mike--chester-r-hot Posted January 25, 2005 Posted January 25, 2005 i have this friend, she went to my school last year, we talk on the phone sometimes, but i miss her. so i invited her to my house one weekend, and she told me she cuts her wrist, she didn't tell me straight but she hinted a bit, i caught on to what she was saying. what am i suposed to do? i don't want her to get hurt, she is one of my best friends! she is the only one that i have alot in common with...i want to talk to her more, let her know that i care, and that i'm there for her, but what if i slip, and say something stupid that gets her mad(trust me, i've done it before, like my boyfriend, i've lied to my friends about why he dumped me. he was mad, but he respected me enough to go along with the story, about how he dumped me because he forgot my b-day. he really broke up with me beacuse i said something really stupid about him, it wasn't really mean, but he just got out of rehab(i'm not telling why)and i commented on that...i hate myself right now...)well as i was saying, i don't want her mad at me...what would you do? Quote [broken External Image]:http://uploader.clausercorp.com/uploaded/cool%20guy.bmp Sometimes I feel like a prophet, Misunderstood, Under the gun like a new disease...
stupidsoul1 Posted January 25, 2005 Posted January 25, 2005 sorry to hear that.... just tell her she can talk to you about anything that troubles her...and stuff like that just be there for her really....maybe in a convo or something hint that you are worried about her Quote http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/25cb22d29f0c2f027cf1acc5b7bf6cf4.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/459bb3c6fed65d05781dbdae0319d254.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/0dcf45273040e11bc56a99d4601a58d5.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/bfdf068f8fa963062b979cec565ff7f7.png Fiona is teh Fionizzle... and we all love her ^^
jomama10691 Posted January 30, 2005 Posted January 30, 2005 i stumbled upon this thread and i have a really good friend that cuts. it may sound like a stupid reason but shes madly in love with this boy. she says that hes the only one that makes her not want to jump in the ocean and hide under a rock. she already has a bad life at home. this other girl, lets call her marie, ALSO likes this boy, lets call him jack. my friend, lets call her debbie, tells me all these things about jack. how she really does love him (ive only met him once). and here comes little happy perfect marie to fuck every thing up. she goes and tells me how much she really likes jack as well. keep in mind marie and debbie are really good friends too. almost best friends, but they keep things regarding jack to themselves and me. they both tell me how they feel and i feel so two faced trying to help them both when i just wish that marie would leave debbie alone because SHE is now the reason debbie cuts. debbie keeps a razor in her pocket and one day, marie wouldnt stop talking about jack and debbie runs into the bathroom and starts cutting. well you think thats bad? jack has just asked marie out! so now im incredibly worried about debbie. she would cut and cry just because marie wouldnt stop talking about him. BUT NOW? now that they might go out? i dont know what to do or say. she showed me these huge gashes on her legs and arm. and she uses salt and ice too which makes a bad reaction on your skin. theres this uber huge burn on her arm now and it looks terrible and scorched. i try to be someone to confide in. someone there to listen and not judge. but maybe this has gone to far and i dont know what to say. this may make absolutly no sense, and may seem like a really stupid story because there is no reason for debbie to cut, but i can hardly understand where shes coming from because ive never felt like that about a boy. well any who, i doubt any one will read this so gar. Quote [broken External Image]:http://img145.exs.cx/img145/1144/hereugo9sp.gif ~ ~ If my music is too loud... your too old ~ ~
mike--chester-r-hot Posted January 30, 2005 Author Posted January 30, 2005 gar? o well, that story was sad, just try hard to make your friend feel better. that's why i finnally did, and she came over again and her wrist were cut-free. i started talking on the phone with her more, listening to her problems, trying to help her out, and she saw i cared. she's been happier lately and if i can get the money, i'm buying me and her tickets to a concert she really wanted to go to, but she didn't have the money. so all they need is a little friendshhip to guide them the right way. Quote [broken External Image]:http://uploader.clausercorp.com/uploaded/cool%20guy.bmp Sometimes I feel like a prophet, Misunderstood, Under the gun like a new disease...
ForgottenKid Posted February 1, 2005 Posted February 1, 2005 Okay you people make slitting you're wrist sound so horrible. Damn I've been known to do it, and it was casue of shit that happen. People do it to just relive some stress. If you're friend does it alot then she should get alot of help- from everyone around. Her friends, parents, teacher, counsilers, you get what i mean. And good job for you're friend for stopping. Quote Disposable, at risk for every right, there is a wrong Click Here Yo
Dark Rain Posted February 1, 2005 Posted February 1, 2005 i agree with FORGOTTEN KID... Quote http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/5759b415544d1549a203fbc43a45360e.jpg
crimsoncutts13 Posted February 28, 2005 Posted February 28, 2005 it is true that cutting is adictive cause basically it releases a hormone that eases stress i learned that yesterday and am very proud of myself ok the proud part was me trying to be a happy "chipper" person..... it didn't work, but it does relieve stress trust me Quote
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