Minzara Posted February 20, 2005 Posted February 20, 2005 i've had the SAME exact situation happen to me, I just moved on, no point in doing this to yourself.... Quote Check out my Naruto RPG Here っへ はっでっ Lいfえ げっっ, っへ っまってっ い げっ [broken External Image]:http://img354.imageshack.us/img354/2426/mynewsig5qv.gif [broken External Image]:http://img222.imageshack.us/img222/1432/bestmembertobeanaelite1dg.jpg
o0SugaxNxSpice0o Posted February 20, 2005 Posted February 20, 2005 I actually read all 7 pages of this =O Clearly you are obsessed o_0 She may be perfect and everything, but there has to be a fault with her if she's putting you through all of this. I think you're doing the right thing if you tell her that you no longer want to be friends with her, no matter how hard it is. Look what you're turning in to! *No offense with this*. But you're like wanting to commit suicide, and wanting to use violence and stuff. Let's just say this ain't normal lol. It's not nessasarily her fault. It's up to you what becomes of this. Pick yourself up from the ground, and move on. My sister has this badge - "You can't make someone love you - You can only stalk and hope for the best" lol. I'm not saying you're stalking, but nothing good has come out of this. In the end, you would rather have a gf who loved you and cared for you don't you? If she doesn't feel the same way as you do, then there's no point in forcing something that just wasn't meant to be. Do you get what I mean? It'll just be a one way relationship, and neither one of you will be happy. It sucks, and life is a bitch, but you gotta get over it. You're like what? 14 / 15? Sounds corny but you've got your whole life ahead of you o_0. Don't let this 1 girl bring you down with so much pain. Be more positive and optimistic =D (Sorry if I rambled on and this didn't help.) Quote [broken External Image]:http://img299.imageshack.us/img299/9765/newsig2qs.gif It's Jen!!!
DarkShadow Posted February 20, 2005 Author Posted February 20, 2005 Thanks...You helped a little...lol But this one girl is my entire world. I know that sounds scary but it's true. Quote :ok: Mmm...good stuff. :clap: http://www.myspace.com/bsinger1017
mikelover Posted February 21, 2005 Posted February 21, 2005 Thanks...You helped a little...lol But this one girl is my entire world. I know that sounds scary but it's true. i dont think it sounds scary but try really hard to move if not it's okay if u need any help u no where to ask me Quote [broken External Image]:http://img100.echo.cx/img100/1715/mikelover4fr.jpg
DarkShadow Posted February 21, 2005 Author Posted February 21, 2005 I'm gonna try to tell her that we can't be friends anymore..... Quote :ok: Mmm...good stuff. :clap: http://www.myspace.com/bsinger1017
DarkShadow Posted February 21, 2005 Author Posted February 21, 2005 I just had the perfect chance to do it online but I chickened out....I don't know if I can do this without breaking down...I can't do it at school.....I'll start crying and people will make fun of me...I have to do it online or on the phone...it's the only way...unless I can hold in my tears....I'm really freaking out about this... Quote :ok: Mmm...good stuff. :clap: http://www.myspace.com/bsinger1017
woodyloveslinkin Posted February 21, 2005 Posted February 21, 2005 I actually read all 7 pages of this =O Clearly you are obsessed o_0 She may be perfect and everything, but there has to be a fault with her if she's putting you through all of this. I think you're doing the right thing if you tell her that you no longer want to be friends with her, no matter how hard it is. Look what you're turning in to! *No offense with this*. But you're like wanting to commit suicide, and wanting to use violence and stuff. Let's just say this ain't normal lol. It's not nessasarily her fault. It's up to you what becomes of this. Pick yourself up from the ground, and move on. My sister has this badge - "You can't make someone love you - You can only stalk and hope for the best" lol. I'm not saying you're stalking, but nothing good has come out of this. In the end, you would rather have a gf who loved you and cared for you don't you? If she doesn't feel the same way as you do, then there's no point in forcing something that just wasn't meant to be. Do you get what I mean? It'll just be a one way relationship, and neither one of you will be happy. It sucks, and life is a bitch, but you gotta get over it. You're like what? 14 / 15? Sounds corny but you've got your whole life ahead of you o_0. Don't let this 1 girl bring you down with so much pain. Be more positive and optimistic =D (Sorry if I rambled on and this didn't help.) I agree to that 100% Quote Mia Elizabeth 18/2/10 Kate Helena 8/7/11 My baby girls <3
angelwithburntwings Posted February 21, 2005 Posted February 21, 2005 i kinda know what your going through.... i was in love with this girl, still am... and she turned up the other day and, well stuff happened and it screwed me around, but i saw her later on and just said, "look i'm sorry, we can't keep doing this, it's over.... bye" and i know how hard that was, i mean, i was in physical pain because of it, and she's not really my friend! you can do it mate, just be strong. Quote I remember your other account being banned OOPS!!!
DarkShadow Posted February 21, 2005 Author Posted February 21, 2005 I'm going to tell Abby straight up that I can't be friends with her anymore...I'm really freaking out about it but I'm going to do it as much as I don't want to.... although...twighlightcrimson7 (heather) says that I should only do what I think is right....and honestly, I don't know what I think...I still love her...I mean, I don't see why I can't just wait until the end of the school year....I'll never see her again after then anyway....but I don't want to keep getting my heartbroken everyday....Ugh this is so confusing.... Quote :ok: Mmm...good stuff. :clap: http://www.myspace.com/bsinger1017
DarkShadow Posted February 21, 2005 Author Posted February 21, 2005 Ok...I have the perfect chance to tell her right now...she's at her friends house and theyre online...but it's her birthday.....should I do it or not? Ugh I don't even want to do it at all....why does my life have to be so confusing and painful? Quote :ok: Mmm...good stuff. :clap: http://www.myspace.com/bsinger1017
DarkShadow Posted February 21, 2005 Author Posted February 21, 2005 Well she just signed off and I didn't tell her....I think I'll be able to do it tomorrow at lunch, but I really really dont want to... Quote :ok: Mmm...good stuff. :clap: http://www.myspace.com/bsinger1017
LPGotLinkinPark Posted February 21, 2005 Posted February 21, 2005 If you don't think you can do it at school, don't do it. Just tell her either online or on the phone. Those are more private I think. And when you tell her, don't just be like I can't be friends with you anymore. Tell her how you're feeling and what it's causing you. Just be honest. Be strong, and hang in there. You can do it. Quote rep me!! | xanga | add me on myspace
DarkShadow Posted February 21, 2005 Author Posted February 21, 2005 I really don't want to do it...At All Quote :ok: Mmm...good stuff. :clap: http://www.myspace.com/bsinger1017
LPGotLinkinPark Posted February 21, 2005 Posted February 21, 2005 Well, do you think that you could put up with her not liking you until the end of the school year? Cause like you said before, once you go to different high schools, you won't see her again anyway. Quote rep me!! | xanga | add me on myspace
DarkShadow Posted February 21, 2005 Author Posted February 21, 2005 I dont know! UGH THIS IS SO CONFUSING! I wish I could just snap my fingers and make everything better! Quote :ok: Mmm...good stuff. :clap: http://www.myspace.com/bsinger1017
twilightcrimson7 Posted February 21, 2005 Posted February 21, 2005 we all do. But that aint gunna fix it. You ust gotta do what you feel is right Quote http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/caa111db447cb1d28d713cebad979c8d.png ...:away and onward:...
DarkShadow Posted February 21, 2005 Author Posted February 21, 2005 I dont know what I feel is right.... Quote :ok: Mmm...good stuff. :clap: http://www.myspace.com/bsinger1017
sum1 Posted February 21, 2005 Posted February 21, 2005 send her a massege to her email!! man!! idunno!im confused too! i think you dont deserve her u deserve much more better!! Quote http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/08cd387d103f8a2dfda97b96ce71d2ce.jpg Thank You Heart_LP for this awesome sig
LPGotLinkinPark Posted February 21, 2005 Posted February 21, 2005 The most important thing you need to do right now is make the decision. Figure out what you do want. It may take some time, that's ok. Just be sure you choose the right one. Quote rep me!! | xanga | add me on myspace
DarkShadow Posted February 21, 2005 Author Posted February 21, 2005 How will I know which one is right? Quote :ok: Mmm...good stuff. :clap: http://www.myspace.com/bsinger1017
angelwithburntwings Posted February 21, 2005 Posted February 21, 2005 you will, you'll just know... trust me on this, you will.... you might feel it was the wrong one, but deep down you'll know you were right, and after time you will realise you made the right decision Quote I remember your other account being banned OOPS!!!
DarkShadow Posted February 21, 2005 Author Posted February 21, 2005 part of me wants to do it, but another part of me doesnt want to.... I'm scared of what I'll become without her... Quote :ok: Mmm...good stuff. :clap: http://www.myspace.com/bsinger1017
angelwithburntwings Posted February 22, 2005 Posted February 22, 2005 as i said on msn man, it'll hurt, for a long time, i'm not gonna sugar it, cos it will hurt for a long time.... i'm still getting over telling someone i love to get out of my life completely... but once your over all that, you'll be stronger, cos you'll have got over this hard time, we're all here for you, your other mates... keep strong (i know i keep saying it but you need to! ) Quote I remember your other account being banned OOPS!!!
DarkShadow Posted February 22, 2005 Author Posted February 22, 2005 *gulp* I'll call her tonight....can you...um....give me something to say? Like type up some dialouge of what to tell her so I don't trip up? I'm really freaking out about this... Quote :ok: Mmm...good stuff. :clap: http://www.myspace.com/bsinger1017
SNiPeRViRuS Posted February 22, 2005 Posted February 22, 2005 Just tell her. Be a man, and speak in a bussiness type voice. Quote
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