Stalker - What should we do o_0

[o0SugaxNxSpice0o]

This is actually my little sisters stalker (She's 15 by the way), but I'm involved and I've got a dilemma. I honestly thought this was hilarious at first, but it's changed.

 

This guy is a bastard and it's kinda serious. He found out our address (The old address and the new address even though we moved house recently), came round our area a few times, asked kids that live around our area and offered them money if they would come and break our windows (Don't know if that was real or not), she got her number and gave the number to his friend to phone all the time (Not kidding, 300 missed calls in a period of 1 week), spent about £200 on the phone bill, following her around school, sent a rose to our doorstep, and sent a valentines card.

 

O.k, it sounds HARMLESS right? But the stuff he writes is disturbing and disgusting. The card is missing now but he wrote a dirty poem in it (Not gonna repeat it here), said stuff how how she's a whore and how she should learn to love the people who love her. Blah blah blah. He's an asian boy, his name is Jatinder Singh (It's not relevant but I'm gonna say it anyway because he needs to be shamed), he's ugly, has a horrible personality, and nobody likes him. Only has 2 friends, and one of them keeps bothering her and her friend.

 

However THIS morning, a letter came to our house, and inside was a letter. It was some fucked up peice of paper going on and it's really disturbing! There were threats and stuff in it.

 

I'll type it out how he writes it (A lot of it is bad grammar and makes no sense and for some reason, it's written like this):

 

Content of the letter is umm...rated 15 I guess lol. Possibly 18 for the weak??

 

Dear Hoe,

Now that I have found out

the truth about you. you should

open your eyes and realise I'm not

like the other guys I'm different

yes babe. My heart bleeds for you

it cries. My mate doesn't know

that I've sent this out to you

and doesn't know that I have your

address. lets keep it this way because

you wouldn't want my arse whipped yes.

If some how he does find out I'll know

exactly who to come looking for. I don't

see why he doesn't get the LSC or the

Gouch Crew to kick your motherfuckin

arses in. Little bitch. If this tension

continues to build up between you

arseholes. Let me promise you that

i'll get ******s to sort you guys

out with some girls. to stick

some bigarse cock up you

pussy's. I will be sending him a letter

as well. I won't ned to send it I'll post

it because I know where he lives. If he

does find out that this has been sent to

you, I have your address. You and your

family are getting shot with bullets

flying up your arses and juicy pussys.

On saturday 16th april 05 meet me inside

the (inside) Arndale centre to suck on my big

black cock and I'll pay you £100-£200

or a shag in the toilets. your choice bitch.

If you don't turn up then your father

will be beaten up badly.

 

xxx See you then little hoe

 

I asked my friend for some money so I thought I'll send it to a cheap tart like you. do enjoy

 

*Enclosed was £30 in 3 £10 notes, it was in a brown envelope with a 1st class stamp, wow aren't we special eh...*

 

 

No he's not like any other guys, most other guys aren't crazy! Most of it is rambling in and parts of it we don't even understand, he's like a proper psycho, with maybe psychological problems lol. (I'm hoping Majin will give some feedback on this) it's like one of those things that happens in movies you know lol. It's so scary o_0 He's not even black...wtf... and I don't know where he gets the ideas about tarts and sluts from. I thought it was funny at first, until I realised how serious it was, it's one thing sending dirty sick letters, it's another matter when he threatens our family...

 

This stuff mostly happens when it's the holidays. Maybe he's afraid that something will happen if he did it during schooltime. It was all fine till then... what kinda screwed up guy sends letters like that. He even sent £30 *That's like $55 or something?* along with the letter. Yeah, the bastard sent real money *Which I'm tempted to spend by the way o_0* He contradicts himself a lot as well :\

 

The thing is, do you think this is serious enough to take it to the police? I'm not sure if they will take these kinda things serious, but he used threats against our family and shit. The guy is in a "gang" also, so I really don't want anything bad to happen just because we chose to ignore this. I'm thinking that she should take the stuff to her high school and ask the cops there or tell a teacher or something. But what can they do really, apart from maybe suspend him for a few days and then he knows where we live so eh... We're keeping the letter and money for evidence for now, but we don't know what to do just yet lol. Haven't told our parents yet either lol, they'll go psycho and wouldn't understand.

 

Even though we know for sure that "Jatinder" was the one who sent it, it doesn't say his name or anything at the end. We recognise his handwriting and he's the only person who would do this. It's definatly him and I swear, I'm gonna beat him up if I EVER see him again. (I've seen him once before all of thise got out of control, at that time I only called him a Freak and a Weirdo and told him that he's wasting his time and should leave my sister alone).

 

So anything will really help! Anyone, just comment lol! Thanks a lot, I had to ramble on about him because he's a sick twisted individual (And my sister is here as well and she's just sickened by him:) ). URGHhhhh we don't even know how he got our new address either! It's creepy as hell.

[jomama10691]

AGH YES GO TO THE POLICE. when someone threatens your family, EVEN if its a joke, its not funny on any level. just keep the letter and show it to them. wow i thought i had it bad. i myself have an asian stalker, koichi lol. i think hes in special ed and he sends love notes and presents and he wont stop calling but at least hes not threatening...yet. but yeah some authority needs to come into this if hes really in a gang, and threatening your family like that.

[misery]

Yes. Go to the police. They will know what to do, because this sounds pretty damn serious.

[Clogz]

Call the police. This guy is a danger to your sister and society in general. I've been stalked before...it is not fun and gives you the total heebijeebies. I hate it.

[Hyper]

hmm, what's with all the asian stalkers? my girlfriend had one when we first started dating. sent her disturbing letters and stuff. found out we were goin out, and then tried to jump me with three of his buddies...lol, big mistake. i only got a couple scratches from their cheap knives, but my butterfly knife held true to me.

 

anyways, to the relevance of your situation...call the cops, this guy didn't give up, she didn't want me to get "hurt" so she called the cops. kid went to the looney bin. his friends didn't dare come after me. so..yeah, best bet = callt he cops.

[JammerG]

Honey, as a Mom...(Eldest Linkin Park fan here) Go to the cops. go to your Parents. get in contact with his parents. Get the media in on it... Fuck get it out in the open... the more coverage this *(&^%$#@#$# gets the sooner hopefully he will back off... I have an 11 year old daughter. Man anything like this happens to her I hope I get thrown into the mix because honey, I will be at his front door with a bat.. Must be the black fella in me... (Aboriginal Australian)...

[twilightcrimson7]

HE'S A FREKIN' PSYCHO!

Jesus, tell the police, definatly! they HAVE to do something if you were threatened, right?

You gotta do something in any case! plz be careful!

[Heart_LP]

that guy is fucked up, seriously if I were you, I would go to the police..

this guy is really sick

[atreyu]

yeah u really should go to the police the guy is crazy.

[o0SugaxNxSpice0o]

So call the police is a definate thing lol. Me and my sister will arrange something. Maybe go down to the station, or call, I dunno. Just kinda scared they won't take it seriously.

Probably tell the teachers as well, his behavior should be frowned upon :\ Psycho bastard urgh =( I'll let you know how it goes.

 

I forgot to mention that we don't know where he lives. Or what his number is. So if we did tell the police, that's not much to go on is it?

[twilightcrimson7]

It's better than not doing nothing! you HAVE to tell the police. You have his anme, I'm sure they can do something about him

[misery]

They will almost defiantely take it seriously. If they don't, then your city needs a new police force.

[NVme4ever]

police police police.........sue dem...........bang him up.........

[ForgottenKid]

....Police.....run...get help from any one with a proper athority, cause that letter was very disturbing. How can his name be Jatinder singh? I swear theres a guy in my school named that.

[LinkinPark924]

Holy shit lol that dude is fuking dangerous. You should go to the police and tell them 'cause the asian dude is sending you threats and dirty notes... WtF??? Uh yeah and you should tell them as soon as possible...

[angelwithburntwings]

I agree with the general consenus on here, call the police, they have to take it seriously. You have a threatening note, disturbing and threatening behaviour. And just cos you don't have his details (address, phone number) doesn't mean they won't. The British police are pretty decent.

[invisiblekiller]

Onbe thing i get to know is,...tht guy is a Sikh. probably form India or some where. But singh's are Sikh's. And the advice is o'cource the cops.

[stupidsoul1]

dont call the police...he would know it was u

u need to find someone that can jump him and jump him good

 

u said no one likes him right? well...there has to be some person that cant stand him at all can would gladly punch him for u

 

he is a loser..if he lived near me i would of slapped him across the face and thrown him to my friends.

[majinkamahl]

An unrequited obesssion.

My guess is he was neglected as a child.

Give him my address and see how long it takes before I set him straight!

[Spike_1412]

My guess is he was neglected as a child.

Dropped on his head repeatedly more like.

On saturday 16th april 05 meet me inside the (inside) Arndale centre

Is that the Arndale centre in Manchester or Bolton?

If it is, I'll ask a few of my contacts if they know this retard.

[lpp]

TELL THE POLICE..

 

cause if you don't it can get worse......

 

i have watched alot of law and order special victums unit..

 

and if you don't got to the cops it can get worse cause he could thing about well um doing her then plan to rape her do something for the safty of your sister. jen

[4everLP_Shinoda]

I also think u should call the police,I think it´s the best way.I hate those ppl with sick minds!!!!I can´t stand them!!!.

That stalker person deserves to die.

[shirakawa_otori]

Wow, that is some twisted individual right there. I have to agree, you should take that to the police. That's serious stuff... I hope the police can do something about that guy, get him out of your way. I hope he quits bothering you, your sister and your family. He is definitely crazy!

[o0SugaxNxSpice0o]

Is that the Arndale centre in Manchester or Bolton?

If it is, I'll ask a few of my contacts if they know this retard.

 

Whoa, you've heard of it? It's the one in Manchester lol. I'm thinking about turning up to see if he's there so I can have a little "chat with him.

 

My sister told her teacher today. He photocopied a sheet of the guys work as evidence to identify his handwriting since he didn't sign it or whatever. He suggested telling the school cop, but the police at their school are apparentely no use at all. Didn't get to go today, but we're going tomorrow. And we told our mum lol, well I did. Who was kinda shocked but said it was ok to go the the police. Haven't told my dad yet but I presume she will tell him tonight or tomorrow morning. His reaction to this will be um... interesting >.>

 

Believe me, I'de love to bring a shitload of people onto him, but he's in a "crew". It's a pretty badass one with a bad reputation I guess, and I don't wanna risk it really. I haven't even told you what the guys friend said on the phone :-S

 

Anyway THANK YOU ALL soooo much for all the responces guys! They really helped alot!!!! The guy will probably only get a warning, but hopefully he'll get some kinda record and be too scared to do anything more =D Orr... nevermind. Thanks again for your advice everyone!

[Breakingthehabit_197]

People who stalk people like that are weird