DarkShadow Posted February 19, 2005 Author Posted February 19, 2005 Im no 'love doctor' or anything, i may give out some bad advice. But i wanna help out a friend, so, here goes. She probably does love you. Ignore her,..then she will ask you whats wrong?..then you tell her whats wrong. She will feel sorry for you and..tell you she loves you. That worked out with my friend, he had the same situation as you. If that doesn't work, you need to find someone else. Brad, you can't keep on loving some one that doesn't love you back. There are plenty of other fish in the sea. Who knows..you might find another girl that you love just as much, and she will love you too. #1: She doesn't love me. #2: She would never say she loved me. #3: I've tried ignoring her before, it was too hard...but I'll be trying it this week. #4: I can't find anyone else. I love Abby way too much. #5: There are no other 'fish' like her. #6: I'll never love anyone else as much as Abby. #7: NO girl would ever love me... My life means nothing anymore...not to anyone... Quote :ok: Mmm...good stuff. :clap: http://www.myspace.com/bsinger1017
Minzara Posted February 19, 2005 Posted February 19, 2005 #1: She doesn't love me. #2: She would never say she loved me. #3: I've tried ignoring her before, it was too hard...but I'll be trying it this week. #4: I can't find anyone else. I love Abby way too much. #5: There are no other 'fish' like her. #6: I'll never love anyone else as much as Abby. #7: NO girl would ever love me... My life means nothing anymore...not to anyone... Welcome to my world.... lol i'vr had two girlfriends one i was really obsessed with, kindof like you are with abby, but i didnt take it as far as you. Both of those relationships lasted 4 days... best thing i can say is get over it, shit happens. Quote Check out my Naruto RPG Here っへ はっでっ Lいfえ げっっ, っへ っまってっ い げっ [broken External Image]:http://img354.imageshack.us/img354/2426/mynewsig5qv.gif [broken External Image]:http://img222.imageshack.us/img222/1432/bestmembertobeanaelite1dg.jpg
LPpinkfreak821 Posted February 19, 2005 Posted February 19, 2005 wow.. thats deep..... you may love her but if she is hurting you like that she obviously doesn't deserve you... talk to her.. tell her that what she is doing is driving you crazy and its hurting you.. don't put up with that... obviously your life does mean something if you are here.. just dont' do anything that would be regreted in the long run.... i actually do kno how you feel.. its hard as hell but you just have to hang in thier and be strong.. i dont' have an special advice to help you out.. everyone handles these things differently.. i handled me problem slowly but i got through it... and trust my problem with my X seems to be EXACTLY what you are going through right now.. just in the mean time focus on a hobby or school or something to really get your mind off it.. occupy yourself... and things will gradually get better... i wish there was something i could do... im hear to talk if you want to.. my AOL instant message screen name is Pinkybabi01 you if wanna talk or scream.. or what ever it is... im here for you!!!! no one should go though this alone... i had help when i went through it... so feel free to IM me anytime Quote When my time comes, forget what the wrong that I've done Help me leave behind reasons to be missed Don't resent me and when you're feeling empty Keep me in your memory [[it isn't an official goodbye, but I'll be gone for long time]]]
angelwithburntwings Posted February 19, 2005 Posted February 19, 2005 #1: She doesn't love me. #2: She would never say she loved me. #3: I've tried ignoring her before, it was too hard...but I'll be trying it this week. #4: I can't find anyone else. I love Abby way too much. #5: There are no other 'fish' like her. #6: I'll never love anyone else as much as Abby. #7: NO girl would ever love me... My life means nothing anymore...not to anyone... 1. how do you know she doesn't? she might be in denial or something 2. again how do you know? 3. stay strong! ignore her as best you can and see what happens, maybe what fadedblue said might happen 4. ok fair enough, but at least try and get over her 5. have you 'fished'? maybe there aren't in your school, or in your close social group or whatever.... give life a chance, maybe you'll randomly meet someone, it does happen, trust me! 6. how do you know? i never thought i'd love anyone as much as i loved one of my ex's, but i love my gf now as much if not more than that. 7. thats just fucking stupid (scuse the language) and pesimistic and depressive and blah blah. girls will love you, maybe do, but are scared of this whole abi thing, try and get over her and maybe a few offers will come in thats my personal view on your points, tell me go home or whatever if it's all crap! stay strong, and don't top yourself over her, no girl is worth that, not even someone you love with all your heart, soul, mind and everything else.... i've been there, done that, got the scars, not worth it Quote I remember your other account being banned OOPS!!!
mikelover Posted February 19, 2005 Posted February 19, 2005 #1: She doesn't love me. #2: She would never say she loved me. #3: I've tried ignoring her before, it was too hard...but I'll be trying it this week. #4: I can't find anyone else. I love Abby way too much. #5: There are no other 'fish' like her. #6: I'll never love anyone else as much as Abby. #7: NO girl would ever love me... My life means nothing anymore...not to anyone... #6: I'll never love anyone else as much as Abby... the same with me #7: NO girl would ever love me... i feel no guy would ever love me there's a saying "no one is like ur first love, but if it's not meant to be then let it be, if u love something let it go nd if i loves u back it will return, but if it wasnt meant to be it wont return nd u'll have to move on with hurtful pains." try to keep ur head up <~darkshadow~> Quote [broken External Image]:http://img100.echo.cx/img100/1715/mikelover4fr.jpg
DarkShadow Posted February 19, 2005 Author Posted February 19, 2005 How can I keep my head up when all this is hapening? Quote :ok: Mmm...good stuff. :clap: http://www.myspace.com/bsinger1017
Clogz Posted February 19, 2005 Posted February 19, 2005 DarkShadow, you've gotta realize that this girl would probably never take your friendship to the next level. She has to know you are obsessed with her, and it probably scares her. But, she might also like it - having a guy that loves her just 'around'. I've known girls who have toyed like that with guys...it is frikkin evil and wrong. But, you may have to consider the fact you are just a toy to her and nothing more... You need to move on if you think this might be true though, because if it you'll never have her. Quote And then I felt chills in my bones / The breath I saw was not my own I knew my skin that wrapped my frame / Wasn't made to play this game XXI
woodyloveslinkin Posted February 19, 2005 Posted February 19, 2005 i've gota agree with snipervirus for once.....move on some time or another Quote Mia Elizabeth 18/2/10 Kate Helena 8/7/11 My baby girls <3
DarkShadow Posted February 19, 2005 Author Posted February 19, 2005 I can't accept the fact that she is using me for attention...she tells me that she hates attention...so why would she be using me for it? It just doesn't make any sense. I like to beleive that she and I are really friends but I've come to the conclusion that she possibly is pretending to be my friend to make me feel better about myself. But I don't think that she would go so low as to do that to me. She's such a sweet girl, but sometimes she can be a real bitch. For instance, yesterday someone stole my lunch and I asked her if she would share her food with me and she simply said No. So I just looked away for a minute and when I looked back at her she was sharing her food with her gay ass boyfriend. I fucking hate that kid...and to think I used to be friends with him....ugh I hate my life....it sucks so bad... Quote :ok: Mmm...good stuff. :clap: http://www.myspace.com/bsinger1017
LPpinkfreak821 Posted February 19, 2005 Posted February 19, 2005 you can't totally hate your life.. your making friends with a stupid blonde right now.... smile.. PLEASE!!!!.....i kno your gonna hate me for saying but she probley doesn't care much for you.. she is mostly likley pretending to be your friend... find some new ones!!... dont pay attention to her.. or her gay ass boyfriend...its not worth it..errrg.. someone stole my lunch the other day.. he is such a fag.. ne who... focus on something or someone else.. and try to be happy!!! Quote When my time comes, forget what the wrong that I've done Help me leave behind reasons to be missed Don't resent me and when you're feeling empty Keep me in your memory [[it isn't an official goodbye, but I'll be gone for long time]]]
woodyloveslinkin Posted February 19, 2005 Posted February 19, 2005 ^^^^ second that motion Quote Mia Elizabeth 18/2/10 Kate Helena 8/7/11 My baby girls <3
DarkShadow Posted February 19, 2005 Author Posted February 19, 2005 she's not blonde... Quote :ok: Mmm...good stuff. :clap: http://www.myspace.com/bsinger1017
woodyloveslinkin Posted February 19, 2005 Posted February 19, 2005 nor am i ..........what colour hair? Quote Mia Elizabeth 18/2/10 Kate Helena 8/7/11 My baby girls <3
DarkShadow Posted February 19, 2005 Author Posted February 19, 2005 brunette... Quote :ok: Mmm...good stuff. :clap: http://www.myspace.com/bsinger1017
woodyloveslinkin Posted February 19, 2005 Posted February 19, 2005 lol....same as me.... i just think that u need to move on, though its gonna be hard, u just have to. Quote Mia Elizabeth 18/2/10 Kate Helena 8/7/11 My baby girls <3
DarkShadow Posted February 19, 2005 Author Posted February 19, 2005 I don't want to move on... Quote :ok: Mmm...good stuff. :clap: http://www.myspace.com/bsinger1017
LPpinkfreak821 Posted February 19, 2005 Posted February 19, 2005 i agree with woody.. yea.. Quote When my time comes, forget what the wrong that I've done Help me leave behind reasons to be missed Don't resent me and when you're feeling empty Keep me in your memory [[it isn't an official goodbye, but I'll be gone for long time]]]
LPpinkfreak821 Posted February 19, 2005 Posted February 19, 2005 you have to.. or your just never gonna get better... you know what you should think about the very wrong looking smilie!! Quote When my time comes, forget what the wrong that I've done Help me leave behind reasons to be missed Don't resent me and when you're feeling empty Keep me in your memory [[it isn't an official goodbye, but I'll be gone for long time]]]
DarkShadow Posted February 19, 2005 Author Posted February 19, 2005 I won't move on until the end of the school year...thats the last time I'll ever see her again... Quote :ok: Mmm...good stuff. :clap: http://www.myspace.com/bsinger1017
woodyloveslinkin Posted February 19, 2005 Posted February 19, 2005 okay shit happens in life, if u don't move on, u r going revolve around it and ur gonna turn against urself, u have a choice: wether to move on let ur life be happier or to revolve around something u've lost and mallow in ur misery. I hope u make the right choice darkshadow.... Quote Mia Elizabeth 18/2/10 Kate Helena 8/7/11 My baby girls <3
LPpinkfreak821 Posted February 19, 2005 Posted February 19, 2005 ok... what you do is... make some new friends.. *me*.. and some other people in non computer land.. don't hang around her as much.. and dont' concentrate or think about her.. well try not to.. focus on something you like other than her.. like music.. sports whatever it is that you may like... ignore them.. don't worry about what her and her boyfriend are doing.. worry about youself.. bcuz like woody said your gonna turn against yourself.. and thats not good.. it is the LAST thing you want.... try to cheer up and smile!! Quote When my time comes, forget what the wrong that I've done Help me leave behind reasons to be missed Don't resent me and when you're feeling empty Keep me in your memory [[it isn't an official goodbye, but I'll be gone for long time]]]
DarkShadow Posted February 19, 2005 Author Posted February 19, 2005 But when I'm with her, I'm happy... Quote :ok: Mmm...good stuff. :clap: http://www.myspace.com/bsinger1017
LPpinkfreak821 Posted February 19, 2005 Posted February 19, 2005 ooo grrness.. your making this complicated.. well it already was.. be happy by yourself.. or find someone else to be happy with.. *smile* Quote When my time comes, forget what the wrong that I've done Help me leave behind reasons to be missed Don't resent me and when you're feeling empty Keep me in your memory [[it isn't an official goodbye, but I'll be gone for long time]]]
DarkShadow Posted February 19, 2005 Author Posted February 19, 2005 I'm already happy with Abby...just not as happy as I want to be... Quote :ok: Mmm...good stuff. :clap: http://www.myspace.com/bsinger1017
LPpinkfreak821 Posted February 19, 2005 Posted February 19, 2005 im gonna hit u.. lol.. or at least get the lil grimlin thing-a-majigs to... grrness.. Quote When my time comes, forget what the wrong that I've done Help me leave behind reasons to be missed Don't resent me and when you're feeling empty Keep me in your memory [[it isn't an official goodbye, but I'll be gone for long time]]]
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