LP_Soldier Posted February 14, 2005 Posted February 14, 2005 wow, I'm in such a dilema right now. See, I have a bf of 8 months and i really really really like him. I may even love him. but see, theres this guy that ive known almost all of my life and I see him a lot but only for like 2 hour twice a week cuz we're in the same karate class. anyways, i just spent the whole day with him and i found out that i still have extremely strong feelings for him. ANd when im around him, theres this feeling that i have that i dont get when im with my bf. ive heard from a close friend of mine, and the other guys, that this guy likes me too. i dont know if it really is true or not, and this whole thing is killing me. What can I do? Quote [broken External Image]:http://prodegebanners.sitegrip.com/images/chesterbennington-468x60.jpg Sign up and refer me please?
linkinsoul Posted February 14, 2005 Posted February 14, 2005 do what you think u have 2 do......dont let people around u tell u or persuade u........maybe u could try talking 2 u bf and go out wit ta otha guy and see how it goes 4 a week and then go wit ur bf 4 a week......u have 2 no wether its real or not. Quote *Linkin park rule* www.skinnysmusic.com.au hybridsoul & linkinsoul dream job is there.
stupidsoul1 Posted February 14, 2005 Posted February 14, 2005 wow thats a dilemma .....i dunno what i would do Quote http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/25cb22d29f0c2f027cf1acc5b7bf6cf4.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/459bb3c6fed65d05781dbdae0319d254.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/0dcf45273040e11bc56a99d4601a58d5.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/bfdf068f8fa963062b979cec565ff7f7.png Fiona is teh Fionizzle... and we all love her ^^
woodyloveslinkin Posted February 14, 2005 Posted February 14, 2005 i've been in that situation every THURSDAY b4 i broke up with my bf (dick!!)..its all right if u like that guy a lot, u have to have time to urself and work ur emotions out. I did that with my ex bf and came to a conclusion that im driving myself nutz over a pointless thing......but the person I see every THURSDAY, even though he has a gf, I still manage to make me emotions change about him, sometimes. lol, its natural ! don't freak over it ! Quote Mia Elizabeth 18/2/10 Kate Helena 8/7/11 My baby girls <3
gabi_lp Posted February 14, 2005 Posted February 14, 2005 do what you think u have 2 do......dont let people around u tell u or persuade u........maybe u could try talking 2 u bf and go out wit ta otha guy and see how it goes 4 a week and then go wit ur bf 4 a week......u have 2 no wether its real or not. That's right: don't let ppl around u tell u or persuade u!!! It's not that they aren't telling the truth, but sometimes they don't understand our feelings and try to... well... do what THEY think it's the right thing to be done. Believe in u, believe in ur feelings, but remember: love is love and it's for a long-long-long-long time and passion it's kinda cruel, cause one day we like toooo much a person and the other day, we can hate the same person. Quote [broken External Image]:http://img166.exs.cx/img166/8334/gabilpsig4ng.jpg[broken External Image]:http://img86.exs.cx/img86/2159/animfr120x909ko.gif
LP_Soldier Posted February 17, 2005 Author Posted February 17, 2005 thanks for the help, guys. I appreciate it a lot. I was talkin to this guy the other night, and I told him that I liked another guy adn what I should do about it. I think he may know that I love him, and he was saying really nice things. He said he was 100% sure that if I told 'the guy i love' that I love him, we will become even closer, adn that nothing wierd would happen between us and stuff. I really want to tell him that I love him, but if he ends up liking or even loving me back, then I dont want to hurt my bf cuz he is in love with me. wow...so confusing Quote [broken External Image]:http://prodegebanners.sitegrip.com/images/chesterbennington-468x60.jpg Sign up and refer me please?
woodyloveslinkin Posted February 17, 2005 Posted February 17, 2005 no problemo. Quote Mia Elizabeth 18/2/10 Kate Helena 8/7/11 My baby girls <3
SNiPeRViRuS Posted February 17, 2005 Posted February 17, 2005 Not really confusing. You arent an adult yet. Break up with your boyfriend and go out with this other guy. You are still a kid and these are baby relationships that have no meaning. Enjoy your life, and thank god that these arent real commintments. Quote
LP_Soldier Posted February 21, 2005 Author Posted February 21, 2005 Guys! The guy I'm in love with, Ryan, told me last night that he loves me too! I am so happy. After like 4 years of being in love with this guy, he finally tells me that he feels the same way. I am sooooooo happy! My bf is being a jerk. He lies to me and hurts me. I just told him that I didnt feel teh same about him anymore and that I think we should just be good friends. SNiPeRViRuS was right, about dumping my bf and go out with Ryan. But, I owuldnt really call it baby relationships. I mean, im turning 17, so technically im not a kid. But meh, w/e Im so happy right now! ^_^ *throws cookies in the air* Quote [broken External Image]:http://prodegebanners.sitegrip.com/images/chesterbennington-468x60.jpg Sign up and refer me please?
mikez hott Posted February 22, 2005 Posted February 22, 2005 thanks for the help' date=' guys. I appreciate it a lot. I was talkin to this guy the other night, and I told him that I liked another guy adn what I should do about it. I think he may know that I love him, and he was saying really nice things. He said he was 100% sure that if I told 'the guy i love' that I love him, we will become even closer, adn that nothing wierd would happen between us and stuff. I really want to tell him that I love him, but if he ends up liking or even loving me back, then I dont want to hurt my bf cuz he is in love with me. wow...so confusing [/quote'] Wow, that's awesome, good luck :thumbsup: Quote [broken External Image]:http://img2.uploadimages.net/277720b.gif OOOoooOOo
gabi_lp Posted February 22, 2005 Posted February 22, 2005 Hey how nice!!! U must be happy!!! ^____^ And ur bf must be...well... poor guy. Quote [broken External Image]:http://img166.exs.cx/img166/8334/gabilpsig4ng.jpg[broken External Image]:http://img86.exs.cx/img86/2159/animfr120x909ko.gif
SNiPeRViRuS Posted February 22, 2005 Posted February 22, 2005 At this age its just a game, and he just lost. Tell him to tough it. Quote
o0SugaxNxSpice0o Posted February 22, 2005 Posted February 22, 2005 Awesome =) I was hoping you'll dump your old bf for the new guy when I read that lol *That's what I would've done*. Have fun with this new bf of yours! Quote [broken External Image]:http://img299.imageshack.us/img299/9765/newsig2qs.gif It's Jen!!!
LP_Soldier Posted February 22, 2005 Author Posted February 22, 2005 Yeah, I'm so happy right now! Awww Ryan is sooooo sweet and kind. I love him so much, and he loves me too! ^_^ He says it all the time. Wow, I am in heaven! Quote [broken External Image]:http://prodegebanners.sitegrip.com/images/chesterbennington-468x60.jpg Sign up and refer me please?
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