Clogz Posted April 29, 2005 Posted April 29, 2005 Okay, so this is my grand idea... This is a thread for guys to post thier problems involving girls. The catch is that the girls on the forum will offer advice. This is a great way to get some good advice, and to keep all the relationship/girl things togather. I think this will be great if it catches on. So to start off, here is my current dillema. So, this girl who I use to be immensily infuatuated with two years ago, now has a crush on me. I am thought I was over her, but when she tried to start a conversation today, suddenly I became very confused over how I really do feel. This girl is very quiet, but she is cute. My problem is my friends think she is a freak...and I'm pretty damn confused right now. So now, she is trying to talk to me and she is always sneaking glances at me. I am totally damn confused (like I said) and if anyone could give me suggestions here, I would appreciate it. Quote And then I felt chills in my bones / The breath I saw was not my own I knew my skin that wrapped my frame / Wasn't made to play this game XXI
LPGotLinkinPark Posted April 29, 2005 Posted April 29, 2005 Well are you pretty sure this girl has a crush on you? Cause she might just be friendly... Quote rep me!! | xanga | add me on myspace
Hybrid Soldier Posted April 29, 2005 Posted April 29, 2005 I thought that about this one chcick, who is like 2 years older than me, and that stopped me from asking her out, but then she asked me out. So, don't always assume thats it Quote
LPGotLinkinPark Posted April 29, 2005 Posted April 29, 2005 I'm just saying...either way, if the girl is noticably flirting, then go ahead and ask her. That is, if you actually do want to go out with her. Even if she isn't crazy about you, she obviously likes you somewhat and would probably say yes. Quote rep me!! | xanga | add me on myspace
stupidsoul1 Posted April 29, 2005 Posted April 29, 2005 so what if your friends think she is a freak?! do they even know her?? i say go for it!! Quote http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/25cb22d29f0c2f027cf1acc5b7bf6cf4.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/459bb3c6fed65d05781dbdae0319d254.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/0dcf45273040e11bc56a99d4601a58d5.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/bfdf068f8fa963062b979cec565ff7f7.png Fiona is teh Fionizzle... and we all love her ^^
JammerG Posted April 29, 2005 Posted April 29, 2005 so what if your friends think she is a freak?! do they even know her?? i say go for it!! Listen to the Mistress JammerG, she is a wise old Rocker Granny who says: she doesn't want to go out with your mates, clogs, She wants to go out with you. If she has a crush on you; well I believe you should ask her out, she can only say no. good guys gotta get out there more!! Quote [broken External Image]:http://www.2and2.net/Uploads/Images/Joe_sig1_signature.JPG Another one of Bourdy's B's, Proud Member of COB, And soon to be Mistress of the Shinto Temple of Shinoda!!!!
Xblackwidow20X Posted April 29, 2005 Posted April 29, 2005 Yup i say ask her out you never know. she seems liek she likes you. so go for it. and i agree with everone else who cares what your friends think, it should only matter how you feel. i mean everyone seems to be against my new bf and i, well family wise. and you know what i dont care cuz im happy. so you should feel the same way. hope that helps Quote [broken External Image]:http://www.powow.com/hinacnj/BLACKWIDOWLP.gif I don't need you anymore, I dont want to be ignored, i dont need one more day, Of you wasting me away................ WITH NO APOLOGIES!!!! http://www.myspace.com/xblackwidow20x
MrRandomGuy Posted April 29, 2005 Posted April 29, 2005 you ask the girl out, take a chance. Life is boring and dull when you don't take a chance. Your friends may think she's crazy or wierd, but what really matters is what you think. Don't let others feelings stop you from doing something that could benifit you. If you feel confused or wierd when you are around her, then yes you do like her. Quote backwards-sdrawkcab luaP m'I !selur dlofneveS degnevA http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/e826bc5c9f32fe33e0fffbc53963e0cb.jpg drawrof-forward check out my myspace! Join my message board All Music
misery Posted April 29, 2005 Posted April 29, 2005 I have sort of a problem. Okay. There's this girl that I'm CRAZY about. I've really liked her for a long time, and we talk every now and then and w/e. She's perfect in just about every way, just I'm a pansy when it comes to asking out girls that I actually like. Now theres this other girl. She likes me and now she wants to go out with me. I've only ever met her once though, at a school dance. She's okay, I guess. She's pretty cute, she seemed nice, and w/e. But I don't think I could go out with her while I'm still crazy about Jolynne. So my question is: should I go out with this girl? I don't really see it going anywhere because of my feelings for Jolynne, but I dunno. Any help would be much appreciated. P.S. Please don't tell me to suck it up and ask Jolynne out, I'm just wondering if I should go out with this other girl or not. Quote [broken External Image]:http://img108.imageshack.us/img108/9403/untitled28ic6.jpg [broken External Image]:http://img222.imageshack.us/img222/1118/22wc5.jpg [broken External Image]:http://img222.imageshack.us/img222/2756/7mi3.jpg
Hyper Posted April 30, 2005 Posted April 30, 2005 I have sort of a problem. Okay. There's this girl that I'm CRAZY about. I've really liked her for a long time, and we talk every now and then and w/e. She's perfect in just about every way, just I'm a pansy when it comes to asking out girls that I actually like. Now theres this other girl. She likes me and now she wants to go out with me. I've only ever met her once though, at a school dance. She's okay, I guess. She's pretty cute, she seemed nice, and w/e. But I don't think I could go out with her while I'm still crazy about Jolynne. So my question is: should I go out with this girl? I don't really see it going anywhere because of my feelings for Jolynne, but I dunno. Any help would be much appreciated. P.S. Please don't tell me to suck it up and ask Jolynne out, I'm just wondering if I should go out with this other girl or not. no. don't go out with her. i know you're crazy about jolynne, going out with a diff girl.. will fuck up your chances. if you've only met her once.. she only likes you cuz apparently you're hawt lol. stay single if you must, but if you want any chance with jolynne.. don't go out with this girl Quote Dec 13, 2004 -------- Joined LPF as the 2351st Member Apr 30, 2005 -------------------------- Promoted to Elite http://www.lpstreetteam.com/CDA5240F87574D8387EBDE8FEC733210/tracklink.asp?guid=8F1721DCBF774CCA9064DA56BC6E7DD8
stupidsoul1 Posted April 30, 2005 Posted April 30, 2005 dont go out with her....its unfair to both her and you because u dont like her in that way and she will only get hurt in the end because she will think you like her because u are going out with her. also the girl you like will think that you dont care and then go off and find some one... Quote http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/25cb22d29f0c2f027cf1acc5b7bf6cf4.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/459bb3c6fed65d05781dbdae0319d254.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/0dcf45273040e11bc56a99d4601a58d5.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/bfdf068f8fa963062b979cec565ff7f7.png Fiona is teh Fionizzle... and we all love her ^^
KillMeImIrish Posted April 30, 2005 Posted April 30, 2005 oh god misery. the worst thing you could do is go out with a girl that's just "ok." and plus, like you said, you've only met her once. ONCE! eeeek. that has trouble written all over it. so while some girls will like you, you may not like them.. and Jolynne.. if you're really crazy about her, then go for her! she's someone you actually know and LIKE.. she's not just "ok." like you said, she's perfect in every way. now would you rather: go for the girl that's just ok and that you've only met once, or the one that's perfect and already know her? hmm... doesn't sound to tough to me. Quote give me your eyes for just one second give me your eyes so i can see everything that i've been missing give me a love for humanity give me your arms for the broken-hearted the ones that are far beyond my reach
misery Posted April 30, 2005 Posted April 30, 2005 Holy shit, you guys just opened my eyes, lmao. Especially after KMII's comment, I feel kind of dumb for asking in the first place, haha. I'll let her know it's not going to happen. Thanks tons guys Quote [broken External Image]:http://img108.imageshack.us/img108/9403/untitled28ic6.jpg [broken External Image]:http://img222.imageshack.us/img222/1118/22wc5.jpg [broken External Image]:http://img222.imageshack.us/img222/2756/7mi3.jpg
KillMeImIrish Posted April 30, 2005 Posted April 30, 2005 aw. im glad this "opened your eyes".. i wouldn't want you to make a mistake such as that. don't take dating lightly... ever. after all, every date is a potential mate. don't just date anyone that comes along! oh god. i sound like my mom. Quote give me your eyes for just one second give me your eyes so i can see everything that i've been missing give me a love for humanity give me your arms for the broken-hearted the ones that are far beyond my reach
Clogz Posted April 30, 2005 Author Posted April 30, 2005 You know...I may end up posting in this thread alot, because here is another problem I had - today. Huzah, it is remarkable...check this out: So this girl who sits behind me in Algebra won't leave me alone. And its driving me mad. She is doing all the typical stuff, like asking strange questions, telling me to get a purple mohark because 'tha'd be hot' and trying to steal my desk from me. First of all, I'm uber-thick with women, so if this is flirting, how do I (in a nice way!) get it across that I'm not interested? Frankly, the age difference creeps me out (I'm 11th grade, she is 8th) and the fact that she is friends with my ex-girlfriend's best friend is not exactly comfortable either. And does my ex's friend joining in on all this mean anything? This is so bizarre! Ahhhh! Any help would be appreciated, thank you. Quote And then I felt chills in my bones / The breath I saw was not my own I knew my skin that wrapped my frame / Wasn't made to play this game XXI
stupidsoul1 Posted April 30, 2005 Posted April 30, 2005 thats not much of a age diff...but she sits behind you in algebra?? whoa she must be smart just tell her you are taken or something... Quote http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/25cb22d29f0c2f027cf1acc5b7bf6cf4.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/459bb3c6fed65d05781dbdae0319d254.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/0dcf45273040e11bc56a99d4601a58d5.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/bfdf068f8fa963062b979cec565ff7f7.png Fiona is teh Fionizzle... and we all love her ^^
Clogz Posted April 30, 2005 Author Posted April 30, 2005 She knows I'm not, otherwise I would've tried that. Quote And then I felt chills in my bones / The breath I saw was not my own I knew my skin that wrapped my frame / Wasn't made to play this game XXI
stupidsoul1 Posted April 30, 2005 Posted April 30, 2005 OH that would be right... maybe have a loud conversation about how you would rather eat your arm then like someone , or maybe talk to her about how much love sucks...you could whine alot...girls dont like people that whine. Quote http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/25cb22d29f0c2f027cf1acc5b7bf6cf4.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/459bb3c6fed65d05781dbdae0319d254.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/0dcf45273040e11bc56a99d4601a58d5.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/bfdf068f8fa963062b979cec565ff7f7.png Fiona is teh Fionizzle... and we all love her ^^
shahfire Posted April 30, 2005 Posted April 30, 2005 OH that would be right... maybe have a loud conversation about how you would rather eat your arm then like someone , or maybe talk to her about how much love sucks...you could whine alot...girls dont like people that whine. i noe of some girls who get turned on by whining. so i dun think i can count on that. anyway clogz, u can just ignore her or keep short convos and after some time, she will stop disturbing you. Quote [broken External Image]:http://img14.imgspot.com/u/05/190/02/shahsig.psd Proud member of the CoB Thank you IK for the sig!!
stupidsoul1 Posted April 30, 2005 Posted April 30, 2005 I LOVE GUYS THAT MAKE SHORT CONVOS *drools* yah haha my friend loves guys that whine when they sing..... but if they whine too much bout things like AH! my left shoe lace is longer then my right one or DUUUUDEEEEE MY DICK IS ON FIRE.....then maybe she will get freaked out Quote http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/25cb22d29f0c2f027cf1acc5b7bf6cf4.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/459bb3c6fed65d05781dbdae0319d254.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/0dcf45273040e11bc56a99d4601a58d5.png http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/bfdf068f8fa963062b979cec565ff7f7.png Fiona is teh Fionizzle... and we all love her ^^
KillMeImIrish Posted April 30, 2005 Posted April 30, 2005 i hate it when guy's make short conversations. it aggrivates me so much because then it just makes me think that they don't want to talk to me.. Quote give me your eyes for just one second give me your eyes so i can see everything that i've been missing give me a love for humanity give me your arms for the broken-hearted the ones that are far beyond my reach
i_love_mike_shinoda2 Posted April 30, 2005 Posted April 30, 2005 I have a little idea, if there is a dude sitting next to you, start writing notes saying you like someone, when you write who put: "This girl from a different school named Tiffany" or something, then when you write it, drop it by mistake hoping that she will pick it up and read it. Quote [broken External Image]:http://img261.imageshack.us/img261/5079/ilms2sig1bd.jpg Thanks Heart_LP for the siggy/ava!!
LPGotLinkinPark Posted May 1, 2005 Posted May 1, 2005 For Clogz you could just tell her to please leave you alone and that she's getting sorta annoying. Quote rep me!! | xanga | add me on myspace
linkinpark-1 Posted May 1, 2005 Posted May 1, 2005 I have sort of a problem. Okay. There's this girl that I'm CRAZY about. I've really liked her for a long time, and we talk every now and then and w/e. She's perfect in just about every way, just I'm a pansy when it comes to asking out girls that I actually like. Now theres this other girl. She likes me and now she wants to go out with me. I've only ever met her once though, at a school dance. She's okay, I guess. She's pretty cute, she seemed nice, and w/e. But I don't think I could go out with her while I'm still crazy about Jolynne. So my question is: should I go out with this girl? I don't really see it going anywhere because of my feelings for Jolynne, but I dunno. Any help would be much appreciated. P.S. Please don't tell me to suck it up and ask Jolynne out, I'm just wondering if I should go out with this other girl or not. don't go out with some one you don't like, that'd be like leading a girl on. Maybe you should start to hang out with her more and take it from there. Quote [broken External Image]:http://img65.imageshack.us/img65/2024/jjsigcopysh3.jpg [broken External Image]:http://img137.imageshack.us/img137/2696/21fv1.jpg http://www.sucksbbs.net/data/MetaMirrorCache/0e95bf2e43a7435da74db1da86fac0d9.png MySpace! Add Me!
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