but it's not my fault you've left your mind in my hands to invade Remember to return the needle once I'm done with your vein And I'll remember to give a push when your mind can't complain
majinkamahl Posted January 2, 2005 Posted January 2, 2005 You know what? I have been in that EXACT situation, let me see, about four times now. Follow my sig link and we will talk there. Quote Free Your Mind
Mike Shinodas Gurl Posted January 2, 2005 Posted January 2, 2005 Okay...this is something i need some good advice on so...here Alright, I have a friend...hes like my best friend of 2+ years, and just recently i realized i had feelings for him...i dont know where they came from or how long theyre gunna last but..theyre here...and i dont wanna tell him, not because itd ruin our friendship cause hes told me countless times how he feels about me, im afraid cause were both in relationships (but mines ending very soon) and he really likes his girl and im afraid that if i tell him he may still have buried feelings for me and then break up with his current girlfriend...and then her heart would be broken...i feel so bad and confused...please help!! (I know that was alot and complicated...sorry!!!) My best friend......is not my best friend anymore because I liked him and I told him you know and he got a girlfriend a couple a days after and he told me he still wanted to be friends or whatever but I still felt something for him you know but He told me he liked it better as friends i still like him and I've liked for 5 years now sad huh? We still talk though. Quote Rawr. I moved to this account Sayoko
nocturnal Posted January 2, 2005 Posted January 2, 2005 This is a pretty tough situation but I think you have to tell him..If he has that kind of feelings about you..it is much worse for his girlfriend..If she is a normal person she wont want a guy who loves someone else...also you dont see him as a friend now. So he has the right to know about your feelings... Last thing I want to say that 'pretending solves nothing'..tell 'em Quote Just wish that I didnt feel like there was something I missed...
MyDecember Posted January 2, 2005 Author Posted January 2, 2005 Well right now the choice is up to you really' date='you say the last word but I'm going to give you some advice. Okay before I give you advice I need to know if your close with His Girlfriend, like friends or anything?[/quote'] Were not like best friends...but i d say we were really close friends...even before they started dating Quote -Emily [broken External Image]:http://tinypic.com/4q23cn SeXy....! My Space ^_^ http://profiles.myspace.com/users/13438403
FanSince1999 Posted January 2, 2005 Posted January 2, 2005 Look, I have posted a much worse case, which was my case , here in LP Forums and everyone said me I should tell my girl, I was in love with her, and I finally did it, and guess what happened....I discovered she was in love with me also !! We arent together yet (thanks to the fucking holidays) but I guess I will very soon be with her. Anyway I'm tryin to say....If you tell him all the truth..what's the worst thing that may happend to you? Just think about it and take the risk Quote http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/7dc4dbe2126c7ad7bee7adc51c90545d.jpg
FanSince1999 Posted January 2, 2005 Posted January 2, 2005 ohhh almost forgot this...why did you post this thread in the dark room? lol come on !! say everybody you love him !!! Quote http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/7dc4dbe2126c7ad7bee7adc51c90545d.jpg
chester_Crazy Posted January 2, 2005 Posted January 2, 2005 So Go for it!! Quote I am the enemy who is honest and the friend who has betrayed but it's not my fault you've left your mind in my hands to invade Remember to return the needle once I'm done with your vein And I'll remember to give a push when your mind can't complain
Mike Shinodas Gurl Posted January 2, 2005 Posted January 2, 2005 you should go for it!^_^ Quote Rawr. I moved to this account Sayoko
FadedBlue Posted January 2, 2005 Posted January 2, 2005 Im not sure.. I think you should go for it. Quote Last.fm
Black_Thought Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 Im not sure.. I think you should go for it. I guess Faded is right.. If you are sure you want it..then do it! Quote Your eyes are not enough to understand my chaos... http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/34de8c5de1655a9fc020e5347ecba681.jpg Click to see a winter poem...
Sygy Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 :thumbsup: you should tell him Quote iam mors sola fuga est [broken External Image]:http://img409.imageshack.us/img409/9977/n76430001741552817731hb2.jpg
stupidsoul1 Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 go for it!!!! coz either way u wont b happy.....so just go for it! Quote http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/25cb22d29f0c2f027cf1acc5b7bf6cf4.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/459bb3c6fed65d05781dbdae0319d254.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/0dcf45273040e11bc56a99d4601a58d5.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/bfdf068f8fa963062b979cec565ff7f7.png Fiona is teh Fionizzle... and we all love her ^^
Rusu_luvs_LP_4ever Posted January 5, 2005 Posted January 5, 2005 Thats true. Quote HAHAHA i love you ruth! [broken External Image]:http://img84.exs.cx/img84/1907/rasu.jpg <3Steph|Shabana|Fiona|Renai|Gemma|Al|Azem|Ahmed|Vero|Chantal|Heather|Basmah|Tina|COB kids<3
angelwithburntwings Posted January 5, 2005 Posted January 5, 2005 yeh i've been in this situation before, i told the girl and we are going out she's the best thing that ever happened to me so i'd say go for it!!!! Quote I remember your other account being banned OOPS!!!
Majin_Raziel Posted January 5, 2005 Posted January 5, 2005 I kinda know how you feel...Its happenin to me right now but Im too scared to tell her just in case our really good frienship will be lost. Quote http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/5ca61336fabaecf1d12b4c5bcd566948.gif This post is not the views or opinions of the Plymouth College of Further Education
Clogz Posted January 5, 2005 Posted January 5, 2005 When my girlfriend and I started dating, a friend of mine talked to me. He had hidden a huge crush on her for years. I told him that if he didn't like her enough to ask her out, he didn't deserve her. If you want him, go for it. Love is like walking through a minefield.There will always be risks, no matter what. If you decide to do it, tell him how we feel, but don't pressure him into dating. Give him a chance to decide how he feels about you. Quote And then I felt chills in my bones / The breath I saw was not my own I knew my skin that wrapped my frame / Wasn't made to play this game XXI
MyDecember Posted January 5, 2005 Author Posted January 5, 2005 Thanx guys, the advice has helped alot, i had finally gotten up my courage to tell him and...he said he liked me...the only thing is..HE HAS A GF!! lol... i dk what to do now, i guess wait and see what happens. hehehe, but i broke up with my bf (and the same day he started goin out with my friend lmao can u say desperate)...so...eya Quote -Emily [broken External Image]:http://tinypic.com/4q23cn SeXy....! My Space ^_^ http://profiles.myspace.com/users/13438403
FanSince1999 Posted January 6, 2005 Posted January 6, 2005 oh my godness....ok you have done the hardest thing...now push the fucking boy to break up with his girlfriend !!! he wont say no Quote http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/7dc4dbe2126c7ad7bee7adc51c90545d.jpg
MyDecember Posted January 6, 2005 Author Posted January 6, 2005 see i dont wanna do that cause thatll be very bitchy.. Quote -Emily [broken External Image]:http://tinypic.com/4q23cn SeXy....! My Space ^_^ http://profiles.myspace.com/users/13438403
rayman Posted January 6, 2005 Posted January 6, 2005 i know how you feel it happend between me and my friend ariel the problem is IM UGLY Xs Quote FOAMY THE SQUIRL OWNS YOU ALL Bi sexual and f***** proud
Spike_1412 Posted January 6, 2005 Posted January 6, 2005 If she has a go at you, bite her kneecaps off. Hehe. Quote Choose Life. Choose Love.
rayman Posted January 6, 2005 Posted January 6, 2005 If she has a go at you' date=' bite her kneecaps off. Hehe.[/quote'] dude i have known her for 2 years so i actualy have a chance :thumbsup: Quote FOAMY THE SQUIRL OWNS YOU ALL Bi sexual and f***** proud
FanSince1999 Posted January 6, 2005 Posted January 6, 2005 see i dont wanna do that cause thatll be very bitchy.. "bitchy" lol Quote http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/7dc4dbe2126c7ad7bee7adc51c90545d.jpg
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